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CMV questions

I hope it is ok that I post here.  I know there is a chance that some of you ladies may be able to help me.   I lost my son 3 weeks ago at 24 weeks, due to CMV.  I had never heard of it before and it's so sad what it can do to babies/children.  

I was wondering if any of you have a child with CMV and if you went onto have a second child?  Did you wait to TTC?  My dr does not seemed concerned with the idea of us TTC.  I want to make sure the initial strain of CMV is out of my system.  

Thanks for your thoughts!

BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                              <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

Re: CMV questions

  • Thanks for sharing your friend's story.  I'm shocked that I never heard of a virus as common as CMV that can cause so many issues.  I still can't believe that it stole my baby.  :(


    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • Bump. I posted this a few weeks ago and thought I see if anyone else might have thoughts/suggestions in regards to CMV.

    I appreciate you allowing me to post here. This is the only time I will bump it. Thanks!!

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I don't have personal experience with it but have interacted with others who do since my daughter was born with severe hearing loss and that can be a cause of hearing loss. It is so unfortunate that something that you would barely think about when not pregnant can cause so much devastation for your baby while pregnant. I hope medical care sees greater advances with this eventually to help prevent it from occurring.
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  • CMV is one of the tests that you get tested for in a panel called TORCH test (the C stands for CMV) these can be deadly to babies. I myself as an adult had CMV and didn't know it until I kept running fevers and an infectious disease doc ran a bunch of stuff and said I had CMV.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I don't have personal experience with it but have interacted with others who do since my daughter was born with severe hearing loss and that can be a cause of hearing loss. It is so unfortunate that something that you would barely think about when not pregnant can cause so much devastation for your baby while pregnant. I hope medical care sees greater advances with this eventually to help prevent it from occurring.

    It is shocking the impact it can have on a child and no one (well with my friends/family) has heard about it. Hopefully they can find some treatment options for it.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • McRib said:

    Hi Hopefully you're still checking in. I had a miscarriage and I have lyme disease. CMV is often seen in people with lyme or other tick borne infections. Have you screened for this? This is one of the many things people pick up when tick borne disease is supressing the immune system.

    Interesting. I will have to look into this. Thanks for the info.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • CMV is one of the tests that you get tested for in a panel called TORCH test (the C stands for CMV) these can be deadly to babies. I myself as an adult had CMV and didn't know it until I kept running fevers and an infectious disease doc ran a bunch of stuff and said I had CMV.

    I've seen the TORCH test referenced here before, but had no idea what they screened for. I will have to google it.

    CMV is very common in adults (50-80%) have it. It's just getting it for the first time while pg that causes issues. My dr gave us the ok to TTC, but I'm worried still. Ugh

    Thanks!

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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