Congrats on your baby girl. Please, please don't let doctor Google scare the crap out of you about this. First of all, your doctor says its a "question", not a definitive diagnosis, so until this has been proven 100% for certain, you might have a perfectly normal, healthy little girl. My prayers will be with you and your little one!
Second, spina bifida is not a death sentence, nor does it have to necessarily be a terrible thing. As PPs have said, some forms can be corrected surgically in the womb or shortly after birth. The miracles modern medicine has come up with amaze me! Even with the limits the doctors had 27 years ago, I have a cousin who is a year older than me living a full life with spina bifida. She had to go through many surgeries and is confined to a wheelchair, but when we were younger, she wasn't expected to see her 18th birthday. Imagine the advances that might be in place when your little girl is older if, God forbid, she does turn out to have spina bifida.
*TW* Losses Mentioned 9.6.12 - Crazy J entered the world 4.30.14 - Sweet Angel Micah John lost to T18 at 7 months pregnant 2.8.16 Miscarriage at 6 weeks 4.30.16 BFP *stick baby stick*
Just so you know, there are different types of spina bifida. My mom has occular spina bifida and is fine. She just has to keep an eye on her eyes as she gets older.
Hope the SB chance isn't too high. Congrats on the little girl!!!
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p
I hope all goes well at your next appointment and that this ends up being a false alarm and the days between now and then go by fast for you! I second everyone saying to stay off Google!
Congrats on your baby girl! Big hugs. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this scare. I really hope she's perfectly healthy. PM me if you ever want to talk about it.
Re: Heard the words "Spina Bifida" today.
9.6.12 - Crazy J entered the world
4.30.14 - Sweet Angel Micah John lost to T18 at 7 months pregnant
2.8.16 Miscarriage at 6 weeks
4.30.16 BFP *stick baby stick*
I agree with a lot of what was said, don't worry, stay off google, and take it day by day. T&P's!
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks
BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks
BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p
BFP 11/18/13. EDD 7/25/14. It's a BOY!
Surprise BFP 7/30/13. EDD 4/7/14. Natural MC 8/24/13
I have no experience but my in laws were told my BIL would have spinal bifida because his head measured so large.
My BIL was born perfectly healthy with just a large head he eventually grew into.
I hope everything is okay with your little girl.