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I may need my head examined

karichkarich member
in February 2014 Moms
I'm reading through the "birth control" thread, and seeing how so many of you are talking about when you'll try for another.

Now, I have 3 kids, and we really need to be done for many reasons.
But thinking that this is my last baby makes me so sad!
There has got to be something wrong that after 3, I still don't feel the "I am so done" feeling that so many other people talk about having.
Please tell me I'm not the only one that is having very bittersweet feelings about closing up the shop.
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  • sdlaurasdlaura member
    edited March 2014
    I don't think you're crazy. I think whenever we decide we're done, it will be a tough decision and I'll be sad about it, even if I'm sure it's the right decision. We decided to reevaluate our family size in a couple years.
    BFP #1 9/2010 (lost our baby at 21 weeks) BFP #2 8/2011 (ectopic pregnancy) BFP #3 10/2011 (chemical pregnancy) BFP #4 12/2011 (Abigail born 8/15/12) BFP #5 5/2013 (Griffin born 1/23/14 with heart defects, now repaired!)

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  • MamaHollywood27MamaHollywood27 member
    Your not nuts :) and if you are I am to then! After my 3rd I was "done" after my 4th I was "done" and now after my 5th I'm "done". I contemplated getting my tubes tied after 4 and 5 and just never did. DH says NOoooooo more! Which is probably smart considering my PTL and vomit fests BUT @RondackHiker‌ is right! Baby snuggles are hella dangerous!
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  • MamaHollywood27MamaHollywood27 member
    Whoaaa my first tag via Mobil! Nice :)
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  • littlepig2littlepig2 member
    I'm a FTM but I'm already forgetting how much I hated being pregnant... and nauseas and the progesterone suppositories and the contractions for 84 weeks...
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  • JackieP1023JackieP1023 member
    utpony said:

    I had a really tough pregnancy, and an even worse delivery. Do I want another? Yup. I'm still in pain and willing to do it all over. DH doesn't want to see me go through all that again and wants to stick with one. It makes me sad that this could be it :-\

    This. I am the oldest of 5, and always pictured myself having 2-3 kids. DH says 1 is enough. In order to get this one here, we suffered a 2nd tri loss, secondary infertility, and then once we finally got pregnant, had to have a cerclage, weekly shots, modified bed rest, extra pills... And then the delivery went so quick-my doctor wants me to get my tubes tied. We (DH and I) haven't decided if we will try again or not. And that makes me super sad.


    dx PCOS 2007

    BFP #1 (natural) 12/23/2010. Stillbirth due to IC 4/2/2011

    TTC #2 starting 03/2012

    RE starting 07/2012

    05/2013 BFP on a Letrozole (Femara)/trigger!

    Cerclage, Procardia, Makena, GD (with insulin), MBR, and we made it!  


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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    Our Angel was born sleeping at 20 weeks due to IC.

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  • inluv4life2inluv4life2 member
    We always said we'd have two but I really want another!!
    I hope to create a real siggy but first I need some sleep!

    Mom to Lily and Colin!
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