Mine is from Saturday, but I'm still pissed off about it. We were woken up, at 5:30 am on a Saturday, by our neighbors fighting. Again. Like, she goes ballistic, screaming and throwing shit, and we can hear EVERY WORD! This is the second time they've fought that early in the AM. And it's about the
Millionth time they've fought that loud in the MONTH since they moved in. My DH told me to calm down and ignore it, but I told him next time, I'm calling the police. That's just uncalled for. Even my neighbors next door, who are SUPER chill, were pounding on the wall, trying to get them to shut the hell up.
Exactly as PP said. Call the cops next time, you never know you could be preventing something really bad from happening next time.
Mine is from Saturday, but I'm still pissed off about it. We were woken up, at 5:30 am on a Saturday, by our neighbors fighting. Again. Like, she goes ballistic, screaming and throwing shit, and we can hear EVERY WORD! This is the second time they've fought that early in the AM. And it's about the
Millionth time they've fought that loud in the MONTH since they moved in. My DH told me to calm down and ignore it, but I told him next time, I'm calling the police. That's just uncalled for. Even my neighbors next door, who are SUPER chill, were pounding on the wall, trying to get them to shut the hell up.
I wouldn't be willing to live like this so I agree with you & the pp's...call the cops.
Stupid mobile is all messed up for me! I don't have my back arrow to go back to the list of threads, so I have to close each one, then click into the BMB then on the thread. And I can't attach a pic from a quote! Argh!
So @zarakella I have the same bump at the boobs issue. From the front it's a question of fatter or pregnant, but from my angle up top, I have a distinct bump in place. When my mother in law griped that I wasn't looking that pregnant yet, I texted her this picture instead, so she can see what I see. Total bump!
Frick frack! I have the attach button from here, but it's doesn't freakin work! Never mind. No pic.
He's also walking a thin line of likening anything I do wrong to what his f-ed up mother did- ie. we're fighting about finances, and grocery budgets and he started lecturing me on cutting back (I shop he does finances...ps I told him to give me a budget months ago, years ago, repeatedly, never happened).
If he can't help you make a plan (budget) then how can he expect you to follow what doesn't exist? A budget is just a written plan.
My supervisor does crap like this. It's like I'm expected to pass tests that I wasn't even aware I was taking. So...how does he expect you to know what is "too much" if you both don't define what too much actually is to you?
I'm really really upset because I just found out that I missed the deadline to enter the costume contest for the convention we're going to at the end of the month. I got my weeks mixed up. We reached out to see if there's anything we can do, and nope. These aren't even the best costumes I've done, but this is my last shot to compete on a major stage, who knows when or even if I'll get to do this again? I can't exactly fly a 2 year old to Comic Con and expect him to handle the experience well. I know it's silly, but I'm crazy upset by this.
Also DH works nights every single day this week because it's inventory week. So unless I can stay up past midnight to see him I won't see him for a week, even though we live in the same house.
Today just makes me want to give up and go back to bed.
Yesterday we had to go to DH's nephews bday party. They said it would be at a pizza place, they didn't didn't say the place was Chuckie Cheese gone wild. Huge ass buffet of pizza, pasta, salad and dessert, and a gigantic arcade. Which wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't also apparently the place where manners go to die. So many people, just running around and screaming and spilling shit everywhere and all of their kids doing the same thing.
We got a "party room" for an hour and 45min, MIL showed up 40 min late, the FI of the sister showed up an hour late, and was the one with the cake (which tasted awful). Biggest clusterfuck i ever saw. Not to mention that DH's 2 sisters basically sat and talked about how the FI is such a loser POS until he got there. Also? The FI's sister showed up looking like she just got done working the corner, who wheres leopard/fishnet cut out tights and the worlds shortest mini skirt with knee highs to a 2 year olds birthday. And did i mention that FI's family and DH's mom/sisters do not get along at all?
And i got left standing for 30 min against a pillar waiting around for DH to find his mom to tell her i was leaving.
Lastly, SIL also asked me if had scheduled my c-section yet. When i said no, why on earth would i do that, she was like but you have had a ton more issues then i've had At which point i had to tell her that just because i had issues that didn't mean i was signing up for unnecessary major surgery. And the "Are you sure you want more then one kid?!? I could never go through all the crap that you are." being said a million times.
You're a much better person than me for standing around that long. Those danged pizza places are birth control. You see that many screaming impolite people/kids in one room & it scares the bejeebus out of me.
I once had to tell three 13 year olds to stop running at Chuck E. Cheese because they nearly mowed down my 2 year old. And the place was pretty empty on a weekday before lunch. Their three moms were sitting around talking while their three teenagers tormented each other with Nerf guns. I was MAD.
The puking is back in full force.... Like, I hadn't even finished chewing before I had to run to the bathroom.... After four blissful weeks with no nausea this has got me seriously bitchy today.
I have a checkup in two hours though so hearing a little heartbeat will remind me to stay positive!
Yesterday we had to go to DH's nephews bday party. They said it would be at a pizza place, they didn't didn't say the place was Chuckie Cheese gone wild. Huge ass buffet of pizza, pasta, salad and dessert, and a gigantic arcade. Which wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't also apparently the place where manners go to die. So many people, just running around and screaming and spilling shit everywhere and all of their kids doing the same thing.
We got a "party room" for an hour and 45min, MIL showed up 40 min late, the FI of the sister showed up an hour late, and was the one with the cake (which tasted awful). Biggest clusterfuck i ever saw. Not to mention that DH's 2 sisters basically sat and talked about how the FI is such a loser POS until he got there. Also? The FI's sister showed up looking like she just got done working the corner, who wheres leopard/fishnet cut out tights and the worlds shortest mini skirt with knee highs to a 2 year olds birthday. And did i mention that FI's family and DH's mom/sisters do not get along at all?
And i got left standing for 30 min against a pillar waiting around for DH to find his mom to tell her i was leaving.
Lastly, SIL also asked me if had scheduled my c-section yet. When i said no, why on earth would i do that, she was like but you have had a ton more issues then i've had At which point i had to tell her that just because i had issues that didn't mean i was signing up for unnecessary major surgery. And the "Are you sure you want more then one kid?!? I could never go through all the crap that you are." being said a million times.
Complete nightmare.
I hate those kinds of places. It's like they pump in crazy gas and everyone just loses their shit and forgets how to be a human being.
Yesterday we had to go to DH's nephews bday party. They said it would be at a pizza place, they didn't didn't say the place was Chuckie Cheese gone wild. Huge ass buffet of pizza, pasta, salad and dessert, and a gigantic arcade. Which wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't also apparently the place where manners go to die. So many people, just running around and screaming and spilling shit everywhere and all of their kids doing the same thing.
We got a "party room" for an hour and 45min, MIL showed up 40 min late, the FI of the sister showed up an hour late, and was the one with the cake (which tasted awful). Biggest clusterfuck i ever saw. Not to mention that DH's 2 sisters basically sat and talked about how the FI is such a loser POS until he got there. Also? The FI's sister showed up looking like she just got done working the corner, who wheres leopard/fishnet cut out tights and the worlds shortest mini skirt with knee highs to a 2 year olds birthday. And did i mention that FI's family and DH's mom/sisters do not get along at all?
And i got left standing for 30 min against a pillar waiting around for DH to find his mom to tell her i was leaving.
Lastly, SIL also asked me if had scheduled my c-section yet. When i said no, why on earth would i do that, she was like but you have had a ton more issues then i've had At which point i had to tell her that just because i had issues that didn't mean i was signing up for unnecessary major surgery. And the "Are you sure you want more then one kid?!? I could never go through all the crap that you are." being said a million times.
Complete nightmare.
Oh my dear! That sounds horrible. First off I hate, I mean hate CC! Exactly what you said, everyone is like a wild manic! Second, SIL sounds like a real peach! That story makes me want to have a drink.
My classroom is right across the hall from the staff bathroom. I was about to get up from my desk to go to the bathroom and I saw another teacher walk by and heard her go in the bathroom. I figured I'd just sit here and listen for her to leave rather than waiting in the hallway. The toilet flushed and she opened the door right away and didn't wash her hands!! Never even ran the water. We work in a SCHOOL, how does she think illnesses spread so fast? It's bad enough when kids do it, but adults...come on ~X( disgusting.
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The Bump hates me apparently. I can't stay logged in long enough to respond or post or even love tit you guys! Its driving me crazy logging in every time I want to comment so I've stayed away for a week out of pure frustration. WTF Bump, I miss hanging out here!
1) DH wanted to stay out late with friends last night despite our early flight to another island. So I man up, am in good spirits until 10:30pm (1:30am my home state time). But then he gets pissy this morning that I'm sloth like and need caffeine to help. 2) when I asked him to get me an iced tea or a coke (as second choice) he sweetly goes... But comes back with a Snapple and gets pissy when I say "thank you but I don't want that. I will go get it myself." I'm pretty sure he stomped his feet. WTH? I gave you two options; so don't get pissed at me when you tried to skip the line for fountain drinks and get me something you have never in your life seen me drink. 3) I just want to get to Kauai and sleep for a couple more hours before we have an adventure. No such luck though as we can't check in for 6 more hours.
Ooh I've got another MIL one. She keeps buying me random stuff off of my registry, but she is buying HER version of it. I.E. I had a bottle drying rack on Amazon I was excited about. I researched reviews, checked everything out, checked measurements for counter space - all of that. Easy peazy.
She goes and buys the cheap ass (ok so it was $2 cheaper) version of what I had picked out. Reviews aren't nearly as good and it's butt ugly/cheap looking. So I don't get the one I wanted, I get her version and I have to rationally take the one I wanted off of my registry now, because I don't really need 2 of them. She did the previously with a couple of other items. The real rub is that she buys them off of Amazon and she knows I have a registry there so she completely disregards my wishes. I mean, it's nice she wants to help us? But dude, it's such a blatant power trip.
Plus, I was making homemade onesies this weekend and she took it upon herself to criticize how I was making them, the designs I had picked out, how the pillow case on the ironing board was wrinkled, how many designs to fit on one sheet of iron on printer paper, etc etc etc. I've made dozens of these for my GFs, she has never made a single one and suddenly she is dictating how I should make them? GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!
Two of my SILs did that with stuff on my bridal registry. One bought me a different down comforter because it was better than one I registered for. Ok, whatever. Another one bought me totally different wine glasses because she liked them better. They were so tall they wouldn't even fit in my cabinet. She included a gift receipt, so back to the store they went and I bought the ones I wanted. My MIL also told me at the time that she checked out the silverware on my registry and that it was cheap and I should pick something else out. I did and then two other SILs bought me a completely different set anyway.
I know its considered rude to complain about gifts, but seriously?
My classroom is right across the hall from the staff bathroom. I was about to get up from my desk to go to the bathroom and I saw another teacher walk by and heard her go in the bathroom. I figured I'd just sit here and listen for her to leave rather than waiting in the hallway. The toilet flushed and she opened the door right away and didn't wash her hands!! Never even ran the water. We work in a SCHOOL, how does she think illnesses spread so fast? It's bad enough when kids do it, but adults...come on ~X( disgusting.
Effing gross! The controller at the place I used to work was notorious for not washing her hands after using the bathroom. She also used to reach her nasty hands into whatever you were eating for lunch to try a bite. It was disgusting, and no matter how much lyscol spray we used on door handles and around the office everyone got sick all the time. Ugh, just thinking about it is making me ill! I don't miss anything about that woman.
She was a nice lady though. (I say this after talking shit about anybody, I feel like it makes everything OK)
I'm not sure mine is a true bitch, but it's something that is frustrating me.
My parents offered to buy us our crib, dresser/changing table and glider. We were so excited and grateful for the offer, but neither one of them will give us a budget. We registered at BRU and told my mom that we'd look at the their furniture.
Well the only things we really liked were really expensive, so I texted her this morning and told her that I didn't think she needed to spend $1,500+ on baby furniture, so I would look at Target to see what they had.
Her response? "Yeah, I'm not going to be spending that much,"
When I asked what she felt comfortable spending and I got no response, except that she didn't think Target would be good enough quality! I am so frustrated because she isn't giving me a budget, except that BRU was too expensive and she doesn't want to buy from Target.
I kind of just want to see if they would like to buy our carseat and stroller instead. I feel that would be MUCH easier and less frustrating at this point.
I'm not sure mine is a true bitch, but it's something that is frustrating me.
My parents offered to buy us our crib, dresser/changing table and glider. We were so excited and grateful for the offer, but neither one of them will give us a budget. We registered at BRU and told my mom that we'd look at the their furniture.
Well the only things we really liked were really expensive, so I texted her this morning and told her that I didn't think she needed to spend $1,500+ on baby furniture, so I would look at Target to see what they had.
Her response? "Yeah, I'm not going to be spending that much,"
When I asked what she felt comfortable spending and I got no response, except that she didn't think Target would be good enough quality! I am so frustrated because she isn't giving me a budget, except that BRU was too expensive and she doesn't want to buy from Target.
I kind of just want to see if they would like to buy our carseat and stroller instead. I feel that would be MUCH easier and less frustrating at this point.
We went through the same thing and it took a long time for MIL to come around with the fact that she already had the one she wanted and was willing to purchase. It was from Costco and good quality (Cafekid). We would have saved a lot of headache shopping at other stores/sending her pics had she just come out with it!
I cut up an apple and gave it to DH to feed to DD, did he? Nope he ate the whole thing himself. WTH? I cut that up for her, you are an adult if you want one go get one yourself.
Ooh I've got another MIL one. She keeps buying me random stuff off of my registry, but she is buying HER version of it. I.E. I had a bottle drying rack on Amazon I was excited about. I researched reviews, checked everything out, checked measurements for counter space - all of that. Easy peazy.
She goes and buys the cheap ass (ok so it was $2 cheaper) version of what I had picked out. Reviews aren't nearly as good and it's butt ugly/cheap looking. So I don't get the one I wanted, I get her version and I have to rationally take the one I wanted off of my registry now, because I don't really need 2 of them. She did the previously with a couple of other items. The real rub is that she buys them off of Amazon and she knows I have a registry there so she completely disregards my wishes. I mean, it's nice she wants to help us? But dude, it's such a blatant power trip.
Plus, I was making homemade onesies this weekend and she took it upon herself to criticize how I was making them, the designs I had picked out, how the pillow case on the ironing board was wrinkled, how many designs to fit on one sheet of iron on printer paper, etc etc etc. I've made dozens of these for my GFs, she has never made a single one and suddenly she is dictating how I should make them? GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!
Two of my SILs did that with stuff on my bridal registry. One bought me a different down comforter because it was better than one I registered for. Ok, whatever. Another one bought me totally different wine glasses because she liked them better. They were so tall they wouldn't even fit in my cabinet. She included a gift receipt, so back to the store they went and I bought the ones I wanted. My MIL also told me at the time that she checked out the silverware on my registry and that it was cheap and I should pick something else out. I did and then two other SILs bought me a completely different set anyway.
I know its considered rude to complain about gifts, but seriously?
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My MIL did this with my bridal shower as well. We registered for a nice tea kettle that matched our decor. My MIL bought us TWO tea kettles that of course do not match at all.
She didn't even get them because she thought we would like them. She loves tea and explicitly stated that she likes THESE kettles and will use them for HER tea when she visits. Wtf?! I also know that this is a present and I should be grateful, but she JUST told me that she bought us a present for herself, and since she didn't like what we picked out she took the liberty of buying what she liked better.
I felt guilty for about two seconds before putting her teapots in the closet. We received the other kettle from our registry and I use that one. So go get your bottle rack!!
The upper management at my OB office decided that all the nurses needed to rotate between the three doctors in the office. I HATED the nurse that I got today. She asked me if I brought my own shot (um no your office orders them and keeps them), she poked me a good 6 inches higher for my shot than normal, she left me and told me to catch the doctor on my own while she went to the bathroom, she tried to send me home without taking my bp and baby heart tones, and when she did take my bp she walked off and left me sitting in the chair forever hooked up to the machine. She had HORRIBLE bedside manor and I hated every minute of her. I hope they change it back soon so I get my regular nurse. I miss her.
It's Tuesday, but I really needed this yesterday and was caught in the midst of all of the drama, so you get my bitch now.
Working Spring Breaks sucks. This is the first time I have had to work spring break with a teenager at home and peeling him off of games when I get home is an effen nightmare, at least it was yesterday. An afternoon of meltdowns and standing my ground on reading a book, playing outside, anything other than games after I got home.
I feel like a loser mom because I didn't prepare for him this week to be able to hang out with friends or do anything. I thought because I only work 20 hours I would be okay but now all his friends have plans and he feels like he has no friends because nobody's available. I'm usually the cool mom who takes him and his friends to do awesome things and I can't do that right now. Dealing with major mom guilt right now. Effen sucks.
Disclaimer: I was SO fortunate to stay home on spring breaks for twelve years and probably didn't appreciate them then. Also I'm EXTREMELY fortunate to only have to work 20 hours. Maybe I need to focus on all the good instead of all the bitchy about how this blows right now. I can't even begin to imagine what you moms who work 40 hours with school age children do. You rock my socks off. Actually maybe you have some tips? Feeling the mom guilt so bad.
The upper management at my OB office decided that all the nurses needed to rotate between the three doctors in the office. I HATED the nurse that I got today. She asked me if I brought my own shot (um no your office orders them and keeps them), she poked me a good 6 inches higher for my shot than normal, she left me and told me to catch the doctor on my own while she went to the bathroom, she tried to send me home without taking my bp and baby heart tones, and when she did take my bp she walked off and left me sitting in the chair forever hooked up to the machine. She had HORRIBLE bedside manor and I hated every minute of her. I hope they change it back soon so I get my regular nurse. I miss her.
The upper management at my OB office decided that all the nurses needed to rotate between the three doctors in the office. I HATED the nurse that I got today. She asked me if I brought my own shot (um no your office orders them and keeps them), she poked me a good 6 inches higher for my shot than normal, she left me and told me to catch the doctor on my own while she went to the bathroom, she tried to send me home without taking my bp and baby heart tones, and when she did take my bp she walked off and left me sitting in the chair forever hooked up to the machine. She had HORRIBLE bedside manor and I hated every minute of her. I hope they change it back soon so I get my regular nurse. I miss her.
She sounds like a real gem
I'm contemplating calling and "tattling" today. I'm starting to cramp, which shouldn't be happening while I'm on the shot. It makes me think she really did screw up my shot by injecting it too high. I don't know if that's even possible, but I'm wondering. Maybe that would be enough of a complaint to get them to swap back. This girl is used to dealing with older women getting gyno exams, not the pregs!
The upper management at my OB office decided that all the nurses needed to rotate between the three doctors in the office. I HATED the nurse that I got today. She asked me if I brought my own shot (um no your office orders them and keeps them), she poked me a good 6 inches higher for my shot than normal, she left me and told me to catch the doctor on my own while she went to the bathroom, she tried to send me home without taking my bp and baby heart tones, and when she did take my bp she walked off and left me sitting in the chair forever hooked up to the machine. She had HORRIBLE bedside manor and I hated every minute of her. I hope they change it back soon so I get my regular nurse. I miss her.
She sounds like a real gem
I'm contemplating calling and "tattling" today. I'm starting to cramp, which shouldn't be happening while I'm on the shot. It makes me think she really did screw up my shot by injecting it too high. I don't know if that's even possible, but I'm wondering. Maybe that would be enough of a complaint to get them to swap back. This girl is used to dealing with older women getting gyno exams, not the pregs!
I don't think that's out of line. Cramps are normal but if you shouldn't be having them and you feel that something was done incorrectly then I would call to make sure everything is ok.
The upper management at my OB office decided that all the nurses needed to rotate between the three doctors in the office. I HATED the nurse that I got today. She asked me if I brought my own shot (um no your office orders them and keeps them), she poked me a good 6 inches higher for my shot than normal, she left me and told me to catch the doctor on my own while she went to the bathroom, she tried to send me home without taking my bp and baby heart tones, and when she did take my bp she walked off and left me sitting in the chair forever hooked up to the machine. She had HORRIBLE bedside manor and I hated every minute of her. I hope they change it back soon so I get my regular nurse. I miss her.
She sounds like a real gem
I'm contemplating calling and "tattling" today. I'm starting to cramp, which shouldn't be happening while I'm on the shot. It makes me think she really did screw up my shot by injecting it too high. I don't know if that's even possible, but I'm wondering. Maybe that would be enough of a complaint to get them to swap back. This girl is used to dealing with older women getting gyno exams, not the pregs!
I don't think that's out of line. Cramps are normal but if you shouldn't be having them and you feel that something was done incorrectly then I would call to make sure everything is ok.
Supposedly, this shot is supposed to stop contractions (from what the dr said). The only time I have had contractions with it is when I was due for another shot and the medicine was wearing off. They told me that it was common to have contractions a day or so before getting your next injection. I'm waiting to see if it turns into regular contractions before calling. I'm in there once a week, so I'm sure they already get annoyed by me. They know me by name - all of them! Lol. If nothing comes of it, then I will just mention it at my next appointment.
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Exactly as PP said. Call the cops next time, you never know you could be preventing something really bad from happening next time.
We have our "Irish Twins"
DD born 8/7/2013
DS born 7/28/14
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So @zarakella I have the same bump at the boobs issue. From the front it's a question of fatter or pregnant, but from my angle up top, I have a distinct bump in place. When my mother in law griped that I wasn't looking that pregnant yet, I texted her this picture instead, so she can see what I see. Total bump!
Frick frack! I have the attach button from here, but it's doesn't freakin work! Never mind. No pic.
If he can't help you make a plan (budget) then how can he expect you to follow what doesn't exist? A budget is just a written plan.
My supervisor does crap like this. It's like I'm expected to pass tests that I wasn't even aware I was taking. So...how does he expect you to know what is "too much" if you both don't define what too much actually is to you?
@futuremrsbrian Bummer! I'd be upset too. And it doesn't matter if other people find it silly or not. It's something you really wanted to do. ((hugs))
@helloblueeyes
You're a much better person than me for standing around that long. Those danged pizza places are birth control. You see that many screaming impolite people/kids in one room & it scares the bejeebus out of me.
I once had to tell three 13 year olds to stop running at Chuck E. Cheese because they nearly mowed down my 2 year old. And the place was pretty empty on a weekday before lunch. Their three moms were sitting around talking while their three teenagers tormented each other with Nerf guns. I was MAD.
Second, SIL sounds like a real peach! That story makes me want to have a drink.
We have our "Irish Twins"
DD born 8/7/2013
DS born 7/28/14
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DD born 7.27.2014
BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
I literally just loled!!! So well said. And btw, that sounds kinda fun!
We have our "Irish Twins"
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This was me all last week. It sucks!
2) when I asked him to get me an iced tea or a coke (as second choice) he sweetly goes... But comes back with a Snapple and gets pissy when I say "thank you but I don't want that. I will go get it myself." I'm pretty sure he stomped his feet. WTH? I gave you two options; so don't get pissed at me when you tried to skip the line for fountain drinks and get me something you have never in your life seen me drink.
3) I just want to get to Kauai and sleep for a couple more hours before we have an adventure. No such luck though as we can't check in for 6 more hours.
Two of my SILs did that with stuff on my bridal registry. One bought me a different down comforter because it was better than one I registered for. Ok, whatever. Another one bought me totally different wine glasses because she liked them better. They were so tall they wouldn't even fit in my cabinet. She included a gift receipt, so back to the store they went and I bought the ones I wanted. My MIL also told me at the time that she checked out the silverware on my registry and that it was cheap and I should pick something else out. I did and then two other SILs bought me a completely different set anyway.
I know its considered rude to complain about gifts, but seriously?
Effing gross! The controller at the place I used to work was notorious for not washing her hands after using the bathroom. She also used to reach her nasty hands into whatever you were eating for lunch to try a bite. It was disgusting, and no matter how much lyscol spray we used on door handles and around the office everyone got sick all the time. Ugh, just thinking about it is making me ill! I don't miss anything about that woman.
She was a nice lady though. (I say this after talking shit about anybody, I feel like it makes everything OK)
Two of my SILs did that with stuff on my bridal registry. One bought me a different down comforter because it was better than one I registered for. Ok, whatever. Another one bought me totally different wine glasses because she liked them better. They were so tall they wouldn't even fit in my cabinet. She included a gift receipt, so back to the store they went and I bought the ones I wanted. My MIL also told me at the time that she checked out the silverware on my registry and that it was cheap and I should pick something else out. I did and then two other SILs bought me a completely different set anyway.
I know its considered rude to complain about gifts, but seriously?
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My MIL did this with my bridal shower as well. We registered for a nice tea kettle that matched our decor. My MIL bought us TWO tea kettles that of course do not match at all.
She didn't even get them because she thought we would like them. She loves tea and explicitly stated that she likes THESE kettles and will use them for HER tea when she visits. Wtf?! I also know that this is a present and I should be grateful, but she JUST told me that she bought us a present for herself, and since she didn't like what we picked out she took the liberty of buying what she liked better.
I felt guilty for about two seconds before putting her teapots in the closet. We received the other kettle from our registry and I use that one. So go get your bottle rack!!
Working Spring Breaks sucks. This is the first time I have had to work spring break with a teenager at home and peeling him off of games when I get home is an effen nightmare, at least it was yesterday. An afternoon of meltdowns and standing my ground on reading a book, playing outside, anything other than games after I got home.
I feel like a loser mom because I didn't prepare for him this week to be able to hang out with friends or do anything. I thought because I only work 20 hours I would be okay but now all his friends have plans and he feels like he has no friends because nobody's available. I'm usually the cool mom who takes him and his friends to do awesome things and I can't do that right now. Dealing with major mom guilt right now. Effen sucks.
Disclaimer: I was SO fortunate to stay home on spring breaks for twelve years and probably didn't appreciate them then. Also I'm EXTREMELY fortunate to only have to work 20 hours. Maybe I need to focus on all the good instead of all the bitchy about how this blows right now. I can't even begin to imagine what you moms who work 40 hours with school age children do. You rock my socks off. Actually maybe you have some tips? Feeling the mom guilt so bad.
I'm contemplating calling and "tattling" today. I'm starting to cramp, which shouldn't be happening while I'm on the shot. It makes me think she really did screw up my shot by injecting it too high. I don't know if that's even possible, but I'm wondering. Maybe that would be enough of a complaint to get them to swap back. This girl is used to dealing with older women getting gyno exams, not the pregs!
Supposedly, this shot is supposed to stop contractions (from what the dr said). The only time I have had contractions with it is when I was due for another shot and the medicine was wearing off. They told me that it was common to have contractions a day or so before getting your next injection. I'm waiting to see if it turns into regular contractions before calling. I'm in there once a week, so I'm sure they already get annoyed by me. They know me by name - all of them! Lol. If nothing comes of it, then I will just mention it at my next appointment.