Will you find out the sex?

klc31883 · February 2014

We definitely will! We found out with our first and I was shocked - for some reason I thought I was having a boy. This time I don't have a feeling yet.

annejulie26 · February 2014

We didn't with our first. But it was a rough dilivery with him being sent to the Nicu and I feel like I missed out not finding out at 20 weeks. At that point it didn't matter. Leaning towards finding out this time!

Jpinky9 · February 2014

We are keeping this one a surprise! It's our first and we both want the big surprise. I think when we have baby 2 down the road we will find out.

Krikin13 · February 2014

We want to know as soon as we can

BeckIsCute · February 2014

Yes. We found out with our first and will again. I need to decorate and buy things!

DoubleUp8 · February 2014

We are going to find out. Mostly because I can be impatient about things I am excited about and I hate the thought of the doctors knowing and me not knowing. Also, I had a friend where an ultrasound tech slipped and accidently gave a hint that told the sex of the baby. I would hate to have the happen. I figure it will be exciting no matter what!

turtles7 · February 2014

Yup! I don't think I will be able to wait. Our first appointment is on the 17th and that feels like eternity.

rkargerja · February 2014

I am going to be Team Green this time. I found out with DS because I was too excited but I figure not finding out for this one will have a different level of excitement. I'm hoping the time will pass quickly this time since DS keeps me pretty busy.

jibell · February 2014

This will be #3 and since we already have one of each may go team green this time since I already have stuff for either gender

LuckyPenny1231 · February 2014

Yes. We found out with our first as well.

JsRib · February 2014

We didnt find out with our first but after two losses I just want an F'n baby and I want to know what it is so I can buy it a ton of shit!

mrsodonnell12 · February 2014

Team green here! We found out with our first 2 and want to try the team green way this time!

bim38106 · February 2014

yes! I need to know

We found out with our first 2. I think that if I had a boy and a girl, we might have been team green this time, but I want to know if I need to stock up on boy clothes and decorations and stuff. I think it would be awesome to wait, but I am just too impatient

jessa1228 · February 2014

We will, but if for some reason baby doesn't cooperate at the a/s I won't be bummed.

haileyq · February 2014

We'll be surprised this time, we found out with our first because he was a bit of a surprise haha, came 4 months after our wedding, so we had a lot on our plates and needed to prep! This time though, I want the big surprise. DH doesn't but dammit I win!

abbyful · February 2014

We will find out, even knowing the sex of DS, it was hard to pick a name. I can't imagine trying to have DH & I agree on both a boy and a girl name!

Byrrd · February 2014

Nope, we won't find out. We will be having as few ultrasounds as possible and then want them to be as fast as possible when they are absolutely necessary. No extra time to look around for genitals.

Quitecontrary79 · February 2014

I'm not sure if I will find out. We did with first two so kind of want a suprise this time.
Anyone tried the Chinese gender calculater? Predicted my two boys correct and this time I'm predicted a girl.

missyishere · February 2014

You have a 50/50 guess on the Chinese calendar, so I wouldn't use that as a reliable source. I found out at 20 weeks, because I was too impatient to wait that long.

saralu82 · February 2014

We will find out. I think it will be easier with DS understanding what is happening.

CoffeeAndWine · February 2014

I mentioned this in the spreadsheet post, but we're either team green this time or not telling people if we do find out. I like to know ahead of time but I just can't handle all the "your poor DH" or "I'm sorry" comments again if we have another girl. All those comments really upset me with #3.

Quitecontrary79 · February 2014

Sorry to hear you had upsetting comments with #3 Melak728. That's sort of why I don't want to find out. We have 2 boys and I know everyone will be similar to what they said to you.

CoffeeAndWine · February 2014

Quitecontrary79 said:
Sorry to hear you had upsetting comments with #3 Melak728. That's sort of why I don't want to find out. We have 2 boys and I know everyone will be similar to what they said to you.

It's supposed to be the ideal family, I guess. At least one of each sex. But I was never disappointed and it drives me crazy that people expect me to be.

Quitecontrary79 · February 2014

I won't lie I would love a girl but I'm so pleased to have number 3 I don't care what we get as long as its healthy.

CoffeeAndWine · February 2014

I understand! I'm crossing my fingers for a boy this time but at this point I'm not even sure we can make them!

cinnamin922 · February 2014

We are because we need to decide if they will be sharing a room or not...

BlackBooks · February 2014

We haven't even discussed this yet! Right now I am voting no.

TeeJ526 · February 2014

W haven't talked about this yet. I'm going to assume though that MH is just as interested in finding out as I am.

elc9311 · February 2014

I have to find out. If I don't, no matter what we have it will be in pink. My MIL is anxious for us to be having a little girl and she has a stash of pink items just waiting.

Owlgrad2015 · February 2014

Yes we will find out the sex!! This is my first pregnancy and we want to find out as soon as possible is order to prepare/pick names/shop! Further down the line with other children we might keep it a secret

KTgator · February 2014

Yes! We have girl stuff covered, but if it's a boy we will need to buy clothing and what not

venussapphire · March 2014

No way!!

mjay79 · March 2014

We found out for 1 and 2. Went team green for 3. I love being team green, but DH wants to know, I don't. We tried him finding out and me not knowing for #2, but I found the paper that the doctor wrote it on a few days after. So its all or nothing.

kjmommy1214 · March 2014

We will be finding out. We did with LO1. She showed it off first thing! No shame.

pennyandandy · March 2014

We are on the fence. We were team green with DS, but are considering finding out this time just to have a different experience.

SweetMelissa5 · March 2014

We'll find out. We've always picked a boy name and a girl name and then once we found out at the a/s, we used the baby's name for the rest of the pregnancy. I felt like it helped me bond to the babies, and I think it helped the older kids see "the baby in Mommy's belly" as a real person more easily.

featherweather · March 2014

Nope. I love spoilers, so this is a good opportunity to practice restraint.

Also, someone mentioned room sharing, and I've seen it mentioned in other forums. Just out of curiosity, is it common practice to seperate male and female children's bedrooms, even when very young? Is this just preference or is there some study? I ask because I shared a room with my brother for the first... 5? 6? 8? years of my life, and in our two bedroom apartment, subsequent children aren't really going to get the choice! Just curious!

pennyandandy · March 2014

featherweather said:

Nope. I love spoilers, so this is a good opportunity to practice restraint.

Also, someone mentioned room sharing, and I've seen it mentioned in other forums. Just out of curiosity, is it common practice to seperate male and female children's bedrooms, even when very young? Is this just preference or is there some study? I ask because I shared a room with my brother for the first... 5? 6? 8? years of my life, and in our two bedroom apartment, subsequent children aren't really going to get the choice! Just curious!

Our kids will share a room for a bit, no matter what gender this one is. We bought an old farm house and have remodeled most all of it except the guest room, which will be Paul's room. Until it's done, they will share.

akatiegrl · March 2014

We will be finding out. I love the idea of making it a surprise but we are moving into a new house in May and there is already a very pink bedroom. If it's a girl I won't bother painting, but if it's a boy I want to have the room all ready for him too!

renbee · March 2014

Oh man I hate surprises! We'd be thrilled with either but I am a crazy planner and would love to know now if I could!

ambam25 · March 2014

I am on the fence, we didn't find out with our DD, my husband doesn't really want to with this one, but I kind if do, he said I could know and no one else knows, but I don't want to be the only one that knows. So I guess we will see at the 20 week ultrasound.

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