Doubt this is UO but I'm over the shit between N13 and Parenting. It's old, get over it. Don't like N13 don't come here. Don't like Parenting ladies then don't go there. Want to post in both great! It's really that simple. I love my N13 ladies and have nothing against Parenting but please move on.
I want to post in both, happy to be here
That's great! So you had a baby in N13? Guess I missed your announcement. Would love to hear your story.
@mrsbadkat and I made a baby together in Nov13 that we named SOUTH BEACH.
Yup. For legitimate reasons though. Some people have no business having children. I feel bad for the kids that were born to the shitty parents. I would requiring them to place the child for adoption as well.
I'm all for manditory sterilization.
For serious?
Yup. For legitimate reasons though. Some people have no business having
children. I feel bad for the kids that were born to the shitty parents. I
would requiring them to place the child for adoption as well.
Do me a favor and just imagine a world where this actually happens. Who chooses? What happens when those people get their shit together and would make great parents, and oops! Sorry, we removed your uterus when you were 19 because you had bad judgement. Jesus.
If they just started sterilizing all the 19 year olds who have bad judgement, there would be no one left to reproduce.
good thing I got KTFU at 19. At least I got one kid in. Pretty sure someone out there thinks I'm unfit to parent and wants to take my ute.
because it didn't fucking snow enough for me to build my own
I got pregnant when I had no business having a baby. Thankfully for me I had a great support system. Some people don't have that. Some people would benefit greater from rehab services or support groups rather than BEING FUCKING STERILIZED FOR LIFE.
Can I hug you?
Too soon??
because it didn't fucking snow enough for me to build my own
Yup. For legitimate reasons though. Some people have no business having children. I feel bad for the kids that were born to the shitty parents. I would requiring them to place the child for adoption as well.
Serious question. Are you a republican? Did you believe in "death panels" of bureaucrats deciding who gets treatment? Because, same thing.
Eta not believe in as they existed but believed Sarah Palin that they would. Someone else making decisions for someone else would be a bad thing. In both cases.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
My UO actually is similar to @Dapostrophe's I am actually looking forward to whenever AF will be returning since DH and I want to start trying for #2 sooner than later. and I love my huge breastfeeding boobs! Well, They really aren't that big (32D), but they are huge to me! I was part of the IBTC before I got pregnant, I just hope these hang around.
My UO- I'm over this dumbass war with parenting. It's exhausting. I don't understand, nor do I have the time to read through everything to get to the root of all this BS. I was "late to the party" on the oh hell no post yesterday, but shit, I got flamed for that and it was pointless. Better late than never, sorry I was busy at my freakin job from 9-5 and then taking care of my pretty little baby and didn't have time to sit here and stalk that dumbass post. I'm so over all this BS. CUT IT OUT! Damn.
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I'm horrified that you are trying to rationalize this. Just stop.
Okay, let me ask you this then, why would you not want it done to certain people?
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I'm horrified that you are trying to rationalize this. Just stop.
Okay, let me ask you this then, why would you not want it done to certain people?
Because we aren't crazy? Ripping out peoples organs because some higher power deems them unfit is insane. Slippery slope. Two wrongs don't make a right. Etc.
because it didn't fucking snow enough for me to build my own
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I'm horrified that you are trying to rationalize this. Just stop.
Okay, let me ask you this then, why would you not want it done to certain people?
Because we aren't crazy? Ripping out peoples organs because some higher power deems them unfit is insane. Slippery slope. Two wrongs don't make a right. Etc.
Can I at least force birth control on them??? I have seen a lot of people who abuse the privilege to have a child.
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I'm horrified that you are trying to rationalize this. Just stop.
Okay, let me ask you this then, why would you not want it done to certain people?
Because we aren't crazy? Ripping out peoples organs because some higher power deems them unfit is insane. Slippery slope. Two wrongs don't make a right. Etc.
Can I at least force birth control on them??? I have seen a lot of people who abuse the privilege to have a child.
Again, slippery slope. Who decides?
because it didn't fucking snow enough for me to build my own
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I'm horrified that you are trying to rationalize this. Just stop.
Okay, let me ask you this then, why would you not want it done to certain people?
Because we aren't crazy? Ripping out peoples organs because some higher power deems them unfit is insane. Slippery slope. Two wrongs don't make a right. Etc.
Can I at least force birth control on them??? I have seen a lot of people who abuse the privilege to have a child.
Again, slippery slope. Who decides?
Probably a judge. Honestly, I'm not sure on that one. It was just a thought, I had no idea so many people would be against it!
I wouldn't do it to just anyone, they would have had to do some pretty serious shit. When I said it, I had in mind people who abuse their children or the ones who could care less about the children that they already have. Basically the ones that have already proven themselves as unfit parents (mother or father). By no means would it be "oh you screwed up, no more kids for you". There are people who can truly turn their lives around and do better for themselves and if someone is trying to change then I wouldn't want it to be done to them. Sorry no paragraphs, mobile bumping.
I'm horrified that you are trying to rationalize this. Just stop.
Okay, let me ask you this then, why would you not want it done to certain people?
Because we aren't crazy? Ripping out peoples organs because some higher power deems them unfit is insane. Slippery slope. Two wrongs don't make a right. Etc.
Can I at least force birth control on them??? I have seen a lot of people who abuse the privilege to have a child.
No. It's called Eugenics and it's a method of 'cleansing' the gene pool.
You want it to be shitty parents, but someone else says it should be minorities, people with mental impairments, etc.
Taking children from people that have clearly demonstrated an inability to care for them is fine. I'm totally not okay with sterilization.
ETA: having children is not a privilege. It IS a right. Reproductive rights include your right to access BC, have an abortion, and have children if and when you see fit.
My uo: I actually like the parenting board. They are pretty funny. I love the nov13 board , obviously. Nov 13 women are awesome and I hope eventually we can all join forces.
My uo: I actually like the parenting board. They are pretty funny. I love the nov13 board , obviously. Nov 13 women are awesome and I hope eventually we can all join forces.
are you pregnant?
that's why i ask. haha. and damn all the stucks!
No, I had my LO November 15th, my damn computer won't change that,
My uo: I actually like the parenting board. They are pretty funny. I love the nov13 board , obviously. Nov 13 women are awesome and I hope eventually we can all join forces.
are you pregnant?
that's why i ask. haha. and damn all the stucks!
No, I had my LO November 15th, my damn computer won't change that,
I guess baby gaga assumes you just get re-pregnant if you don't update your tickers with them!
Re: UO Thursday!!
@mrsbadkat and I made a baby together in Nov13 that we named SOUTH BEACH.
And you all took our baby away.
I'm all for manditory sterilization.
For serious?
Yup. For legitimate reasons though. Some people have no business having children. I feel bad for the kids that were born to the shitty parents. I would requiring them to place the child for adoption as well.
For serious?
Yup. For legitimate reasons though. Some people have no business having children. I feel bad for the kids that were born to the shitty parents. I would requiring them to place the child for adoption as well.
Serious question. Are you a republican? Did you believe in "death panels" of bureaucrats deciding who gets treatment? Because, same thing.
Eta not believe in as they existed but believed Sarah Palin that they would. Someone else making decisions for someone else would be a bad thing. In both cases.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
Can I at least force birth control on them??? I have seen a lot of people who abuse the privilege to have a child.
Probably a judge. Honestly, I'm not sure on that one. It was just a thought, I had no idea so many people would be against it!
No. It's called Eugenics and it's a method of 'cleansing' the gene pool.
You want it to be shitty parents, but someone else says it should be minorities, people with mental impairments, etc.
Taking children from people that have clearly demonstrated an inability to care for them is fine. I'm totally not okay with sterilization.
ETA: having children is not a privilege. It IS a right. Reproductive rights include your right to access BC, have an abortion, and have children if and when you see fit.
No, I had my LO November 15th, my damn computer won't change that,