July 2013 Moms

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Uggghhhh. Rough day and it's only 9:45!

The bitch at work refuses to accept the fact that I cannot make 8am meetings in person. So she scheduled an 8am that I was late for. The team discussed the topics that I'm not responsible for until 9:30. Since we ran late she wanted to extend the meeting to 11am. The meeting is in another building and the project managers I work for haven't gotten me access to a pumping room. I've been asking for access since day one of the project. So, I told her I couldn't go until 11 as I would need a break to pump. Apparently pump is a four letter word and she gave me hell for using the word pump in front of the client.

Then daycare calls and they think Riley has an ear infection. I literally have meetings all day today and DH has his big client face to face meetings all week. So unfortunately that means I am on sick duty. I call the doctor to try to get a late afternoon appointment and the front desk lady gives me shit. Like "you want to wait until the afternoon when she has an ear infection" shit. Listen bitch, I don't WANT to wait....I work and DH works so we are trying to do the best fucking job we can juggling all of this.

I'm just over it. I need to get out of the consulting business. I need more consistency in my work day. Uggghhhh.
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  • Sorry for the sucky day. Hugs, momma. You gotta do what you gotta do for work, you are an amazing mom to Riley, and the receptionist at the dr needs to calm the f down.
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  • So sorry. Tell the lady at work and the desk lady to suck it! You're doing a great job momma, don't let them make you feel otherwise!
  • OMgosh all of those people could be a little nicer :(  pump is not a dirty word and she shouldn't treat it like one!

    I'm sorry 

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  • Sorry :( HUGSSSSSZS

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  • Yeah I have a few four letter words for that woman.

    Hope your day gets better (it can only go up from here, right)? And hope Riley is on the mend ASAP!!!!


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  • I'm so sorry :( Hugs! I hope Riley is feeling better soon, and that your day gets better, too!
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  • My company project manager said I should use the phrase "Mother's Break".
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  • I am sorry! I hope your day gets better.
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  • What a jerk!!! Seriously people.

    Big hugs. >:D<
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  • Wow, shes a freaking twatwaffle, and unprofessional! (((hugs)))
  • People are dumb, sorry your day is crappy. Sending hugs and good thoughts that it gets better. Hoping your lo feels better and soon!
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  • You do need a hug after all that crap! >:D< You have all my sorries. And FFS, "mothers break"? She is a twat.
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  • I'd complain about the receptionist at the pedis office.  She has no right to say that too you.  You are doing the best you can.  You are a great mom.  I'm sorry your day is full of suckage.  (((Hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope Riley feels better.
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  • Hugs, hugs, and more hugs!!! Sorry mama!

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  • I'm so sorry you have to deal with all that bullshit :(

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  • Hugs! I think some doctors employ that kind of person as a receptionist on purpose - it can't be a coincidence that so many of life's busybody douchecanoes (thanks TB for this splendid new word!) are in that kind of job.

    Mother's break is just cringe-worthy.

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  • Oh my gosh. Big hugs. I'm sorry, that all really sucks. I hope Riley feels better quickly!
  • Huge hugs, Stina. You are doing a great job. It is so very difficult to juggle momming and working at the same time. 

    I am appalled that you were given flack for using the word "pump." I really hope that earns that person some serious repercussions. "Woman on Woman Crime" for sure - what the hell!!!

    And sorry about baby R's ear infection. I hope she feels better soon. 
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  • I'm sorry everyone was a butt munch to you today. That blows. I hope Riley feels better & you can catch a break.


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  • So many many hugs!
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  • How annoying. People have no compassion sometimes. :(. Hope Riley feels better.
  • Thanks all!

    Riley has the start of an ear infection and had lots of wax. The doc took out the wax and gave us antibiotics.

    Sadly, Riley has lost 4oz of body weight since her appointment a month ago. We are going back in two weeks to check ears and weight. So I'm worried about her weight and eating issues too.

    I called my HR department. So here's the deal, I'm in consulting. I work for a company that partnered with a company (Accenture). The bitch who made the comment is from the other company. My HR said she is way out of line. My HR is drafting an email for me to send to my company's project leadership. My company's project leadership will work with her company's executive to address the issue.

    @etoille, I'm putting my resume together but I want out of consulting. Part of my discussion with my manager Friday is about a potential internal opportunity. I also work in a "hot" field so shouldn't have an issue. I just have to stay with my current company until June due to maternity leave.
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  • Hugs!  Sorry about Riley's ear infection.  I hope you both feel better soon!



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  • Major hugs!!! It's tough being pulled in so many directions. You're doing great and people need to recognize that instead of wagging their judgmental fingers
  • I'm sorry, that sucks. :(

    I hope she feels better soon!
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  • Ugh what a cruddy day. Sending you a hug. It will get better!
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