This is more of a discussion than an actual question.
DS1 is in a school solely for children with special needs. They have a daycare on site that is from ages 6 weeks to 5 years. These kids go back and forth between the daycare and the special needs preschool and kindergarten classes, it's how they provide typical peer models. For the kids with higher physical skills, they may send them to the daycare for an activity during the school day.
When we starting the IEP process we met with an organziation that does a lot with parent education, advocation, and early intervention. They offer playgroups and workshops for siblings etc. When I mentioned that the school district wanted to send DS1 to a special needs school the woman was offended. She went off on a twenty minute tirade about how that is anti IDEA and anti LRE. An inclusive mainstream classroom is the best setting for every child and we should be pushing the district to offer that us as an option.
Now, I took this woman's advice with a grain of salt but now that we're descending upon the season of annual IEP writing I'm wondering what others think.
I feel that inclusion in a mainstream setting is an IDEAL goal for most children. But not all. Is this a common practice that ALL children should be pushed to mainstream? I am completely for this when you have a child with an average IQ or mild ID, or a child that is borderline with needing services. But at this point we're pretty sure that DS1 is in the moderately to severely ID and he isn't even close to children his age in cognition or motor skills.
Re: Inclusivity in mainstream versus self-contained special needs classes
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010