On Saturday we were leaving home and walked by a mother and her two children. She cautioned one of them "Tristan, don't do x,y,z." Which got me to thinking about the name. I love the mythology aspect of it and I asked DH what he thought. It sounds okay with our last name, and works well with our son's name, etc.
DH: I don't think either of us is good looking enough to have a son named Tristan.
Re: DH's thoughts on Tristan
LOLOL!
FTR, that's DH's set-in-stone name if we ever had a boy
I know one 5 year old Tristan, he's got curly brown hair, freckles, and blue eyes. A doll.
The only adult Tristan I know is a personal trainer at the gym I used to work with. Super smart, very fit guy. So yeah, I have a very positive association with the name, and I don't get why people think it's feminine.
I just do not like the name Tristan at all. It's very popular for boys where I live, but it just seems girly to me.
4/25/14 12:41am
I will admit, the s gives it a "softer" sound, which I tend to like in boy names (Ellis, Linus, August) but not every name has to be Butch, Bruce, or Rock to make it masculine.