Hi Ladies,
I don't know if any of you can offer some support or suggestions. I am having a really hard time with my almost 2 year old DD. We night weaned her about a month and a half ago. She did beautifully for a few weeks but I feel like she has gone backwards. For the past few weeks she has been waking up demanding and crying to nurse. We cosleep for part of the night. We just recently switched her to a toddler bed so I don't know if that could have something to do with it. Anyway, I always have a sippy cup of water for her but she just doesn't want it. I've not nursed her since we nightweaned so I don't know why she is thinking she is going to all of a sudden start nursing at night again.
I am tired and frustrated. I don't know what we're doing wrong. The thing is she has never been a great sleeper and the whole sleep stuff is starting to get really old. She rarely gives us longer than 3 hour stretches, even when cosleeping. I wouldn't mind one wake up but this is just getting ridiculous. I feel like the older she gets the worse her sleep gets. She did great for the first few weeks right after night weaning and now she is sleeping worse than ever.
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Hi, I don't usually post here but was lurking and saw your post. I have had a lot of sleep troubles with my DS so I feel like I have some experience/knowledge that might help.
I wonder if she is confused by the multiple, changing sleeping arrangements. Up until recently, she could nurse at night and was in your bed. Now, she can't nurse at night (or do you sometimes give in and nurse her?), and she's sometimes in your bed and sometimes in her new bed. My DS personally really needs consistency - when we finally were successful at night-weaning (and STTN) it was cold-turkey, no nursing until morning. We had tried the gradual approach and I was still nursing him when he woke around 3:00am or so. He did great for several weeks and then started waking earlier and earlier wanting to nurse, until it was like we were back at square one. So we tried the cold-turkey approach and while we had a few rough nights, now he almost always STTN and when he does wake up, I know it's because he really needs something, whereas before it was like he was just testing his boundaries (let's see if I wake up now if I can nurse...).
HTH and GL!
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)