I am not announcing for quite awhile still, but I want to get a card together with pictures on it. Every place I have looked is for birth announcements and very gender specific. I'm wondering if anyone else has had any luck.
While I like the cute picture announcements on FB, I feel like sending a card in the mail is a little much. It's not like it's a wedding where people other than you and your SO have to save the date.
We are sending a card with pictures for people that do not live close by. I'd rather mail it out then posting it on the internet. I would really appreciate support. I asked for help if anyone had ordered them not for people to try and put my ideas down.
Nope, but I'd second the Etsy suggestion, or even just format something yourself on the computer and print it at a print shop? (like many people do for wedding invites, can look good!)
Costco has always been a go to for me!! Lots of great layouts and SUPER cheap!! Next best choice it you're ok with spending some extra money is Shutterfly! Nice thick cardstock and great styles!
Just like I imagine with parenthood, with pregnancy (and all that is related to it) you will get a lot of different opinions. You can't get upset every time someone offers a suggestion that is different than what you were thinking.
Just like I imagine with parenthood, with pregnancy (and all that is related to it) you will get a lot of different opinions. You can't get upset every time someone offers a suggestion that is different than what you were thinking.
@melissanoe09, truth isn't rude. Expressing one's opinions isn't rude. Blunt isn't rude. Don't like it? Don't read it then. You cannot dictate who posts on your post, or what they write. This is the interwebz, it's a free for all. No one is violating TOU. The Bump is not for everyone. That's ok. I'd highly recommend you lurk some more because this is the most supportive forum I've ever been a part of by far, and it comes with some snark. I like that. If you don't, that's cool, there's tons of other forums.
FTR, this post wasn't even rude. Again, different points of view doesn't constitute rudeness.
You May Disagree And Have A Different Opinion...But I Do Think Your Responses Have Been Very Rude On This Post. It's One Thing To Say Your Opinion It's Another To Be Rude. And That's My Opinion.
We are sending a card with pictures for people that do not live close by. I'd rather mail it out then posting it on the internet. I would really appreciate support. I asked for help if anyone had ordered them not for people to try and put my ideas down.
You really need support from us for mailing out pregnancy announcements?
By that I mean if it's not helpful or answering my question I don't need to hear it. We are all hormonal and telling me my ideas are silly is just a way to upset me. Yes this is the internet but I don't get why people would take the time to post something to me about an idea they think is stupid. Anybody on here struggle for 3.5 years have 5 failed Iuis then you would understand my happiness. So please do not tell me my ideas are silly or unnecessary and I will give you all the same courtesy.
I agree when the original poster & see her frustrations. There's ZERO need to put down someones ideas & even less reason to do so in a rude manner. Opinions are one thing but choose words with kindness.. We're all going through a sensitive time right now and there's no reason to upset one another Over something like this.
Geesh I may pay for my fertility friend app again bc it's a much more pleasant place. Just bc hormones are raging doesn't mean you should be so insensitive
I for one think it's a lovely idea!! I'd check shutter fly or etsy congratulations!!
sorry, but OP getting upset is on her. No one was mean. You/she are being way too sensitive.
Sorry...they Were Mean. You Can Give Your Opinion Without Putting Someone Down.
Especially After Trying For So Long! I Had 2 Miscarriages And Some women Will Never Understand That Struggle. Good Luck To You!
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Just went back and read all responses to make sure I didn't miss this "rude" comment. Nope. I'd advise you to do the same and you'll see they gave their opinion very respectfully.
And please, let's not start the pain Olympics already...
sorry, but OP getting upset is on her. No one was mean. You/she are being way too sensitive.
Sorry...they Were Mean. You Can Give Your Opinion Without Putting Someone Down.
Especially After Trying For So Long! I Had 2 Miscarriages And Some women Will Never Understand That Struggle. Good Luck To You!
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Just went back and read all responses to make sure I didn't miss this "rude" comment. Nope. I'd advise you to do the same and you'll see they gave their opinion very respectfully.
And please, let's not start the pain Olympics already...
I'm sorry to jump in on this but let's not throw in "we're all hormonal and emotional" into this. We're all adults here and there are going to be plenty of instances in life where people don't agree with your opinion, pregnant or not. No one is here to sugar coat things here and a question was asked and answered. Andplusalso, there are already plenty of women here who have been TTC for awhile and/or have had trouble during the TTC process (check the siggy), so please for the love of all that is good, do not throw that in anyone's faces.
I'm sorry to jump in on this but let's not throw in "we're all hormonal and emotional" into this. We're all adults here and there are going to be plenty of instances on life where people don't agree with your opinions, pregnant or not. No one is here to sugar coat things here and a question was asked and answered. Andplusalso, there are already plenty of women here who have been TTC for awhile and/or have had trouble during the TTC process, so please for the love of all that is good, do not throw that in anyone's faces.
Get out of my head! So from here on out all of our thoughts are negated because we're "hormonal"? That's tantamount to my husband asking me, "are you PMSing?" just because I stated my opinion about the fact that I asked him to take out the garbage three days in a row and he hadn't done it yet. I take full responsibility for any statements I make here or IRL and will never use hormones as an excuse. If I think I'm wrong, I will apologize. To be honest, my first feeling when I read OP's post was one of concern that she would regret sending announcements if something, god forbid, should happen to her baby, not anger or irritability. If you hang out on TB for a while, especially TTGP, you read about people's losses everyday so that's always in the back of my mind.
The last thing I would want coming in the mail during my losses is someone else's ute on a card announcing their pregnancy. I'd rip it to 1000 pieces and burn it in the fire place.
I agree with @JsRib - we tried for years without so much as a positive ovulation test. If I would have received a postcard in the mail announcing someone is pregnant I would have completely lost it.
Ok sorry that I offended you. That was not my intention. I would have been upset to get a pregnancy announcement in the mail a month ago too. I just want to hear more announcement ideas that's all.
Re: Pregnancy Announcements
But, TETO.
Just like I imagine with parenthood, with pregnancy (and all that is related to it) you will get a lot of different opinions. You can't get upset every time someone offers a suggestion that is different than what you were thinking.
Just like I imagine with parenthood, with pregnancy (and all that is related to it) you will get a lot of different opinions. You can't get upset every time someone offers a suggestion that is different than what you were thinking.
GBCB? Already?
You really need support from us for mailing out pregnancy announcements?
Over something like this.
Formerly Aaren91011
I for one think it's a lovely idea!! I'd check shutter fly or etsy
Especially After Trying For So Long! I Had 2 Miscarriages And Some women Will Never Understand That Struggle. Good Luck To You!
Just went back and read all responses to make sure I didn't miss this "rude" comment. Nope. I'd advise you to do the same and you'll see they gave their opinion very respectfully.
And please, let's not start the pain Olympics already...
Formerly Aaren91011
Ok....Sure....Over It. Thanks
Oh, FFS.
Does anyone else have any announcement ideas? And when are you going to announce it?
Get out of my head! So from here on out all of our thoughts are negated because we're "hormonal"? That's tantamount to my husband asking me, "are you PMSing?" just because I stated my opinion about the fact that I asked him to take out the garbage three days in a row and he hadn't done it yet. I take full responsibility for any statements I make here or IRL and will never use hormones as an excuse. If I think I'm wrong, I will apologize. To be honest, my first feeling when I read OP's post was one of concern that she would regret sending announcements if something, god forbid, should happen to her baby, not anger or irritability. If you hang out on TB for a while, especially TTGP, you read about people's losses everyday so that's always in the back of my mind.