Oh lord I am so irked wth dh right now! I bought a Mabis to start temping tomorrow since I start my first cycle of clomid... I read every single insert ever, so went to read it amd he says omg you are making this too difficuly this isn't some scientific calculation... I said no, it will give us an idea if I have ovulated before the bloodwork on cd 21... and he then proceeded to tell me that's what the meds are for and I need to just stop... is anyone elses dh not so into the temping? Kinda just pissed me the f off!!
Keep in mind that CD21 B/W is actually 7DPO, they say 21 based off a standard day 14 O, but a lot of times Clomid will make you O later, since you are going to be charting this cycle you will know exactly when you are 7DPO, and get more accurate results.
Tell your H to STFU, seriously. You should definitely try not to over-stress TTC, BUT you also DO NOT want to WASTE Clomid cycles by not having sex at the right times, not to mention, you want to make sure you go in for testing on the appropriate days.
Are you going for U/S checks?
Spontaneous pregnancy #1 DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
732973 Clomid Cycles
2 IUIs
3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016 Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3 Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
I didn't really talk to him about it other than to say "my alarm will go off really early every morning. Yes, it's for a reason. No, I probably won't get out of bed right away." I answered his questions when he asked, but I didn't invite his opinion on whether or not I should temp because I wanted to and it wasn't negotiable, nor did the temping itself really affect him.
If you want him to chill out about it, tell him he better hope all your efforts "fix" the IF or he's going to have to have treatments and procedures, too..
Keep in mind that CD21 B/W is actually 7DPO, they say 21 based off a standard day 14 O, but a lot of times Clomid will make you O later, since you are going to be charting this cycle you will know exactly when you are 7DPO, and get more accurate results.
Tell your H to STFU, seriously. You should definitely try not to over-stress TTC, BUT you also DO NOT want to WASTE Clomid cycles by not having sex at the right times, not to mention, you want to make sure you go in for testing on the appropriate days.
Are you going for U/S checks?
I'm not sure at this point about the u/s.
And I tried tellin dh what you said, and he of course has to be a smart ass, and says "well, I know when to go in... when its wett...." damn freak.
Keep in mind that CD21 B/W is actually 7DPO, they say 21 based off a standard day 14 O, but a lot of times Clomid will make you O later, since you are going to be charting this cycle you will know exactly when you are 7DPO, and get more accurate results.
Tell your H to STFU, seriously. You should definitely try not to over-stress TTC, BUT you also DO NOT want to WASTE Clomid cycles by not having sex at the right times, not to mention, you want to make sure you go in for testing on the appropriate days.
Are you going for U/S checks?
I'm not sure at this point about the u/s.
And I tried tellin dh what you said, and he of course has to be a smart ass, and says "well, I know when to go in... when its wett...." damn freak.
Perfect, so he just solved all your IF issues. Boom! You're pregnant. 8-|
Spontaneous pregnancy #1 DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
732973 Clomid Cycles
2 IUIs
3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016 Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3 Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
Tell your husband not to be such an arse. We don't temp, but if we did I'd probably have to remind DW, because she's really bad at remembering to do anything.
Re: ffs dh
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
If you want him to chill out about it, tell him he better hope all your efforts "fix" the IF or he's going to have to have treatments and procedures, too..
I'm not sure at this point about the u/s.
And I tried tellin dh what you said, and he of course has to be a smart ass, and says "well, I know when to go in... when its wett...." damn freak.
Me: 27 DH: 33
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI
TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!