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Newbie Play date part 2

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Re: Newbie Play date part 2

  • Are you guys experiencing a lot of discharge?

    Yes! Just within the last week or so I've noticed an increase. I can't remember if it was like this last time around or not.


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  • Pepper6 said:

    How long before I should expect to feel 100% again?  I'm talking any stitches healed, stomach/uterus all contracted, all side effects gone, etc?

    I want to say it took about 2 weeks to start to feel completely better and functional. That's about how long it takes for the baby blues to run its course, too.

    I think I was still kind of "blah" for another 2 weeks, but I started feeling more human after 2 weeks.


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  • jshrop said:

    Okay, I have a legit question. I'm sure this was discussed in Part 1, but when the baby is born, how often should baths happen? What about hair washing? My baby is bi-racial. My husband is also bi-racial (white/black). His hair is pretty easy but my SIL has more coarse hair. I have no experience because mine is fine and oily. I don't want to dry out her skin or hair. My sister did baths daily on my nephew each evening and then would do baby massage with sleepy time lotion. I love this idea of having wind down time but wasn't sure how realistic it was.

    I bathed Nola once a week for a long time. Too much bathing can dry their skin out.


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  • MrsKipperMrsKipper member
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    I'm allowed to stay in the hospital for recovery for up to 48 hours (assuming I have a vaginal birth) - do I need to bring multiple outfits for baby while we're there? If yes - what should those be? And if no - what will s/he wear while we're in the hospital? What is good to bring the baby home in?


    (I've said this before, but I freaking love this thread!)
    I brought other outfits, but I ended up leaving her in the shirts they had for her. They put blue dye on her cord stump and it rubbed off on the shirts so I didn't want to get that on the clothes I brought. I only changed her into her going home outfit.

    ETA: I bought a special outfit for going home and it ended up being too big, so I had to put on something more casual that was smaller. I was bummed but in the long run the going home outfit isn't as big of a deal as it can be made out to be!


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  • Did breastfeeding really help anybody lose weight? I keep hearing how many calories it burns but I'm wondering if it actually helps speed up the baby weight loss.

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  • ElTrain5 said:

    Did breastfeeding really help anybody lose weight? I keep hearing how many calories it burns but I'm wondering if it actually helps speed up the baby weight loss.

    I think everyone is different and your body naturally starts shedding baby weight after the baby is born but I believe just from personal experience that it helped my belly go down. 2 friends of mine had babies the same time as I did. Neither of them BF they both looked very pregnant for a while after their babies were born. I had weight to loose and belly flab but didn't look pregnant anymore. I wondered if that was because I was nursing. I have another friend how is a crazy BF advocate and swears that BF'ing got her back in pre-pregnancy pants 2 weeks after giving birth. Well that did not happen for me so I believe that is just her. So who knows! My doctor claims it helps. Everyone is so different.
  • MrsKipperMrsKipper member
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    ElTrain5 said:

    Did breastfeeding really help anybody lose weight? I keep hearing how many calories it burns but I'm wondering if it actually helps speed up the baby weight loss.

    I breastfed for 13 months and I gained weight! I didn't start losing weight until Nola started to drop feedings and eat more solids. I was so bummed that it wasn't a magical weight loss tool for me! Everyone is different, though!


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  • @jshrop you ask good questions friend!

  • Do we really need baby powder, baby wash, baby shampoo, and baby lotion? I was thinking of just getting the wash (can be used all over) and lotion.

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    Did breastfeeding really help anybody lose weight? I keep hearing how many calories it burns but I'm wondering if it actually helps speed up the baby weight loss.

    I didn't feel like it helped me lose weight any faster necessarily but it does help your uterus go down and back to regular size so you don't look so pregnant anymore. I lost 20 lbs just by DS being born and then pretty much stayed the same while BFing because it literally makes you so hungry (at least me anyways).
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  • I'm allowed to stay in the hospital for recovery for up to 48 hours (assuming I have a vaginal birth) - do I need to bring multiple outfits for baby while we're there? If yes - what should those be? And if no - what will s/he wear while we're in the hospital? What is good to bring the baby home in?

    (I've said this before, but I freaking love this thread!)
    The hospital has a onsie for the baby in the hospital. I only brought a going home outfit. They check the baby a lot and change a lot of diapers there really isn't a need for another outfit. Also I did bring a pajama outfit and lightweight robe for myself for my stay. I didn't put it on until hours after the baby was born. I kind of think that a nightgown was the best since you are bleeding pretty bad after.

    Agree with this..baby wore a kimono onesie top that that hospital provided, a diaper, and a swaddle blanket. So many drs, nurses, etc were in an out checking her I would never have thought to dress her up. I had a going home outfit..it was a one piece carters deal and that was it. I stayed in a hospital gown the frist 24 hours and then it was old navy yoga pants, a nursing tank, and a hooded sweatshirt
  • Oh yeah... That stump. How long does it stay on and how do you clean it? Just alcohol? Does baby feel that (I assume not but....)
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  • jshrop said:
    Okay, I have a legit question. I'm sure this was discussed in Part 1, but when the baby is born, how often should baths happen? What about hair washing? My baby is bi-racial. My husband is also bi-racial (white/black). His hair is pretty easy but my SIL has more coarse hair. I have no experience because mine is fine and oily. I don't want to dry out her skin or hair. My sister did baths daily on my nephew each evening and then would do baby massage with sleepy time lotion. I love this idea of having wind down time but wasn't sure how realistic it was.


    I only bathed DD maybe twice a week..so every 3 days or so? She had a crapload of hair and dry skin and honestly didn't get too dirty since she slept and ate all day. Blowouts, poop explosions etc sometimes meritted an extra bath. It didn't affect our bedtime routine too much...which didn't really start until 2-3 months.

     

  • Pepper6 said:
    How long before I should expect to feel 100% again?  I'm talking any stitches healed, stomach/uterus all contracted, all side effects gone, etc?

    I think it depends on your delivery. I had a 3rd degree tear and an episiotomy. I honestly didn't feel normal until my  6 wk appt. It was sort of a new normal. I'd say it took me 3 weeks to not feel uncomfortable sitting. I was scared of going to the bathroom, convinced myself I had hemmroids, you name it. I don't know if it was a psychological thing..but once I was cleared medically, i felt better.
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    Oh yeah... That stump. How long does it stay on and how do you clean it? Just alcohol? Does baby feel that (I assume not but....)

    it stays on an average of about two weeks. some stay on longer, some fall off sooner. it doesn't hurt them when you clean it. just rubbing alcohol on a clean cotton ball. it will sometimes bleed and ooze a little bit usually from clothes rubbing on it so just watch to make sure it isn't excessive. and whatever you do resist the urge to pull it off if it's hanging on halfway or by a thread!
  • ElTrain5 said:
    Did breastfeeding really help anybody lose weight? I keep hearing how many calories it burns but I'm wondering if it actually helps speed up the baby weight loss.

    Not for me (I know that isn't what you want to hear). I dropped almost 30 pounds (I gained 53) within the first couple months and then I didn't lose ANY more until I quit BFing.
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  • jshrop said:
    Oh yeah... That stump. How long does it stay on and how do you clean it? Just alcohol? Does baby feel that (I assume not but....)
    The stumps are gross. They say four to seven days, c's was closer to two weeks and they ended up having to cauterize it. Gross. Baby doesn't really notice. You clean it with an alcohol wipe once or twice a day, helps to dry it out, and eventually it falls off. If you are lucky you notice and throw it right away. If not, you'll find it eventually...

    oh yuck. Good god. I'm not a squeamish person but how often am I going to be gagging at this kid and her bodily functions lol? Can I just pass the gross stuff off to a nanny and just play and dance around with her in between the yucky stuff?
    Before I get flamed, I'm kidding. But seriously, what is the gross factor on the baby? Is my husband (who is squeamish) going to be able to deal lol? I guess the main question, what is all the gross stuff I'm going to have to deal with? What don't they tell you in these baby classes that I'm not expecting?
     
     
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    I just laughed way too hard. Babies/toddlers/kids are gross, in general. You really do get used to it. And I firmly believe that when it's your own child, you have a much higher tolerance for the grossness. I am generally super squeamish about snot and vomit and with my own kid, it doesn't really phase me (well, most of the time...). I mean, they are fully dependent on you to take care of them so you witness and deal with every single bodily function possible. You WILL - at some point - get peed on, pooped on, puked on. For me, the pee and poop never bothered me near as much as the puke or mucus.
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  • @jshrop - Newborn poop/pee/puke is generally not that gross, especially if you breastfeed. The poop doesn't smell and it's not that hard to clean up. I wasn't grossed out by the newborn phase at all.

    Once they start eating meat, it's a whole different thing, but you get very used to it. 

    TBH the absolute WORST thing is when DD is congested and throws up. A lot. When she was BFing, she would throw up all over me. Curdled milk + food is nasty, but I didn't gag. It's a weird, you're thinking "ew - this is gross", but also "what's wrong with baby? is baby ok?". 

  • I lost a lot of weight nursing (I weighed less than I did pre-pregnancy) but, I was also on a serious diet -milk, soy, wheat, egg, nut, corn,etc, free. Dd was intolerant and I had to give it all up to nurse her without it distressing her system and making her tummy bleed.
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  • MrsKipper said:
    I'm allowed to stay in the hospital for recovery for up to 48 hours (assuming I have a vaginal birth) - do I need to bring multiple outfits for baby while we're there? If yes - what should those be? And if no - what will s/he wear while we're in the hospital? What is good to bring the baby home in?

    (I've said this before, but I freaking love this thread!)
    I brought other outfits, but I ended up leaving her in the shirts they had for her. They put blue dye on her cord stump and it rubbed off on the shirts so I didn't want to get that on the clothes I brought. I only changed her into her going home outfit. ETA: I bought a special outfit for going home and it ended up being too big, so I had to put on something more casual that was smaller. I was bummed but in the long run the going home outfit isn't as big of a deal as it can be made out to be!
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  • I'm still trying to get an idea of what clothes I'll really need for these babies, and one thing that has me completely sideways is (of all things) socks!  It drives me nuts to see socks dangling off babies' and toddlers' feet, even more so when one goes completely missing.  I've been trying to stock up on footed onesies for times that they'll need the extra warmth, but how essential is it to keep their piggies wrapped up, particularly in the warmer months?  I pretty much go barefoot year-round when I'm at home, but I don't want my girls' feet to freeze.
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    Oh yeah... That stump. How long does it stay on and how do you clean it? Just alcohol? Does baby feel that (I assume not but....)
    There are some studies out now (in the past few years) showing that using alcohol on it makes no difference. Our hospital no longer has you do anything with the stump. It should fall off ~7-10 days after birth. And I don't think they feel anything- they certainly don't react at all when it is touched.
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  • MrsKipper said:

    I'm allowed to stay in the hospital for recovery for up to 48 hours (assuming I have a vaginal birth) - do I need to bring multiple outfits for baby while we're there? If yes - what should those be? And if no - what will s/he wear while we're in the hospital? What is good to bring the baby home in?

    (I've said this before, but I freaking love this thread!)
    I brought other outfits, but I ended up leaving her in the shirts they had for her. They put blue dye on her cord stump and it rubbed off on the shirts so I didn't want to get that on the clothes I brought. I only changed her into her going home outfit.

    ETA: I bought a special outfit for going home and it ended up being too big, so I had to put on something more casual that was smaller. I was bummed but in the long run the going home outfit isn't as big of a deal as it can be made out to be!

    What is the blue dye for?

    I have no idea, to be honest. They told us about it in our expectant parenting class but I can't remember. I don't know of everywhere does it.


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  • How do you know if your water has broken?  I'm not talking about the full-out Niagra Falls break, I mean the trickle.  Did you know?  Did you not know?

    Nobody believed me when mine broke because it wasn't a huge gush. It was just a little trickle whenever I would make any sudden movements. I went out to dinner, packed my hospital bag, had DH install the car seat.... Totally in denial the whole time. I had a gut feeling that's what it was but second guessed myself the whole time. At L&D the nurse tested it and even told me it tested negative for amniotic fluid. Then she pushed up on DD's head and it gushed everywhere. She was in there just perfectly that it plugged it. So no, you won't always be sure!
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  • satrimm said:

    I plan on using my Bob stroller as my one and only. I've researched around and have read that with the car seat attachment it can be a pain, not to mention the car seat we have already (and I love) doesn't work with the bob. I did register for the attachment and another car seat as I bought the car seat I already have & I'm sure I can let my boyfriend use that in his truck when needed/give to my parents whenever I'm done using it w the stroller BUT do I really need to do the car seat attachment in the stroller? Obviously I don't plan on doing anything other than light stuff such as shopping/going to see people/whatever until the baby is strong enough for me to use it as a jogging stroller as well. I just haven't found a TON of information on if it's that huge of a deal to use it from the get go

    I loved the stroller attachment for our baby jogger for DS and used it all the time and will use it again this time. it's so easy to just pop the car seat in and out. also if baby is asleep when you get to wherever you're going you don't have to wake them up which is a plus.
  • I knew it was my water breaking and not pee because it was a different texture/color.  It was super clear and had a little smoothness to it, not slimey, but just shy of slimey, I'm not sure how to describe it.  I had little trickles the whole time. 

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  • ELC252011ELC252011 member
    edited March 2014
    So I plan on washing most of her clothes this weekend. Is there a difference between dreft and tide free and clear? Also I'm I supposed to wash beanies, sox, wash clothes or just clothes and blankets?

    Edit: spelling is hard.
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    Along the lines of pregnancy symptoms that disappear post delivery - my veins are now much more noticeable, especially on my boobs and legs. Assuming this is due to increased blood flow and swelling particularly in my boobs which have grown a lot. Will I remain "veiny" after birth? Not as concerned with my boobs, but with my legs staying this way. Thanks ladies for all your great info, has been so helpful for a FTM.
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