May 2014 Moms

UPDATE Fuckity fuck fuck

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edited March 2014 in May 2014 Moms
Is that title a violation to the TOU? Hopefully not. Anyway..... Had my growth scan today and baby is still 8th percentile. No drop, so that's good. Fluid dropped from 10 (which was low, but not bad) to 5. Dr wants me to be admitted to the hospital for extended monitoring and IV fluids. IV did nothing last time, so I really don't think that will make a difference. I also have a ton to do at work today and this is the ONE day DH is out of the state on a work trip. He will be back late tonight. We have absolutely no one in the area (like family), so no one to take care of dogs and DD if I go in. We negotiated that I would go ahead and do what I need to do today and come in tonight to be admitted and have a consult with the MFM (who I love, he worked with me for my last pregnancy). The problem is, once I'm admitted, there is no telling when I can leave. It could happen that they re-measure the fluid and it is a better measurement. It could be that the fluid doesn't budge or gets lower and I'm stuck there for the rest of the pregnancy (exactly what happened with DD). I'm considering going home to feed the dogs, get some stuff and pick up DD at 3 and bring her in with me. I'm so frustrated. I really don't have the time (PTO from work) to go out this early! I saved up PTO to use it with baby! Sorry so long: TL;DR: Fluid dropped, doc wants to admit me to hospital. DH out of town and no family in area to watch DD.

Update in thread - this was long enough already ;)

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  • I am so sorry.  I have no great solutions.  That sucks!
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  • I'm sorry :( I hope you don't end up having to stay in hospital until baby comes.
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    Yikes!   Best of luck to you.  I hope that you can avoid an extended stay.
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  • Oh wow I'm sorry this is happening. At least your dh will be home tonight. I hope your lo continues to do ok.
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  • Wow, that is awful. If I lived nearby, I'd offer to help. At least your husband will be back tonight, but that definitely doesn't help with the rest of the stress today.
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  • That's really rough! Hopefully bsby is ok and it sounds like you have a great team keeping an eye on you

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  • I'm so sorry! Will be thinking of you and hoping that everything works out and that your hospital stay isn't too long!
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  • Oh man that's a sticky situation for sure!!! I really wish you had someone to watch your daughter while you had to do this and our husband was in town:( no close friends willing I watch her? Hopefully your fluid count goes up and your not stuck there for the remaining time I would go crazy!!! Fingers crossed for you!
  • :( I hope your fluid levels register higher tonight!!

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  • So sorry you're going through this! Hope you don't have an extended stay and can get out of the hospital soon! Best of luck!!

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  • I'm sorry!  

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  • aw, I'm sorry. Hang in there!
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  • Sorry you're having a shitty time. I think the title is totally justified

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  • I hope everything works out and you don't have to stay!
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  • I'm sorry that sucks, especially that you have worry about dog and child care on top of everything else. I hope it doesn't turn into an extended stay. 
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  • I'm sorry you have to deal with this, especially when your DH is out of state!
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  • Wow, that is scary and just a bad situation all around. I hope that it goes as best it can and that you aren't stuck in the hospital too long!
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  • So sorry you're dealing with this!!  Thinking of you.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm sorry! Can you take your dog to a sleep over kennel for the night?
  • I'm so sorry! I bet it really sucks to be in that position. Hugs and T&Ps!
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  • OH man that sucks.  I think the title is totally appropriate- I would be saying the same thing!  I hope you can find someone to watch your little one. Keep us posted! 
  • I'm sorry you're dealing with this. 
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  • UGh...that does suck.  Thinking about you and hope you can check into hospital and your fluid goes up.

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  • Booooooo. To all of it! FX for baby growth and increased fluid! I hope it all works out.


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  • I'm sorry that you're going through this, and I'm glad that you have a friend who can help. FX that all is okay.
  • I'm sorry. Glad you've got a friend that can help. Hope you don't have to stay in for long. T&Ps
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  • The freaky thing? This is almost to the day how far along I was with DD when the same thing happened.

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  • This sucks! I'm sorry. I hope the fluid level goes up and you aren't kept indefinitely. Keep us posted lady.
  • I am so sorry you are going through this :-(  I hope things improve so you can go home!
  • I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm glad you have your friend to help you, though. T&P's for you!
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  • Thanks all. I've decided to wrap up some work things and go in. I have a friend on spring break who I'm going to bring the car seat to and she will pick DD up at the end of the day and come to the hospital. If I'm going to be discharged, she'll leave DD with me and if not, she will take her home with her.
    I'm glad you have a short term plan...I hope everything turns out OK!

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  • Ugh I'm sorry. That sucks.
  • :( I'm sorry. Hopefully it won't be an extended stay and all goes well. T&P's
  • Sorry sounds rough , hope it all works out
  • Ugh, I'm sorry. What a shitty situation :(. Sending good vibes your way.

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  • I'm sorry, hope everything turns out ok.
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  • I just wanted to say I'm really sorry you're dealing with this.  FX your fluid levels come back up and the Dr. will let you go home!
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  • So sorry, rainy. Hope your fluid measurements improve. Glad your friend can help, keep us updated on how you're doing


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  • I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I hope being given the fluids helps and you're able to go home tonight. Keep us updated! Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
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