Abnormal Anatomy Scan- HELP!

Re: Abnormal Anatomy Scan- HELP!

• chaysefaith member

  February 2014 edited February 2014

  OP- I know I speak for at least myself and Steph when I say this. Your original post was hard to interpret. Steph and I are no longer "active" members in this community, due to late miscarriages, however we both still lurk regularly just to make sure we are not missing out on the opportunity to support a J14 mom who needs it, just like they supported us when we needed it. I wrote, erased, rewrote, erased, and wrote for a third time my comment because I was wavering between being a snarky bitch and being supportive because you HAVE received scary news. The problem is, Steph and I did EVERYTHING we could to keep our babies, I was at my doctors office every single day for 2 weeks trying to keep him, and to read a comment that says "I don't even take antibiotics, why me" is like a slap in the face. The "backlash" you received you got because this board was, once again, trying to protect it's own. These ladies don't even know when or how often Steph and I (as well as other J14 loss moms) lurk, but they know those words can hurt. What was said to you was said very gracefully in an attempt to make you understand why your words could be hurtful and why you may want to think twice about the content of your posts in the future.
  
  
  
  Sorry for the wall of text, love you J14

  Report17 Reply