The hospital I work for (in the NICU, so women's services) we do not have a nursery. They claim it's part of being baby friendly but our clientele would like to send their babies to the nursery at times.
The hospital that I am delivering at, which is closer to my house but still a part of the hospital system I work for, does have a nursery. However, I won't be sending her to the nursery...she will stay in my room with me. A lot of people tell me I will want sleep, etc since this is my second baby, but I want her to stay in the room with DH and I. The only time DS went to the nursery was for his circ and for his PKU test.
Honestly when my son was born he stayed asleep most of the time in the hospital. I stayed up watching him however, don't regret it one bit. I regret not sleeping while I finally got my epderal before I had to start pushing the excitement kept me up.
My hospital does not have a regular nursery, just a NICU. I prefer to keep the baby with me at all times though. When DD was born, she didn't leave my room from the minute she was born to the minute we went home, which was nice. We asked to be discharged a day early though, so we were only there for one night.
Yes, it does, but rarely more than a baby or two is actually there using it at a time. They'll only take her to do tests, weigh, etc, other than that, she'll stay in the room, like we did with DD.
Our hospital does have a nursery. Last time DD was in the NICU and I didn't get the option. This time I'd like to play it by ear see how I feel, especially with a c-section. If this baby comes early, I won't have any help in town to stay with me at the hospital since DH would have to take care of DD. If baby stays in long enough, MIL will be here and I imagine the nursery will be used little, if at all.
I voted yes, but there wasn't really an option for me. I have no problem with him going to the nursery for quick visit or while I take a nap if I really need one. Since I am breastfeeding I really don't see him going there often. I know the hospital stresses staying together most of the time and I plan to have him all night.
My hospital has one and some women send their babies there the whole night and they bring them in when they need fed. My doctor gave me a pamphlet about the benefits of keeping baby in the room and they did a study that showed moms that kept the baby in the room got the same amount of sleep compared to moms who had the baby go to the nursery. I probably won't want him to leave my side more than he has to, but I'm not ruling it out completely if I need a nap
I used one the first night with my son and wouldn't hesitate to do it again. He was born late at night and I labored for 23 hours (I was induced due to complications) so I welcomed the rest. At the end of the day, we bonded just the same.
My hospital has a nursery but they strongly encourage you to room-in. We didn't send DD to the nursery at all and don't plan on doing so this time either.
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Yes my hospital has one and yes I will use it. Last time my doctor encouraged us to utilize the nursery. We formula feed due to medical reasons, if I was BF I may consider keeping baby in my room. With DS I sent him to the nursery every night of my 5 night stay and will do the same again. I slept several hours every night and went home feeling pretty well. I think the extra sleep contributed to the speedy recovery I had from my c-section. Also, the pain medicine that I was given in the hospital after surgery made me very sleepy, so I didn't think it was a good idea to have the baby in the room with me in case I didn't hear him.
Yes the hospital has a nursery (though they encourage rooming-in), however, if I need to utilize it, I will. DD spent probably 2 hours in there when I had her - It was like 3am and she was really fussy. I hadn't slept in like 2 days at that point so when the nurses asked if I wanted them to bring her to the nursery, I was more than willing to let them!
I'm delivering at a different hospital but they both have nurseries. With DS I had a really difficult L&D and had to stay for an extra 24 hrs to be monitored before moving me to the PP floor, so DS stayed in the nursery a lot. This time I'm hoping things go a bit more smoothly and DD can stay with us the majority of the time.
Ours has a nursery but I will not be using it. With DS1, they never offered to take him....I guess I could have asked, but I have been told that if you are BFing, they will only take them for maybe 2 hours or so anyway. We made it with DS, so we will do that again with this LO.
My hospital has one. I plan to keep baby with me as much as possible. Last time they occasionally took DS away for shots, checks, etc So that's when I showered and stuff.
I picked ss just because I think they do, but I don't think it is in the same building...so getting baby back and forth would be hard. If that is the case, we will probably room in.
With ds, they had a nursery and we sent him to the nursery overnight. In hindsight, I don't think this was the best for attempting to BF. My milk had not come in, but I think we probably should have been "trying" more often. And, frankly, it isn't like you are STTN in the hospital anyway. Or, at least, I wasn't. I had to get vital checks.
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54
2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4; BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
Our hospital has one but we're planning on keeping the baby in-room with us all the time.
I just had lunch with a friend who had a baby at the same hospital last year and she was telling me they were shocked when the got a Nursery fees bill from the hospital a few months after they paid all of their delivery bills. Apparently my hospital charges by the hour for keeping the baby in the nursery. I'm floored. Is that normal? If so, I'm definitely not sending him there for any reason. I feel like that should just be included..right?
Our hospital has one but we're planning on keeping the baby in-room with us all the time.
I just had lunch with a friend who had a baby at the same hospital last year and she was telling me they were shocked when the got a Nursery fees bill from the hospital a few months after they paid all of their delivery bills. Apparently my hospital charges by the hour for keeping the baby in the nursery. I'm floored. Is that normal? If so, I'm definitely not sending him there for any reason. I feel like that should just be included..right?
They charge for everything. We got charged for 5 IV kits and 5 IV insertions for DD when she was in for dehydration over the summer. And that was because it took the idiot nurse 4 failed attempts before she called someone else in to try.
BFP#1 11-26-10 MMC 1-13-11
BFP#2 6-8-11 Eleanor Beatrice born 2-15-12 BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
Yes, our hospital has a nursery, but I don't know if we'll send the baby there. It's not completely out of the question, though. Depends on my sleep and my pain level, since I'm having an additional surgery (having an ovary removed) along with my c-section.
With my first I learned never to say never and not to rely too heavily on my own plans and wishes.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
I voted SS b/c with my 1st I thought that there was no way in hell that I would send my baby off to the nursery, but after 3 days of on and off labor, a c/s and no sleep, I did just that. So, this time it will totally depend on my labor. I would really prefer to have baby with me at all times, but we will see how this one plays out.
I thought there was no way I would send my baby to the nursery but the second night I was there I was so stressed out from hormones and lack of sleep and struggling to breastfeed that when the nurse suggested that the best thing I could do was get a few hours of uninterrupted sleep, I took her up on it. I did, however, check my baby from head to toe for birthmarks and whatnot before and after he went. Too much Lifetime will make you cautious about that kind of thing.
Love the nursery…Was not into it when we had our first for obvious reasons…but then I realized my sleep was just as important…especially when we welcomed our 3rd.
I'm having twins, so I'm not really making plans one way or the other. If they don't have to go to the NICU and I can keep them in-room, that'd be great, but I'm not setting my mind on a specific plan. I'm not even taking birth classes or making a birth plan - I think it would just disappoint me if I had to change it.
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The hospital I am delivering at is "baby friendly" (which I think sounds so dumb like other hospitals hate babies?) so they don't have a nursery. But even if they did I wouldn't send her to it. I want all the time with her and also plan to leave as early as the let me.
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Our hospital does not have a nursery, only a NICU. I don't think I would send the baby even if they did. I couldn't imagine being away from my new-new-newborn for any amount of time.
Our hospital has one but we're planning on keeping the baby in-room with us all the time.
I just had lunch with a friend who had a baby at the same hospital last year and she was telling me they were shocked when the got a Nursery fees bill from the hospital a few months after they paid all of their delivery bills. Apparently my hospital charges by the hour for keeping the baby in the nursery. I'm floored. Is that normal? If so, I'm definitely not sending him there for any reason. I feel like that should just be included..right?
No, it's not normal for them to charge you for the use of the nursery when you give birth. They didn't charge us anything above and beyond DS's normal care when we were in the hospital and I don't know anyone who was charged for their child to be in the nursery at any hospital where we live (NY).
Ours has a nursery. I'm not planning on sending baby, but wouldn't rule it out if I feel I need some extra rest. I sent both of my first two a couple of times and it was helpful. They were great about bringing them back when it was time to nurse.
DD was in the SCU last time the whole 48 hrs we were there last time and I missed out on a lot of bonding. I am very much looking forward to rooming in.
The hospital I am delivering at is "baby friendly" (which I think sounds so dumb like other hospitals hate babies?) so they don't have a nursery. But even if they did I wouldn't send her to it. I want all the time with her and also plan to leave as early as the let me.
I also think this is a silly term. I heard it the other day when referencing hospitals that have banned formula and I just thought it was offensive. As if any type of postnatal baby care is "baby hostile" or something ...
I picked ss just because I think they do, but I don't think it is in the same building...so getting baby back and forth would be hard. If that is the case, we will probably room in.
With ds, they had a nursery and we sent him to the nursery overnight. In hindsight, I don't think this was the best for attempting to BF. My milk had not come in, but I think we probably should have been "trying" more often. And, frankly, it isn't like you are STTN in the hospital anyway. Or, at least, I wasn't. I had to get vital checks.
So did they let you leave the baby there for more than 2-3 hours without feeding? I got a scolding from the nurses because I didn't wake up to my alarm the second night in the hospital and DD went 3.5 hours without eating overnight. They were very strict about making her eat every three hours.
ETA: Totally agree on the sleep thing... you're not getting any decent stretch of sleep anyway. For me that was the sleep problem with a newborn. It wasn't that I wasn't getting enough hours total... it was that I never got more than 2 consecutive hours.
He was in the NICU and on formula for low blood sugar to start with...I didn't even see him for the first dozen or so hours other than in delivery. After that due to his low birth weight, he had to be on formula because my milk had not come in...at all. I didn't even have collostrum (sp?). I was bone dry. I blame c/s plus being early.
My new hospital, though, lets you keep baby in the room if they are level 1 NICU and has a breast milk bank so if we have the same problems again it will be totally different.
I could have slept all night if they had not been doing checks on me. I think because I was pre-e and had high BP, I had to get checked often. It was annoying and, IMO, really unnecessary.
Edit: By trying more often, what I meant is that I think we should have done more skin-to-skin. He could not latch and I was encouraged to pump, but I think even doing frequent skin-to-skin while pumping might have helped. I sort of figured this out later on, but no one really ever told me (despite having an LC) that I really needed to pumping very, very often in the early days even if it was dry pumping.
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54
2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4; BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
I thought there was no way I would send my baby to the nursery but the second night I was there I was so stressed out from hormones and lack of sleep and struggling to breastfeed that when the nurse suggested that the best thing I could do was get a few hours of uninterrupted sleep, I took her up on it. I did, however, check my baby from head to toe for birthmarks and whatnot before and after he went. Too much Lifetime will make you cautious about that kind of thing.
LO went off to the NICU for a long period of time after delivery and I had this irrational fear that they had switched him because he looked different when he came back than what I remembered him looking like. However, now he looks so much like DH that I have to admit that he most definitely was not switched.
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54
2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4; BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
Re: Does your hospital have a nursery and will you utilize it?
BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
Yes my hospital has one and yes I will use it. Last time my doctor encouraged us to utilize the nursery. We formula feed due to medical reasons, if I was BF I may consider keeping baby in my room. With DS I sent him to the nursery every night of my 5 night stay and will do the same again. I slept several hours every night and went home feeling pretty well. I think the extra sleep contributed to the speedy recovery I had from my c-section. Also, the pain medicine that I was given in the hospital after surgery made me very sleepy, so I didn't think it was a good idea to have the baby in the room with me in case I didn't hear him.
LCT - 5.15.14 ~ 9lbs, 22.5 inches
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BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
With ds, they had a nursery and we sent him to the nursery overnight. In hindsight, I don't think this was the best for attempting to BF. My milk had not come in, but I think we probably should have been "trying" more often. And, frankly, it isn't like you are STTN in the hospital anyway. Or, at least, I wasn't. I had to get vital checks.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
I just had lunch with a friend who had a baby at the same hospital last year and she was telling me they were shocked when the got a Nursery fees bill from the hospital a few months after they paid all of their delivery bills. Apparently my hospital charges by the hour for keeping the baby in the nursery. I'm floored. Is that normal? If so, I'm definitely not sending him there for any reason. I feel like that should just be included..right?
BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
With my first I learned never to say never and not to rely too heavily on my own plans and wishes.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
8/15 FET #1 - transferred 1 thawed embryo - Pregnant with Baby C, it's a girl! Due April 2016.
Married Rob May 23rd 2008 * Munchkin due May 5th 2014 * Getting back on the waiting list for domestic infant adoption May 2015 * Apparently May is our month!
No, it's not normal for them to charge you for the use of the nursery when you give birth. They didn't charge us anything above and beyond DS's normal care when we were in the hospital and I don't know anyone who was charged for their child to be in the nursery at any hospital where we live (NY).
My new hospital, though, lets you keep baby in the room if they are level 1 NICU and has a breast milk bank so if we have the same problems again it will be totally different.
I could have slept all night if they had not been doing checks on me. I think because I was pre-e and had high BP, I had to get checked often. It was annoying and, IMO, really unnecessary.
Edit: By trying more often, what I meant is that I think we should have done more skin-to-skin. He could not latch and I was encouraged to pump, but I think even doing frequent skin-to-skin while pumping might have helped. I sort of figured this out later on, but no one really ever told me (despite having an LC) that I really needed to pumping very, very often in the early days even if it was dry pumping.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge: