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When did you tell family...

Hi ladies... So I just got a BFP a few hours ago and not calling my mom right away was just NOT an option. So I did! we told DH's parents tonight too. We plan to tell everyone else around 12 weeks and maybe we should have waited with everyone but I just couldn't! What did you do/are you planning to do?
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Re: When did you tell family...

  • Told family, close friends right away. The world at 10 weeks, after our first appointment.
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  • We told our parents right away, friends at 6 weeks, FB at 13 weeks. 

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  • With DS we waited until 13 weeks to tell anyone. This time around I'm still debating. Maybe after my 1st u/s if all is well. 
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  • I'm a little over 5 weeks along, and we still haven't told family. I'd like to wait until after our confirmation u/s (scheduled for 7w3d), but it's getting harder and harder to keep my mouth shut.

    Three of my coworkers know because they're going to have to start covering for me soon when I need to leave my classroom suddenly if I have m/s.

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  • Family at 10 weeks. Good friends at 11 weeks. Extended family and coworkers at 12 weeks.

    At this point it's open season, but we don't plan to announce on facebook until later (if at all, to be honest).
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  • My parents found out when I got the positive so 4 or 5 weeks? We waited to tell the ILs until after the blood test at the doc confirmed (they make you do a blood test at our doctor's), soo they found out at 7 weeks?  Then the rest of the world found out when I was 12 or 13 weeks
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  • Oh boy. I told my family at 5 weeks because we are all very close and I cant keep a secret!
  • Told parents right before the 9 week mark, idk when we will tell other people.

     
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  • I wanted to wait until 12 weeks to tell people.  However, MIL decided she was going to visit us on the day of my first pre-natal appointment.  I was dealing with nausea and dizzy spells so there was no way she wouldn't notice something was going on.  So I called my mom because I wanted her to know first and then DH called his mom.  Then he went and told the rest of his family.  
  • With our first BFP, we told everyone within a few weeks. It turned out to be a MMC (blighted ovum), so we had a lot of un-telling to do. 

    With this one, we waited until our first scan at 7 weeks before telling our parents. Then we told everyone else after our NT scan. 

    Once you've had to un-tell people, you become far more cautious of telling in the future. Congrats though! 

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    09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

    10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

    12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

    05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

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