Hi, I've just recently come back to the bump after being away for the last couple years since my first child was born. I apologize this is a long post, but I'm kind of desperate to hear if others have gone through a similar situation as I will have very important decisions to make in the next few days.
I have a long history of thyroid cancer and several months ago found out i had a recurrence in lymph nodes (orig dx & total thyroidectomy '98). I'm seeing an ENT & endocrinologist at MD Anderson. They try not to over-treat since it's a slow-growing (papillary) cancer. My doc lead me to believe that I would not likely need surgery immediately (maybe in next couple years) at check up in July. I discussed with him that we were waiting on his okay to TTC baby 2…he indicated it's personal preference because the cancer will not grow quickly and some young women prefer to have babies then deal with it (while others want to get it out first since it is a source of stress). My husband & I tentatively planned to TTC beginning this summer. I just went back for most recent appointment since they're "watching and waiting" and Dr said "ok so we're going to go ahead with surgery since it has grown…but it's not urgent". I asked what "urgent" meant to him, could i wait a couple years like we discussed before. He said he wouldn't wait more than a year. Well, that was the last week of January and, although we've been avoiding conception until we knew for sure (did not go back on the pill a we fully expected the green light for TTC), to my great surprise my period was late and i have several positive pregnancy tests. It is VERY early, probably 4 weeks. Ironically, we TTC my first child for a year and had quite a difficult time and now that we were not trying (avoiding), it has happened. We do feel incredibly blessed, just need to determine best course of action.
I have had a miscarriage (7 wks) and I suspect at least 2 chemical pregnancies over the past 3-4 years. I'm trying to be very realistic about the odds that this may or may not be a viable pregnancy, while at the same time preparing to make a decision that is best for this baby without compromising my health.
My neck dissection (left & central compartment) has been scheduled the week after next. I'm waiting a few days to re-test at home before I contact the Dr. to let them know. I had to have ovulated days earlier than my chart indicated (yes, have been keeping track of some basic things on fertility chart for few months). My surgeon told me that he will have to move nerves to get to the lymph nodes on the left side and I will experience weakness in my shoulder requiring physical therapy (he indicated mostly self-led). He also ordered a PET scan with contrast (small amount of radiation) the day before surgery to check that it has not spread to other areas (obviously that will have to wait until after birth).
I have not been able to sleep and am distressed/overwhelmed. Has anyone had a neck dissection while pregnant? How far along were you? Did you have shoulder weakness & if so how bad & how long until you gained back most of your strength)? Also, has anyone had a PET scan while breastfeeding? I appreciate any insight/experiences.
Re: Neck Dissection during pregnancy/thyroid cancer
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