Dear Judgy Mom

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• [Deleted User] member

  March 2014

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• jennipalmer member

  March 2014

  In a few years when Abby surpasses her children she will eat her words! Speech delay has nothing to do with intelligence .

   

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• KKinATX member

  March 2014

  I think the "slow" one is this stupid lady!  Who says something like that???  Your response was great.  I am never good in those types of situations.

  

  
  

  
  

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• PrimRoseMama member

  March 2014

  MRads said:

  You handled it very well. Abby sounds like an utter delight.
  
  I feel like people think they have carte Blanche when it comes to kids. Since B got his helmet, I have been asked if the baby is dying, if I thought a helmet would help random dude's bunny with a neurological issue and most heartbreaking a mom told her daughter not to look at the disabled baby. There's nothing wrong with our kids. Some adults have major issues though.

  Huge throat punches. I'm so sorry you experienced that!
  

  
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• ljs4117 member

  March 2014 edited March 2014

  I really hope that was just an especially idiotic moment for that lady and that she realized how insensitive her comment/question was later. I can't imagine making those kinds of assumptions (out loud, especially) about another child, and then to compare with her children? Wow..
  
  I'm sorry that she said those things to you. It's evident from the other mothers' reactions that they never thought such a thing. I bet they were appalled too!
  
  ETA: also, even if your child had "something wrong with her" (as she so eloquently put it), what's with the judgement? Will she not encourage her children to embrace differences and withhold judgement based on such shallow shit? Ughh.. So many kinds of fucked up...

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• je2161 member

  March 2014

  What a horrible thing to think let alone say! Some people are sooo freakin rude!
  Sorry you had to deal with her idiocy!

  

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• NKF312 member

  March 2014

  What a jerk!!!!

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• Lelo2006 member

  March 2014

  What a fricking bitch. You are a classy lady for not throat punching. Seriously, that is such a rude thing to say.

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• WifeyLovesHubs member

  March 2014

  Ew! Sorry you had to deal with that Prim! People never cease to amaze me. Your daughter is perfectly fine, but what if she did have some sort of disability. Is that seriously how she would approach it? What ever happened to tact? I'm so mad for you.
  

  

   

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• dliz87 member

  March 2014

  This makes me so sad!!!!!!
  It is ridiculous that people feel the need to call out others in order to elevate themselves because they are THAT insecure. Kudos to you, Prim, for handling the situation with such grace.

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• [Deleted User] member

  March 2014

  WTF! What is wrong with people. I'm sorry you had to deal with that lady. You held it together better than i would have. Abby is doing great, don't let anyone make you feel otherwise.

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• martyn17 member

  March 2014

  Judgy isn't the right word for that rude socially incompetent woman. She's just an idiot.

  K & M married 10.8.2011 *** BFP 7.17.2012, EDD 3.21.2013, Miscarriage at 6 wks 3 days *** BFP #2 11.7.2012, beautiful Tess born 7.11.2013
  

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• merc5411 member

  March 2014

  She's a bitch.  And one of those people who feels better about themselves by trying to find fault with someone else or by putting them down.
  
  Abby is wonderful and already more intelligent than that woman!
  
  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Cocolamo1 member

  March 2014

  Lurking from A13... Some people have no class! As a pediatric SLP, specializing in early intervention, I can assure you that learning to talk has very little to do with intelligence. Every child develops at their own pace and just because they do it early doesn't mean they do it better down the road. Furthermore, what if your child did have a disability?! How rude and inconsiderate to address someone that way.

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• Clyde013 member

  March 2014

  I feel bad for that mom's kids. That is such a ridiculous thing to say! Don't listen to crazy.

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• Pink724 member

  March 2014

  WTF is wrong with her. Has she also been hanging around the BSB board lately?

  Mom to three girls and pregnant with #4!
  L: 7/12/13
  C: 5/11/15
  E: 3/7/17
  Due 11/10/18

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• saphires member

  March 2014

  What a horrible thing to say. I am so sorry you had to deal with that. You handled it a lot better than i would have.

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

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• Kitten80 member

  March 2014

  No words. It takes a lot to leave a SLP speechless. Sorry, Prim. No one thinks that. Your LO is perfect and doing great with therapy.

   

   

   

   

   

  

  

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• lovemyminions member

  March 2014

  I can't believe she said that! What a bit h!

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• kmd78 member

  March 2014

  i'm really late to the party but I would have lost my shit. What is wrong with people?!? Good for you for keeping your cool- people like this is the exact reason we walked by the playground the other day and kept on walking. Your daughter is strong and amazing!!

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