Hi everyone I am new to AP although after reading up on it I have been doing this without knowing it had an official name. I am hoping to be an active member over here since I feel kind of out of sorts IRL. My DS is almost 9 weeks and I adore him
. Im a FTM and as duh as it sounds he has truly changed me. He's a very happy baby and everyone says it seems as though him and I are very strongly bonded(which makes me so happy). I feel out of sorts because family, friends and even DF seem to think I am "spoiling" him and I think I am just making sure he knows that I am here to do whatever he needs or wants from me. When he cries I go to him right away and meet whatever need he has, even if it's just him wanting me right there with him. And that's why according to them I'm spoiling him. I don't think I am and I know he cannot self soothe etc. so I guess I'm just looking for some support in that I'm not ruining my baby.