Ok so my husband's aunt and her daughters have graciously offered to throw me a shower and of course I accepted their offer! My only worry is that she wants to have it RIGHT after the baby is born so that my MIL and SIL will be in town for it. I'm concerned about this. She has it set for 5 days after my due date, and all I can think about is how it's perfectly possible he won't be born on time and might come the day of the shower. OR even if he does come on time, I can't stop worrying about whether I will be in any condition to enjoy a social gathering of any kind that soon after giving birth. I don't want to be rude and ask that it be a different time, and I don't want to decline the offer since I'm so touched that they extended it and I know they're eager to celebrate since this will be the first baby on that side of the family.... I guess I'm looking for some reassurance that I won't be so sleep deprived and hormonal as to make it a stressful event for myself.