May 2014 Moms

Monday bitchfest

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09/23/11 - Married DH

04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks

05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d

08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d

09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

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Re: Monday bitchfest

  • 1) don't ask me what veggie options I want available for lunch at the training day next week, then say "hmmm, what about this? What about a seafood option?" You were asking me, not yourself. And seafood isn't vegetarian.

    2) some douche has parked in my parking space outside my house. We have no driveway so I've put a note on their window. They have no right to park here and they've messed with the wrong pregnant lady.

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    09/23/11 - Married DH

    04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks

    05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d

    08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d

    09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

    10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

    12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

    05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

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  • awc1986 said:
    1) don't ask me what veggie options I want available for lunch at the training day next week, then say "hmmm, what about this? What about a seafood option?" You were asking me, not yourself. And seafood isn't vegetarian. 2) some douche has parked in my parking space outside my house. We have no driveway so I've put a note on their window. They have no right to park here and they've messed with the wrong pregnant lady.
    I'd park behind them and write a note "You'll have to find me to get out" ... Assholes.

    I don't have too much to bitch about. My skittles and mountain dew are gone, and that sucks.
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  • MIL is most likely not coming to my shower.she live 1 1/2 hrs away but claims it's too far, she can't sit in a car that long, what if she has to walk up stairs to the bathroom, etc. she has some health issues but she makes them seem worse than they are to get attention and they are mainly in her control. DH thinks i'm unreasonable to be aggravated about this.
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  • I don't usually participate, but this day can officially suck it.

    I woke up with a crick in my neck; I am constipated & have a huge hemorrhoid (sorry!); it took me an hour to get online at work this morning; the nurse just called and I failed my 1 hour glucose test and I'm anemic; I'm disappointed in our crib - it has several dings & paint chips.  I want to return it, but hate to make my husband disassemble & reassemble.   Boo! Hiss!
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  • I over did it yesterday walking around a flower show, and today my back and feet still hurt. Nobody offered me a seat on the T this morning, and one lady even pushed by me to get into the train and take the last available seat.

    my job annoys the absolute shit out of me, and i have no one here to vent to or commiserate with since they fired all the people i got along with.

    i have a headache for some reason.

    it's monday.


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  • Long story short, I am waiting on our gas to be reconnected. It is my fault the bill didn't get paid (it was sent to our bank account that I never check and it is a piddly bill of usually about $20) but a disconnect notice would have been nice. What is more is how much they screw you over in multiple ways to get it turned back on! Not only is it $200 to be reconnected (which is about 6-9 months of our normal bill!), but they cut it off on Friday (so no hot water or oven or stove, etc the entire weekend) and make you be available the entire day from 8 am until 10 pm to get it turned back on!!! Since they did say they would call, I went to work. Well, they called me over an hour ago to say they were coming as soon as I had sat down to eat. I interrupted my meal to run home like a crazy person. And an hour and five minutes later, they still aren't here!!! This is the first time in my life I have ever had to deal with something like this (other than a move) and while I g this is predpredominantly my fault, I feel like this is borderline taking advantage! I seriously wonder what poor people do who can't afford the absurd reconnect fee or who can't just take off work for a day!
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
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  • IBackBevo said:
    Long story short, I am waiting on our gas to be reconnected. It is my fault the bill didn't get paid (it was sent to our bank account that I never check and it is a piddly bill of usually about $20) but a disconnect notice would have been nice. What is more is how much they screw you over in multiple ways to get it turned back on! Not only is it $200 to be reconnected (which is about 6-9 months of our normal bill!), but they cut it off on Friday (so no hot water or oven or stove, etc the entire weekend) and make you be available the entire day from 8 am until 10 pm to get it turned back on!!! Since they did say they would call, I went to work. Well, they called me over an hour ago to say they were coming as soon as I had sat down to eat. I interrupted my meal to run home like a crazy person. And an hour and five minutes later, they still aren't here!!! This is the first time in my life I have ever had to deal with something like this (other than a move) and while I g this is predpredominantly my fault, I feel like this is borderline taking advantage! I seriously wonder what poor people do who can't afford the absurd reconnect fee or who can't just take off work for a day!
    That really sucks that they didn't even send you a notice. Like, people make admin mistakes sometimes and missing one bill payment doesn't make someone a bad customer. To cut off your gas over the weekend? Garbage!

    I hope they show up soon 
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  • IBackBevo said:

    Long story short, I am waiting on our gas to be reconnected. It is my fault the bill didn't get paid (it was sent to our bank account that I never check and it is a piddly bill of usually about $20) but a disconnect notice would have been nice. What is more is how much they screw you over in multiple ways to get it turned back on! Not only is it $200 to be reconnected (which is about 6-9 months of our normal bill!), but they cut it off on Friday (so no hot water or oven or stove, etc the entire weekend) and make you be available the entire day from 8 am until 10 pm to get it turned back on!!! Since they did say they would call, I went to work. Well, they called me over an hour ago to say they were coming as soon as I had sat down to eat. I interrupted my meal to run home like a crazy person. And an hour and five minutes later, they still aren't here!!! This is the first time in my life I have ever had to deal with something like this (other than a move) and while I g this is predpredominantly my fault, I feel like this is borderline taking advantage! I seriously wonder what poor people do who can't afford the absurd reconnect fee or who can't just take off work for a day!

    That really sucks that they didn't even send you a notice. Like, people make admin mistakes sometimes and missing one bill payment doesn't make someone a bad customer. To cut off your gas over the weekend? Garbage!

    I hope they show up soon 
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    They finally showed up. Now I am waiting while he reconnects.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • We got moved into our house over the weekend, but still have a ton of stuff to do to get it all together.  And some disgusting person apparently decided to use our restroom before we moved in and not freaking flush.  How hard is it to flush the damn toilet??  And don't be using my bathroom please.  There wasn't even toilet paper in there...


  • My Monday bitch is that apparently despite me repeatedly telling hubby it is painful and nearly impossible to bend down now, he feels it's ok to sit and watch me pick the kids toys up off the floor whilst he lays on the sofa. Oh, and then leaves me to clear up a drinks spillage off the carpet whilst he goes and has his afterwork hour soak in the bath.
  • My Monday bitch is that apparently despite me repeatedly telling hubby it is painful and nearly impossible to bend down now, he feels it's ok to sit and watch me pick the kids toys up off the floor whilst he lays on the sofa. Oh, and then leaves me to clear up a drinks spillage off the carpet whilst he goes and has his afterwork hour soak in the bath.

    Ugh! I hate this! No matter how many times I tell dh how hard it is for me to get up and down, it's like it goes on one ear and out the other. He lets ds throw food on the ground and then ends up stepping in it and tracking it everywhere so what would have been nbd to pick up if you had done it when he threw itdown tthen turns into having to mop half the kitchen.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • lissym17 said:
    Still in a lot of pain from my fall on Friday. Went to the ER because I can barely move and of course the baby is perfectly fine. Instead of checking my painful butt they decide to send me upstairs to the deliver room... I'm extremely confused && soooo hungry!

    The ER usually doesn't want to deal with prego's - so they end up sending us ladies up to L&D right away.

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  • DH boss is a total loser and I swear I think we are going to have to take legal action against him. First he shorts DH 460 out of his pay because he was behind on an insurance payment which he wasnt I've submitted proof that we are paid up and still no money back but now its pay day and I've checked no pay has gone in. He's also behind in the raise that is stipulated in DH contract by over 4 months. 

    DH is apply other places but until he gets a new job theres no much we can do but gather evidence for our attorney and wait it out. I'm so frustrated this guy is such a sleaze ball though its not like I had bills to pay today or anything
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  • We are having our heater, a/c, and water heater replaced today. The install guys were 30 mins late, causing me to be late to my OB appt. The nurse taking my blood (did my GTT today) had to poke me THREE TIMES to get a good spot, and I got my Tdap and Rh shot all on the same arm. Boo. Came home to the HVAC guys gone, and found out our heater and water heater won't be up and running until tomorrow evening. Turns out they brought the wrong parts. So now I'm sitting in a cold house unable to shower, do laundry or dishes because no hot water. I know, first world problems, but still. 
    and I want some damn girl scout cookies!!!
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  • So I come into work today feeling like total crap. Tired, achy, and just utterly bitchy. Then I have people tell me "well you don't look so good, maybe you should go home and get some rest." Really?! Thanks for the tip genius! I mean don't you remember how hard it is to grow a human?! I would SO love to go home and rest but how do you rest when you can't even get comfortable? Ugh and now I have a headache for some reason... 

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  • Mine is that my first trimester nausea has made a reappearance.  It can go away!
  • So apparently when gas guy (who had to replace the meter) finally shows up and does his job (which took over 2.5 hours), he can't re-light the pilot light on one of our hot water heaters.  So now we are still without hot water in part of the house.  The contractor guy basically just said, "Not my problem" and left. I feel like I screwed up one thing and this gas bill business is the gift that just keeps on giving.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • We got moved into our house over the weekend, but still have a ton of stuff to do to get it all together.  And some disgusting person apparently decided to use our restroom before we moved in and not freaking flush.  How hard is it to flush the damn toilet??  And don't be using my bathroom please.  There wasn't even toilet paper in there...


    Oh my god this reminds me. I must have blocked this out or something because I haven't thought about it in a couple of years.

    When we moved into our house it had been empty for about a year. There was a petrified turd in the guest toilet. ::shudders forever::
    Ewww that is so disgusting!
  • Ok here it goes...I am holding on to pent up bitchiness...still bitchy after dealing with the worst migraine of my life lasting 24+hours (saturday-sunday).  So glad that I got to spend my weekend trapped in a dark room and wishing I could cut off my own head.  A good night's sleep would be great, especially now that I am two days overdue for one of those.  And to the crooked douche that thinks he is my boss, but actually is not my boss...go eff yourself!  Stop trying to tell me how to do my job and stop concerning yourself with my work.

     

  • I just had 3 seperate people within the space of an hour tell me how big I've got. Self esteem through the roof right now :-w

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    09/23/11 - Married DH

    04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks

    05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d

    08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d

    09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

    10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

    12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

    05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

  • I am so glad my Mother knows just off the top of her head while considering a subject matter for all of 30 seconds better than I do on subjects I have either researched or thought about and mulled over for weeks and sometimes months. SMDH.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • lissym17 said:

    Still in a lot of pain from my fall on Friday. Went to the ER because I can barely move and of course the baby is perfectly fine. Instead of checking my painful butt they decide to send me upstairs to the deliver room... I'm extremely confused && soooo hungry!


    The ER usually doesn't want to deal with prego's - so they end up sending us ladies up to L&D right away.

    This. Almost all ERs have a 20-24 week cut off line to where they will automatically send you up to L & D to have you be checked out there first. I've actually been sent to L & D only to be cleared by them and sent back to ER for more tests. Frustrating!

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  • My Monday bitch is that apparently despite me repeatedly telling hubby it is painful and nearly impossible to bend down now, he feels it's ok to sit and watch me pick the kids toys up off the floor whilst he lays on the sofa. Oh, and then leaves me to clear up a drinks spillage off the carpet whilst he goes and has his afterwork hour soak in the bath.

    I can now also add that I'm apparently his personal shit skids in the toilet cleaner! Why can't men just clean up after themselves.
    Gggrrrrrr
  • Within 1 minute of being open at work today a customer told me I was crazy (because she had to follow our policies). Thanks ma'am. Happy f'ing Monday to you too!
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  • Kid has been in rare form lately. We need out of the house. Winter, you are welcome to leave, like yesterday.
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    edited February 2014
    Dear Hampton Inn, 

    Plunging the toilet in my hotel room was not on my agenda today. Also, when I called the front desk to make them aware of the toilet water spilling out all over my bathroom floor, the response I was hoping for was not "Come down to the front desk to grab the plunger." If you're going to make me plunge my own toilet, please provide plungers in all of the rooms. Do not make me drag my 7 month pregnant self down and up two flights of stairs to grab the only plunger your hotel seems to own (wrapped in a plastic bag because it's still wet and filthy from the last poor sucker who had to use it). At least I got a pile of extra towels so I could wipe the toilet backflow off of the floor? (still no word on how to make it sanitary today). 

    I understand that you don't maintain 24 hour maintenance or cleaning staff, and that the capabilities of the front desk are limited. But I'm not feeling terribly considerate towards you right now, as I now need to shower all of the plunger back-spatter off. 

    No love, 

    Me

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  • There is a jackass who works in my (small) office bldg on Mondays. He comments on my lunch every. Single. Time. (Quantity & contents are both fair game. When he found out I was pregnant, his reply was "I didn't want to say anything because I wasn't sure if you were just getting fat". He goes on and on, and is somewhat creepy.

    Today he commented on my lunch again, to which I replied that I had brought enough for 2 days. A coworker reminded him that I am after all growing a child. Smartass response : "a 10lb-er?"
    She and I started discussing the birthweight of her babies, in the range of 6-7lbs because they all came 2-5 wks early (already not funny since 2 had complications, one spent a month in hospital) and he actually thought he was clever in suggesting that the reason her babies all came early was because she was too slack (if you get my drift) to keep them in any longer!!!

    Unfuckingbelievable and I spent the afternoon spitting mad.
  • Kinda updating on my WTF from wednesday last week... Quick recap... Have a workman's comp injury, herniated L5/S1... workman's comp is shit and I hate them and I hate my case manager even more. She sucks at life... My back Dr's office either screwed up or something and even though I went in with worsening symptoms last month I somehow was discharged. Workman's comp only authorizes so many physical therapy sessions a month and then I have to follow up every month with the Dr to verify if I'm doing better/worse... Sooooo....

    Had my last physical therapy today. Hurt my back even more while there (not their fault, just happened to move wrong). Left a VM for case manager and it always takes at least a few days to a week to hear back from her. Last time I just got a letter in the mail (dumb bitch, I said CALL me back, actually have to DISCUSS things). After I finally hear from her it usually takes at least 2 weeks to get back into the Dr (why workman's comp thinks it's ok to schedule an appt for an injury 3 weeks out... seriously?). Case manager at the Dr office said "well if you're no longer symptom free then everything has to be reauthorized with workman's comp and they most likely will want you to go to someone else to have a second opinion". Seriously!!?? I was NEVER symptom free! I was getting worse!! I'M PREGNANT!! I can't feel my leg at times woman! I should have never been discharged and now everything is fucked up and gonna take weeks to fix! My pain tolerance which is usually very high is starting to suck... and chronic pain leads to me feeling depressed cause I feel like I can't do anything or go anywhere.

    I just overall hate workman's comp and wish I could just use my regular insurance but I can't. And any procedures after baby that they can finally go back to doing will be paid in full... kinda don't want to skip that part.

    Ok sorry about my bitch haha. Its just controlling my life sadly :( 

    ...And I just snissed for the first time... wonderful!
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  • This all happened yesterday.

    1. I peed myself for the first time. It was mortifying.
    2. Our roof leaked so I had to watch poor DH shovel the snow off the roof. Which really did nothing, and the condo corp is basically saying "I don't care" to the ice on the roof.
    3. My sister told me my mother is going for testing as she found a lump. My mother didn't want to worry me.

    Ugh. 
  • I have to drive to Halifax tomorrow alone (4 hours either way) to pick up a package my mum sent me. I have to go tomorrow because I have to clear it through customs personally and the shipping company won't hold it any longer without charging $50 a day. So now I need to take a personal day from work and drive 8 hours. Oh and I found out my MIL is coming to stay for 5 weeks after baby is born! I like my MIL but 5 weeks seriously, I don't even know how I'm going to deal with that.
  • All the talk about packages got me wondering where the F mine was. So I went on amazon and saw that it won't be here until between March 13 and something like the 21st. I ordered this in the beginning of last week. So you're telling me it's going to take (starting from when I ordered) around 3-4 WEEKS to get here? Where is it coming from?!?!

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  • The belly is just always in the way and uncomfortable. Sitting down, getting up, driving the car, hell just bending over...it's just out there and achy and in the way. Oh, and I can't do any of the above without feeling out of breath. Oh, and I can't do anything without the BH hitting me and now those are uncomfortable. Will be the longest 11 weeks ever.
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