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How to Prevent a Particular Person From Holding My Bundle of Joy...

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Re: How to Prevent a Particular Person From Holding My Bundle of Joy...

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  • At 36 weeks pregnant, through this entire pregnancy, which has been a rough one might I add, a 'friend' of mine has been nothing but petty and spiteful. (I use friend in the loosest term possible). This was the woman whom I had a close friendship with in the past three years. She stood up with her husband at my wedding and watched my now husband and I make our vows to each other and God. This previous August, I discovered I was pregnant and was flat out stunned by it. (I mean how stunned can a person be using the NFP method, but still, nothing prepares you for when that stick turns into a positive mark!) When my husband and I went to tell her the news, she seemed to instantly know and refused to see us. She then proceded to throw the biggest tantrum in the world and was screaming, angry and throwing things left and right (her husband let that info slip to mine later on). Since then she has taken every opportunity to take a crack at me being pregnant behind my back to other people. Recently her husband and mine sat down for drinks and hashed out "our girls" problems and the short of it is that she is no longer angry and me (how kind) and that I should apologize for my stubbornness while she apologizes for her behavior these past nine months - so that she's not the only one apologizing... *blink, blink, blink* Excuse me???? And if that weren't enough, I'm to allow her to hold my baby (once he is born)???? Are you men out of your effing minds?!?!?! You want me to hand my child, my pure and innocent baby, over to a poisonous witch who will leave her dark aura to cling onto my son like a tar??? A child that I had to fight for to keep a alive and starve for 17 weeks and end up in the hospital for three rounds of dehydration and one count of preterm labor??? So my question ladies, is how do I prevent the witch from holding my child without starting a war I personally have no interest in fighting. It might help to know that both of our husbands work together, hence why I am kindly attempting to fix this problem with causing drama.
    OK, normal people do not react to other peoples pregnancy announcements by throwing tantrums and throwing things left and right...? Why would she react this way? Why would she care so much? There is a hole in this story so large the Kool Aid man could run through it...


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