May 2014 Moms

Monday Bitchfest

It's early, but lets do this! 

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09/23/11 - Married DH

04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks

05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d

08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d

09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

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  • I'm in a special bitchy mood today. I called off work sick because i have a horrible cold and was up most of the night with sinus pain. Then when the sinus pain got better, the hip pain kicked in! I hate calling into work sick and I was pretty proud of myself for not taking any sick time during this pregnancy, when I easily could have. Doesn't help that I don't get paid for it either.

    I hate just not doing anything though. I'm in my jammies on the sofa and i need to do something! I might start washing LO's clothes! I need to test the baby care cycle on our new washing machine! 

    Oh and i have my first haemorrhoid. Splendid.  X(

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    09/23/11 - Married DH

    04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks

    05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d

    08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d

    09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!  

    10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!

    12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!

    05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!

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  • My hair has been falling out in clumps and breaking easily for most of this pregnancy.  Now it's sort of starting to grow back, but that leaves me with mostly long hair and areas of 2" hair which seem to want to defy gravity and leave me with a hideous muppet/mullet look.  
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  • I'm sitting waiting for my three hour Glucose test to start. I have a sinus infection, and my boss sent me a nasty email about a mistake I did NOT make. At least I am not at work today. Bleh.
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  • 1. It's Monday
    2. We are testing today which means I'm stuck in a room with one student all day.
    3. Between hip pain and nightmares I got very little sleep last night.
  • My dog had some kind of a reaction to something last night. Woke up scratching the crap out of his face where it is swollen and wouldn't go back to bed. We have him Benadryl and I slept on the floor next to him for a while so I could stop him if he started scratching. (Yeah, he's spoiled. But he will tear the crap out of his face if he does). Anyway, I'm exhausted from that to the point where I feel nauseas! (Getting me ready for mommy hood?)

    Also, I already had today off-awesome. Except it just started snowing-AGAIN! I need to go grocery shopping BAD. I was going to go today but I'm not going out in that. It looks nasty out there. Now I have to wait until the roads clear which might not be till tonight. IM SO SICK OF THIS SNOW!!!!
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  • 1. I'm at work.  I don't have another day off until my maternity leave in May.

    2. DH is at home relaxing.  I'm almost positive the house won't be clean by the time I get home, but I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.

    3. I share a cube wall with someone who clears his throat INCESSANTLY.  It drives me crazy, and I forgot my headphones today, so I'm stuck listening to it all.day.long.
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  • We got several inches of snow last Thursday, which my Dad thoughtfully snow blowed for me Friday. We got 3" more Saturday.

    Well, guess what? We're getting 2-4" more tomorrow. Yay.




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  • I slept like crap last night for the third night in a row. Waking up with horrible stomach pains and pooping every night in the middle of the night is getting really old. I'm way to wide awake by the time I lay back down.

    DH was actually off this weekend (first time since October), but we didn't accomplish nearly as much as I had hoped. I'm starting to think we will never get anything done unless he take a a week of vacation before baby gets here.

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  • It snowed an inch last night even though they were predicting warm weather. I had an ugly-cry breakdown because I'm stressed with all there is to do before the kid arrives and we're at 12 weeks left. DH kept saying it's all finishing touches and it just pissed me off because every weekend it's "we can do it next weekend, plenty of time". I must've scared the crap out of him because he put together the models for the mobile and finished the high-chair.
  • I've been waking up between 4:30 and 4:45 every morning these last 3 days, it's getting old fast! I'm tired constantly, so why can't I sleep!!

    All the boys have a cold (DH and both DSs) and I just realized how royally screwed I am to have a family of boys who will most likely all have the man cold all at the same time for the next 18+ years. Another reason I hope this LO is a girl ;)

    My aunt and cousin are coming to visit me from Saskatoon for a week. Really looking forward to it, because they are my favourite people in the whole world. And I only get to see them 2-3 times a year now that thy moved away from me. But I feel very overwhelmed with all the thigs I want to get done before the arrive. Soooo much cleaning to do :(

    @erbear1010 I feel the same way about the kitchen. Seems like that's the only place I clean. If the counters are a mess or the sink is full, feels like the whole house is a dump.


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  • sheriotsheriot member
    edited February 2014
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    I'm frustrated with MIL. 
  • My mom plays one of those stupid games on her phone and absolutely sucks at it. She specifically asked me to add this game onto my phone for the sole purpose of requesting me to "send her lives". Biggest mistake ever. The past two days have been filled with her calling, texting, and even yelling from her room to "send her lives"! I don't even play this game and am on it a million times a day just to make her shut up, if even for 5 minutes.

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  • I'm really starting to feel disrespected by my in-laws (DH's mom and sisters). They somehow forget that I am a part of this family and raising his daughter (my SD) and am just as much a part of this family as my husband is... Trying really hard not to write them off.
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  • 1. Found out we are getting MORE snow again tonight... I'm so sick of snow! It feels like we've gotten at least 2" every other day for weeks now!
    2. Our neighbor has been shoveling their driveway at 5am every morning for the past 3 days. WTF!!! It hasn't snowed since Thursday (and a dusting on Saturday), everything that you haven't shoveled yet is now ice... WTF are you doing this and waking me up!?
    3. DH is on duty at the fire house all week, so I won't be seeing him much and I have to go away for drill again this weekend :(
    4... I'M SO SICK OF WINTER!!!
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  • My MIL made a big deal about being invited to both of my baby showers. She informed me yesterday she is busy the day of the larger one being hosted in the town we both live in, even though she's had the date for months. Coming off of this same BS with her and my graduation my my master's program, I am not a happy camper. Basically, she's done a really great job of making me feel like this baby and I are not important to get.
  • Have had a terrible cold for a month. Sinus infection is back. I'm tired of my sweet baby girl wearing my immune system. Enough!!!
  • IBackBevoIBackBevo member
    edited February 2014
    I am seriously so angry at my in-laws right now.  I already bitched about this on facebook, but they pulled a real stunt this weekend.  Previously, they took DS when he was only 9 months old out on their golf cart unrestrained on busy road (i.e. with cars, cars pulling boats, etc.) on a holiday weekend.  I nearly flipped when I learned about it because it was using such horrible judgment, but I kept my cool and had DH talk to them about not doing that again.  They agreed not to do it again.  I thought all was resolved until this weekend.  We requested them not to do it and they agreed.  Then we left DS with them overnight this weekend.  We came to pick up DS a couple of hours early and guess what we see as we drive up?  They are riding around with DS on their lap driving the golf cart on the road...after they had told us they would not do that again.  (And to be clear - there was no room for misunderstanding.)  When DS confronted them about it, they weren't even apologetic. FIL said, "We've raised two kids and we don't see it as being dangerous and we are going to use our judgment when we watch him." My DH told them it didn't matter what they thought, they had agreed not to do it and FIL basically said, "Well, when we watch him we are doing as we wish."  We left shortly thereafter even though we were supposed to have BBQ and cake for DH's birthday.   So now I basically feel like we can no longer leave them unsupervised with DS.  Not only do they use horrible judgment, but they don't even listen to our wishes...they lie about what they are doing and just go behind our back and do what they want to do.  (Note: I am also pretty sure they took DS to stay at their daughter's house overnight 30 minutes away when they didn't even have a carseat to put him in when they watched him overnight after I had told them not to do that because her house isn't baby proofed...I suspected it because it seemed like they had not slept at our house or spent anytime at our house. DH didn't believe me and said, "Oh, they would not do that. Not after we told them not to." I dropped it because I didn't have any hard proof. Now I feel like my gut instincts were probably correct.)

    The other part that is frustrating me about it is that while DH isn't happy with them about it and I will give him props to sort of standing up to them, he isn't nearly as upset as I am. I think he thinks this will just blow over and I will get over it in a few weeks, but that isn't going to happen.  I am not going to cut off contact with them or anything, but I am absolutely serious when I say that there is no way that they are watching DS unsupervised anymore.  I simply cannot trust them with him.  It is weird because I don't feel like he is taking their side per se, but I also don't feel like he is 100 percent on my side either. And I absolutely hate feeling like I am the one who has to be the heavy.  I feel like their behavior was bad enough that he should be as upset as I am.   
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  • IBackBevoIBackBevo member
    edited February 2014
    The thing with the golf cart still has me pissed off.  It's almost like they did it just to prove that they don't have to listen to you or something.

    Either way, what else can you do besides not leave him with them anymore?  But that answer sucks for you and for your DS.  Ugh.

    Why the fluck would they do that?
    I don't know why they would do what they did.

    And I think you are absolutely right about them doing it just to prove that they don't have to listen to us. FIL has been so horrible to me over the years that this really doesn't shock me.  He has been better since DS was born so I thought maybe he had gotten over some of his earlier issues, but now I am thinking not so much...


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  • Umm there are no words for the ILs situation. I'm sorry you are dealing with them and now can't even trust them with your son. What utter shit, people are crazy. The first time and discussion should have been the end of it.
  • Angry cause I found out today I failed my 1 hour glucose test... gotta do the 3 hour tomorrow and fast 12 hours... I get hungry like every two hours lately.. oh joy!

    All weekend I had to fight with my BILs for smoking pot in the house AGAIN for about the 10th time( not exaggerating )... My inlaws are out of state all the time cause their eldest son is sick which I can understand but they won't do anything about their younger sons... pisses me off so much...

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  • 1. I am supposed to start a temp job on Thursday.  They called me at 1pm today to ask if I could start tomorrow. I told them I could do a half day. I'm waiting to hear back and it's already past 4pm.  And they said they had yet another form for me to fill out by the end of the day but they still haven't sent it.

    2. DH and I were discussing our financial situation and again brought up how everything would be easier if we weren't having LO.  It's not like this was a surprise.  We discussed me going off the pill and made the decision together.  He said he went along with it because I put pressure on him and so the majority of the "blame" is on me. He's never been shy to stand up for himself and what he wants so I don't really believed he disagreed with it at the time.  And he's basically like what are you going to do to fix the financial situation?  I just took a 40hr/wk temp job, run my own business, am getting my master's and am 6 months pregnant, but yet somehow I'm not doing enough. he has a temp job that he says he's going to quit in a month if they don't offer him a full-time position.  but yet I have to do more...  I'm basically ready to walk out...

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  • lrmrtn said:

    2. DH and I were discussing our financial situation and again brought up how everything would be easier if we weren't having LO.  It's not like this was a surprise.  We discussed me going off the pill and made the decision together.  He said he went along with it because I put pressure on him and so the majority of the "blame" is on me. He's never been shy to stand up for himself and what he wants so I don't really believed he disagreed with it at the time.  And he's basically like what are you going to do to fix the financial situation?  I just took a 40hr/wk temp job, run my own business, am getting my master's and am 6 months pregnant, but yet somehow I'm not doing enough. he has a temp job that he says he's going to quit in a month if they don't offer him a full-time position.  but yet I have to do more...  I'm basically ready to walk out...

    Oh man! Sorry you are going through that. Your DH sounds like he is being a real douche.  Blaming you. WTF?

    It seems like everyone has some serious bitches today.  What is up with that?  Is there a full moon bringing out the crazy in everyone?
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  • I'm pretty pissed that I might not be able get any justice out of my husband's dad and his wife driving passed my house and sending me a text full of slander all in less than 24 hours. This doesn't include the random playboy subscription they signed us up for either.. I wish I could tell you why they are doing this but according to my husband and mil, his dad's new wife is like super crazy and has been doing stuff like this since the divorce 7 years ago l. I really hope they can't find my new house. Apparently she has been go ogling to see where we live too. Once again, I'm pissed that as of now I can't do anything about it :( . He owns his vet clinic and I'm so tempted to write a review on his Facebook page about how I had to put in an incident report and possible restraining order with screen caps of the texts he sent me, but that's just not a good idea. Ugh, bitches.

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  • IBackBevo said:
    JKBMA2014 said:
    I'm pretty pissed that I might not be able get any justice out of my husband's dad and his wife driving passed my house and sending me a text full of slander all in less than 24 hours. This doesn't include the random playboy subscription they signed us up for either.. I wish I could tell you why they are doing this but according to my husband and mil, his dad's new wife is like super crazy and has been doing stuff like this since the divorce 7 years ago l. I really hope they can't find my new house. Apparently she has been go ogling to see where we live too. Once again, I'm pissed that as of now I can't do anything about it :( . He owns his vet clinic and I'm so tempted to write a review on his Facebook page about how I had to put in an incident report and possible restraining order with screen caps of the texts he sent me, but that's just not a good idea. Ugh, bitches.
    Please don't leave a bad review on his business page because you are having personal problems with your FIL and/or his current wife.

    Also, are you sure your DH didn't just order the playboy subscription and tell you his Step-Mom signed him up for it?

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  • @JKBMA2014 If this woman bought you guys a subscription to playboy and you don't want it, you can just recycle it, or maybe make somebody's day and put it in the take a magazine/leave a magazine if your library has one of those.  I don't see the big deal about discarding a magazine someone gave you out of the blue. 

    Also, you are correct, it is not a good idea to put your personal stuff on a business review page.  His veterinary skills have nothing to do with his/his wife's personal interactions with you.
  • @JKBMA2014 If this woman bought you guys a subscription to playboy and you don't want it, you can just recycle it, or maybe make somebody's day and put it in the take a magazine/leave a magazine if your library has one of those.  I don't see the big deal about discarding a magazine someone gave you out of the blue. 

    Also, you are correct, it is not a good idea to put your personal stuff on a business review page.  His veterinary skills have nothing to do with his/his wife's personal interactions with you.


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  • momthatliftsmomthatlifts member
    edited February 2014
    IBackBevo said:


    JKBMA2014 said:

    I'm pretty pissed that I might not be able get any justice out of my husband's dad and his wife driving passed my house and sending me a text full of slander all in less than 24 hours. This doesn't include the random playboy subscription they signed us up for either.. I wish I could tell you why they are doing this but according to my husband and mil, his dad's new wife is like super crazy and has been doing stuff like this since the divorce 7 years ago l. I really hope they can't find my new house. Apparently she has been go ogling to see where we live too. Once again, I'm pissed that as of now I can't do anything about it :( . He owns his vet clinic and I'm so tempted to write a review on his Facebook page about how I had to put in an incident report and possible restraining order with screen caps of the texts he sent me, but that's just not a good idea. Ugh, bitches.

    Please don't leave a bad review on his business page because you are having personal problems with your FIL and/or his current wife.

    Also, are you sure your DH didn't just order the playboy subscription and tell you his Step-Mom signed him up for it?


    We called playboy and they verified the return address. And I'm not leaving any reviews. I leaving them alone. We have asked them to do the same but for some reason they have obsessed themselves with our lives. It's scary knowing they are driving past my house. It's scary knowing they are go ogling us to find out where we live. I'm terrified they are going to find out our new home address. They've been harassing us for months (ever since we thold em we were pregnant).


    And the playboy subscription is just a small bit of what they have done. They've sent dog shit in our mail box, drove past our house one night when my mil was walking the dogs and threw a beer bottle at her. And I'm almost certain his wife carved "bitch" in to side of my car.

    eta: since mil exes name is on the mortgage he has the clicker to the gate of the community so we can't ban him from coming in. We are going to try a restraining order anyways. That's what the cop told us to do.

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  • I can't stand people in general today. From the juveniles (18-21yr olds) in my Comp II English class who have no idea how to do the most basic of essay writing and waste class time having the teacher explain things that they should have learned as freshman in high school, to the random old crazy lady at the college who cornered me after class to tell me her life story and actually attempted to lift her shirt and show me her ancient emergency C section scar when she noticed I was pregnant, to my husband's awkward and fairly creepy coworker who occasionally gets rides from us, and who I swear is devising plans to make a skin suit or possibly mummify his mother then impersonate her.

    I just can't handle people today, and honestly, the thought of dealing with the idiots in my child development class tomorrow already has my skin crawling.

    I really just want it to be Friday afternoon so that I start mid-winter break and can have a week off from the stupid.

     








  • If they're harassing you and you've got documentation and there's a reason to think it's dangerous it seems like you could probably get a restraining order.

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  • JKBMA2014 said:

    IBackBevo said:


    JKBMA2014 said:

    I'm pretty pissed that I might not be able get any justice out of my husband's dad and his wife driving passed my house and sending me a text full of slander all in less than 24 hours. This doesn't include the random playboy subscription they signed us up for either.. I wish I could tell you why they are doing this but according to my husband and mil, his dad's new wife is like super crazy and has been doing stuff like this since the divorce 7 years ago l. I really hope they can't find my new house. Apparently she has been go ogling to see where we live too. Once again, I'm pissed that as of now I can't do anything about it :( . He owns his vet clinic and I'm so tempted to write a review on his Facebook page about how I had to put in an incident report and possible restraining order with screen caps of the texts he sent me, but that's just not a good idea. Ugh, bitches.

    Please don't leave a bad review on his business page because you are having personal problems with your FIL and/or his current wife.

    Also, are you sure your DH didn't just order the playboy subscription and tell you his Step-Mom signed him up for it?

    We called playboy and they verified the return address. And I'm not leaving any reviews. I leaving them alone. We have asked them to do the same but for some reason they have obsessed themselves with our lives. It's scary knowing they are driving past my house. It's scary knowing they are go ogling us to find out where we live. I'm terrified they are going to find out our new home address. They've been harassing us for months (ever since we thold em we were pregnant).


    And the playboy subscription is just a small bit of what they have done. They've sent dog shit in our mail box, drove past our house one night when my mil was walking the dogs and threw a beer bottle at her. And I'm almost certain his wife carved "bitch" in to side of my car

    You can call Playboy? That line must be busy all the time...

    Well we called whatever number was in the subscription. We got a thing in the mail asking for a payment. My husband had to call them in order to cancel the subscription and had them verify the return address when he told them we did not sign up for any playboy. They did they same thing to my mil a few years ago too. Or at least that's what she told me

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  • JKBMA2014 said:

    IBackBevo said:


    JKBMA2014 said:

    I'm pretty pissed that I might not be able get any justice out of my husband's dad and his wife driving passed my house and sending me a text full of slander all in less than 24 hours. This doesn't include the random playboy subscription they signed us up for either.. I wish I could tell you why they are doing this but according to my husband and mil, his dad's new wife is like super crazy and has been doing stuff like this since the divorce 7 years ago l. I really hope they can't find my new house. Apparently she has been go ogling to see where we live too. Once again, I'm pissed that as of now I can't do anything about it :( . He owns his vet clinic and I'm so tempted to write a review on his Facebook page about how I had to put in an incident report and possible restraining order with screen caps of the texts he sent me, but that's just not a good idea. Ugh, bitches.

    Please don't leave a bad review on his business page because you are having personal problems with your FIL and/or his current wife.

    Also, are you sure your DH didn't just order the playboy subscription and tell you his Step-Mom signed him up for it?

    We called playboy and they verified the return address. And I'm not leaving any reviews. I leaving them alone. We have asked them to do the same but for some reason they have obsessed themselves with our lives. It's scary knowing they are driving past my house. It's scary knowing they are go ogling us to find out where we live. I'm terrified they are going to find out our new home address. They've been harassing us for months (ever since we thold em we were pregnant).


    And the playboy subscription is just a small bit of what they have done. They've sent dog shit in our mail box, drove past our house one night when my mil was walking the dogs and threw a beer bottle at her. And I'm almost certain his wife carved "bitch" in to side of my car.

    eta: since mil exes name is on the mortgage he has the clicker to the gate of the community so we can't ban him from coming in. We are going to try a restraining order anyways. That's what the cop told us to do.

    It's so weird that everyone in your life is out to get you.  
    Hmmmmmm that couldn't be further from the truth. I just unfortunately got stuck with some crazy in laws

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