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Late Term and Child Loss
ikrystal
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Just got back from the RE...
ikrystal
member
Well... I knew FET was way less complicated than a fresh cycle... but I didn't realize how soon we could do this. My OB said we should wait for 3 cycles to go by (which could have been a year from now), but they said ultimately it was up to my RE. And my RE (who is close with my OB) said 3 cycles was totally unnecessary. Thank. God.
We are looking at a FET in April (the earliest we can do it, at my OB's preferences) or the latest, May. They drew blood today and I get the results tomorrow, which should tell us when we can start. I am terrified. But I keep thinking that I need to go back and get these little embryos that are like Conner and Benjamin's other "twins." Conner and Ben were also due in May, but the c-section would have been at the end of April. I think an FET will help me get through what should have been their birthdays. We are transferring only one this time, to lessen the risks of anything and everything (our OB, MFM, and RE all agreed on this as well). If it does not take, we are thinking of transferring two again the next cycle. I am a mess. I want my Conner and my Benjamin. But that was not an option for me. I am a mother, thanks to Conner and Ben. But I have the overwhelming urge to parent a child. I am hoping this works... I can't lost another baby. I've already lost two.
I think this may have been the messiest writing I have ever done but my brain is just a mess right now.
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Re: Just got back from the RE...
TTC since 10/2010
IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
NTNP 2009-2012 TTC since 2012:
Jack has handpicked his sibling up there
My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog
Sorry... Mobile bumping
NTNP 2009-2012 TTC since 2012:
Jack has handpicked his sibling up there
My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog
first son stillborn 7/20/13 at 39 weeks due to Acute Fatty Liver of Pregnancy
It's a girl! Baby Anna was born August 3, 2014!
I have an English degree...it bothered me, LOL!!
NTNP 2009-2012 TTC since 2012:
Jack has handpicked his sibling up there
My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog
FX everything comes back good with your bloodwork and there are only good things in the horizon
TTC since 2008
Dh:34, no issues. Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized. 2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!! 5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP! Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9 Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2 Beta 3 14dp5dt: 497 Please be our sticky rainbow baby!
My life, my love, my boys
DS: Liam born 8.30.10 at 35 wks (PPROM, Pre-E, C-Section)
DD: BFP 6.9.13, EDD 2.12.14, A/S 9.20.13... It's a Girl!
Adeline Leigh born sleeping 2.11.14 at 39 wks 6 days
How very softly you tiptoed into our world, almost silently, only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footsteps have left upon our hearts. - Dorothy Ferguson