September 2014 Moms

this fucking sucks- incompetent cervix inside

Short version: I'm admitted to the hospital, on complete bed rest & have a shit prognosis.

Long version: I called my ob this morning. I felt like I was peeing every time I stood up for the last couple days. They had me bring in a urine sample to check for amniotic fluid. The sample came back clear, but they wanted to do an exam to rule out any problems. After she did my pelvic exam, she told me that I had dilated some & have an incompetent cervix. The prognosis is normally poor & I needed to go to the hospital.

So I'm here now, on bed rest, in an inverted position & freaked out. My ob (the one I saw was not mine) was at the hospital. She came by to explain things further. She told me that now that the membranes are exposed, I'm at an increased risk for infection. If that happens, I'll probably go into preterm labor & lose our baby girl. Right now all I can do is lay here & wait. They won't do a cerclage at this point unless it's an emergency, I missed the window to get that done (12-14w). Hopefully I'll know more once the MFM makes his way over to see me.

   Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
"We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • Oh no! Good luck girl, that sounds so scary! Thinking of you!
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  • Oh no! I will keep you in my T&P's!!! 
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  • Oh no! My T&Ps for you and your baby.
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  • @suitern‌ thank you. I'll check that out. It helps to hear a story with a positive outcome. My doc has my pretty scared, but I know she's just trying to prepare me.

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • Oh no!! I'm so sorry! I hope everything gets better soon!! Take care! 
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    Sending you good vibes. I'm sorry you are going through this!


     

  • Oh no, I am so sorry you're going through this! T&P's for you!
    PCOS with long, irregular cycles
    First round of Clomid in May 2012= BFP #1, DD born January 2013 
    BFP #2 in January 2014, DS born September 2014

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  • Sending you lots and lots of thoughts/prayers!


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  • I have a friend who was admitted at 19 weeks for the same problem and kept her babies in (multiples) until 24.5 weeks, I know that micro preemies aren't fun, but they made it to viability. There was a girl in there at the same time as she was that made it to 37 weeks by staying in the inverted position. Hopefully your OB knows this, just make sure to limit the amount of people who do cervical checks. She also had a bed pan next to her hospital bed so that she never had to get up. I pray that you make it to full term. I can't imagine, how very scary. Prayers.

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    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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  • I'm so sorry this happened, I'll be thinking of you.
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  • Sending you lots of t&p!
  • Very scary, Im sending lots of T&P hoping that things work out positivily
    DH and I Married 11.12.10
    First BPP 1.24.14
    EDD 9.26.14

    Baby Cooper John born on 9.24.14 6lbs9oz


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  • Hang in there!  It's really good that you got to the hospital so soon and are on top of things. Lots of positive thoughts heading your way.
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  • I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. 

    To give you another positive story & some hope, I am going to share my Mom's story with you. I don't know all the details (or the exact diagnosis) but my Mom started having contractions at 16 weeks and by 20 weeks, she was dilating and in full blown pre-term labor. With bedrest, medications, and close monitoring she made it to 36 weeks and delivered a healthy baby boy. That was 21 years ago, and my brother is doing great today. 

    So try to keep hoping for the best. Medical technology has only gotten better over the last 21 years. I am keeping you and your little girl in my thoughts and prayers, and again, so sorry that you are going through this!!

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    Together since 03/27/2007
    Married 07/20/2013

    BFP #1 01/18/2014, EDD 09/26/2014, Team Green
    DD born 09/21/2014


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  • Sending you all the thoughts and hugs I possibly can! I am so sorry you are dealing with this.
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  • Thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome.
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  • That's really scary. Thoughts and prayers coming your way
  • Sending many good vibes your way.  Thinking of you, stay positive.

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  • Sending lost of thoughts and prayers your way!
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    Sending you as much love, thoughts, prayers, hugs and wishes as humanly possible.

    You're strong, you can do this. <3
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  • Oh my goodness. So sorry you are going through this. I will be thinking of you!
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  • Becky I'm so sorry you and your husband and the little one have to deal with this. I'm keeping you in all my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad they found the problem at least, and now everything that can possibly be done will be done. *hugs*

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  • Sending you good vibes and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!!!
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  • I'm so sorry.  I hope that bed rest helps and that everything turns out okay.  Good thoughts your way.
  • Sending you the best thoughts possible and hoping the MFM gives you more encouraging news.  
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  • Sending positive vibes your way; rest well (((hugs)))
    ~All are welcome~
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    I'm so sorry to read this! I hope you receive the very best care. Sending thoughts and prayers you and your daughters way.
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  • Thoughts and prayers for you, hoping for the best for you both.
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  • so rough!! i will be thinking of you and sending all the good vibes your way that i possibly can. it must be a scary time and we all know you will do your best to keep that sweet girl inside as long as possible! try to keep your spirits up!
                          
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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  • I'm so sorry. I'm sending lots of good vibes your way. I hope for a positive outcome for you and baby girl.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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  • Thinking of, and praying for you. You're in the best place possible right now with the best care you can get.

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  • I'm sorry you're going through this. Fx everything works out...please keep us updated *hugs*
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    {DH:31 all clear, "super sperm"}
    Ecstatically married July 30, 2011--TTC since Jan 2013:::Baby #1 due 9/11, Conceived on cycle #5 of Femara + Hcg + IUI
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  • I love you x1000. You know if you need anything, to just holla atcha girl.
                                                                                      
  • Oh and I'm the president of the Asshat Cervix club. You can totes be my VP, if you want!! ;)
                                                                                      
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