March 2014 Moms

Sopranoali has her baby girl (UPDATE)

sopranoalisopranoali member
edited March 2014 in March 2014 Moms
Hi all,

You may remember my protein count in my 24 hr urine was off the charts, so they had me come in for a NST. Thinking i would go home after the test, DH and I leisurely made our way to the hospital.

Well, baby looked good on the monitor, but my blood pressure was crazy high. They didn't even offer to induce...(this is my fruits and nuts natural childbirth midwife saying I needed to have a c section).

It happened so fast, because my labs for my pre-eclampsia kept having worse and worse results.

At 7:17 pm 3/7, Catherine Marie was born. The c section was my biggest fear, and although I wasn't able to squat in a field of daisies epidural free like I wanted to, I feel really empowered and strong that I faced a fear and me and baby are fine.

That being said, recovery sucks so far. C section was fri night, it is now Sunday morning. I'm finally off of the magnesium sulfate (to prevent seizures), and the catheter is out. But standing up and walking to the bathroom?! OMG. Any other c section Momas please chime in with any advice. They're going to have me walking around as much as possible today, apparently.

Breastfeeding is going ok. Sometimes it's great and sometimes not. My body seems to be in the "holy crap you almost died" recovery phase and my nipples and colostrum aren't really cooperating yet. Her birth weight was 9 lbs 1 oz 23 in long and she's down to 8 lbs 6 oz, so they will probably have me supplement soon (with the little syringe that takes a line to my nipple).

Ok this got way too long but I appreciate all the advice and laughs and commiseration we've had the past few months and hope it will continue. Anyone with any tips on the c section recovery please let me know. Now for all that, pics!

UPDATE:

Thank you everyone for your kind words. I am finally home 6 days PP because they couldn't get my high BP regulated enough to discharge me. This was extremely frustrating as my BP throughout pregnancy was perfect. Stupid pre-e.

For those posters scared of a c section, yeah, it was scary. But during it was all mental and me wanting to be strong and get the baby out safely. I walked into the OR and they gave me a spinal to numb. This did not hurt, even for someone like me scared of needles. Just a little sting. They laid me back and I immediately threw up, but they had an air suction machine straw like at the dentist to keep that from being an issue. Then my hubby came in and they had already started to cut me open. I felt a little pressure near my ribs as they were pushing her out, but I didn't even know they had opened me yet! I thought they were still pinch testing to make sure the spinal worked. Baby came out screaming before they even had her body out. She screamed bloody murder and my midwife demanded S2S and as soon as she was on my chest she stopped crying. It was beautiful.

Recovery especially with the mag sulf sucked those first few days, and breastfeeding has been hard.

I am home now though and feel so much better. BP is still acting up but is being controlled with medicine. Pumping is successful, breastfeeding needs work but I'm getting help.

Thanks everyone vas congrats to other new Momas!

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  • Congrats!!! Glad everything turned out ok in the end. She is so precious!!
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  • Try your best to walk around..... It sounds like torture but, it actually does make you feel better! I know..... It is hard to believe........ but, it is true!
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  • Congratulations!!!
    Yes, c sections suck, but my advice to you (I'm 6 days post CS) is move around as much as possible. I had no choice- my baby was in NICU so if I wanted to touch his face, I had to get up from the wheelchair and walk over to him numerous times per day. I swear that's why I'm feeling so good now. Mine has started getting a little sore again but I think it's bc it's time for my staples to be removed tomorrow and my body is beginning to reject them :( I was dreading my first shower where I had to peel off the dressing but it was not bad at all- the hot water running over the incision feels amazing. Hope this helps and hope it gets better soon, enjoy your baby!!! She is beautiful!
  • I'm sorry you didn't have the birth you wanted and your recovery has been hard but she is beautiful. Congratulations mama!

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  • Congratulations!!
    As far as the c section goes, stay on top of the pain meds and do the walking. It does get better!
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  • Congrats and go you for being so flexible when things didn't go the way you planned.  It says a lot that you're looking at the bright side of things.  I hope recovery goes quickly and easily for you!
  • Congratulations on your little girl! I'm glad you're feeling good about how things went. I know it's tough when it isn't what you're hoping for.
  • Congrats momma! Hope recovery gets better.
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  • Oh congrats!!! She is a doll and I'm glad you both are healthy even tho you didn't get the labor you wanted. Congrats momma and I hope recovery gets easier!
  • Congrats! I don't have any advice, but good luck with your recovery. I think the walking will help.

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  • Congratulations! Make sure you take your pain meds and walk as soon as possible, but listen to your body and don't overdue it.
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  • Congrats! I second others, make sure you stay in top of the pain meds. Walking hurt in the beginning but I think it really helped me feel better. Besides that just try to rest. I'm 12 days post c section and have pretty much 0 pain, so just know it won'tast forever!!
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  • Congrats on your baby- super cute and keeping it all in perspective ! I hope you heal soon!
  • Congratulations! No advice per CS but I have to say I'm glad to hear you are both doing well and hopefully recovery will go fast! :)
  • Congrats!! Ask for an abdominal binder--it will help stabilize your core when walking. It should get easier each day and I fully turned the corner (was on the floor playing with DD) at day 6 (but with my first it was day 4 or 5). It will be behind you before you know it!
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  • Congrats! I'm sorry you didn't get the birth you wanted but your daughter is beautiful!!
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  • Congrats! Recovery and breast feeding will improve with time!
  • Congrats on the baby and I'm so impressed with your attitude! I'm hoping for a squat-in-the-flowers birth, but you never know what will happen. Thanks for such a genuine post. Enjoy your new baby!
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  • Glad to hear you and Catherine are doing alright, PPs are right that being up and walking will help with your recovery. Also you might be having breast milk supply issues because of the mag sulf. Hopefully now that you're off it your supply will improve!
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    Sorry about all the physical pain you're going through. Walking really is the best thing for recovery.

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  • I agree with everyone else that staying one step ahead of your meds and moving around as much as possible is the best thing. I had my csection last Monday and besides some soreness I feel pretty great! I was determined to get out of the hospital ASAP and was able to be discharged in a little over 48 hours from the time of birth. I was also on magnesium and that stuff sucks! Try to get off of it as soon as the doctors clear you. I was also on hydrocodene and got off of that the night I was released. The two of those combined made me feel awful and I started feeling better as soon as I got off of them.

    I was planning a non-medicated birth center birth and developed preeclampsia. Im typically a complete wuss when it comes to pain, but found that my mental state was incredibly empowering. Set goals, tell yourself you are strong and believe it! That will go a long way. Best wishes!
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    Congratulations! I also had to be on mag sulfate during/after delivery and that stuff sucks. I have heard it's a little more painful when you're not able to get up and walk right away like those that don't have to have the ms, and I definitely believe it! Try to do what you can but don't push it. I never felt well enough to walk the hospital halls during my 5ish day stay but it got better once I got home.
    As for the bfing, your milk will come in eventually too, you're doing great! I think mine came in the last day in the hospital. The whole first day they had to give did formula because I was so out of it. Then they had me pump at every feeding and feed her what I got from that right after. Don't worry much about the weight loss. I have heard that breastfed babies do tend to lose more in those first couple of days. Hang in there - you've got.it :)

    Eta: even though I didn't walk much at the hospital I probably should have pushed myself a LITTLE more.
    I had also planned a med-free birth center birth for DD and had a CS at 36w due to HELLP w/ no option for induction - it definitely sucks but you did what's best for yourself and your daughter and I'm sure when you have #2 you'll have a really supportive midwife helping you have your vbac squatting in a field of daisies :)
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  • Congrats on your beautiful baby girl!!! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • Congrats! Here's to an easy recovery, and GL with breastfeeding!
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  • Congratulations!  Sorry you didn't get your ideal birth, but you did have a healthy baby girl and you're doing well.  In the end that's what matters.
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  • Thank you for sharing your story.  I am terrified of a c-section, and your story really helps.  Congrats on the little beauty!
  • Congrats and speedy recovery!
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  • Congrats! I am supplementing my LO and just started using the SNS system, it's not so bad. Best of luck!! Just remember to do what's best for LO and you!

                          

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