@bellamatson I was ruling out all the factors of her rash. It could be a heat rash, but we've been having gloomy rainy weather for a couple of days. I didn't know you grew up here or you mentioned it and I forgot sorry.
I'm gonna join in with the H whining (full disclosure: DH is normally amazing, helpful and very supportive, he just had an off day):
DH, I got THREE hours of sleep last night because our daughter was nursing virtually non stop- you slept from 9pm to 7am before I asked you to entertain her so I could wash the puke out of my hair: "can't you wait? I'm tired" is NOT an answer I should hear. You say "well I work so I need the sleep " is also not a good excuse when you've had the last THREE DAYS OFF. You lose your right to pull that card. Entertaining a baby does not mean having her lay next to you while you play clash of the mothertruckin clans/'- I hate that game and am two seconds away from smashing your iPad! LO was crying because you were ignoring her- telling her to shut her damn mouth is not going to magically make her stop. Nor does letting her cry it out in her crib make her realize why you're irritated. You had her for five minutes and you tossed her in the crib while I had a ride awake baby all night (luckily she was a very HAPPY, wide awake baby). When I make you lunch, telling me to put her in the sling so you don't have to deal with her so you have both hands to play on the iPad is also unacceptable. Next time, make your own damned grilled cheese. I did laundry, dishes, cooked every meal today, grocery shopped, all with a baby strapped to me and you think date complain how exhausted you are over your three day weekend?
DH did make a turn around this evening and let me catch a nap while he took care of DD. He's allowed an off day every now and then, I just wish they wouldn't fall on the same days I am severely sleep deprived.
LO was crying because you were ignoring her- telling her to shut her damn mouth is not going to magically make her stop.
All of it was messed up, but WTF to that.^
Military man, they all seem to have trouble controlling their language (not that this is a good excuse). I should've included that he immedietly apologized to her and gave her some serious cuddles. I still gave him a thorough tongue lashing but at least he acknowledged (without being told) how unacceptable that was to say to his child, much less a baby who has no other way of communicating other than crying.
I just had to throw out three pounds of bacon because someone decided donating expired meat to a food auction was a good idea. WTF that could make someone really sick! Hope the 2 or so dollars was worth it.
I know it's no longer Monday but I needed to vent this: I am pumping and just leaned over to pick up a toy that my dog was trying to get to and breastmilk went everywhere! WTF was I thinking?! Oh I am so sad (
Re: Monday bitchfest
I didn't know you grew up here or you mentioned it and I forgot
DH, I got THREE hours of sleep last night because our daughter was nursing virtually non stop- you slept from 9pm to 7am before I asked you to entertain her so I could wash the puke out of my hair: "can't you wait? I'm tired" is NOT an answer I should hear. You say "well I work so I need the sleep " is also not a good excuse when you've had the last THREE DAYS OFF. You lose your right to pull that card. Entertaining a baby does not mean having her lay next to you while you play clash of the mothertruckin clans/'- I hate that game and am two seconds away from smashing your iPad! LO was crying because you were ignoring her- telling her to shut her damn mouth is not going to magically make her stop. Nor does letting her cry it out in her crib make her realize why you're irritated. You had her for five minutes and you tossed her in the crib while I had a ride awake baby all night (luckily she was a very HAPPY, wide awake baby). When I make you lunch, telling me to put her in the sling so you don't have to deal with her so you have both hands to play on the iPad is also unacceptable. Next time, make your own damned grilled cheese. I did laundry, dishes, cooked every meal today, grocery shopped, all with a baby strapped to me and you think date complain how exhausted you are over your three day weekend?
DH did make a turn around this evening and let me catch a nap while he took care of DD. He's allowed an off day every now and then, I just wish they wouldn't fall on the same days I am severely sleep deprived.
Military man, they all seem to have trouble controlling their language (not that this is a good excuse). I should've included that he immedietly apologized to her and gave her some serious cuddles. I still gave him a thorough tongue lashing but at least he acknowledged (without being told) how unacceptable that was to say to his child, much less a baby who has no other way of communicating other than crying.
I will say that I went home for lunch to visit J and he was doing great and didn't seem to be missing me!