Who's having sex again?

monkeybutt61612 · February 2014

In honor of Valentines Day, what's your sex status?

ChuggingWater · February 2014

Cleared but started bleeding the night before my IUD insertion. I'm not a fan of period sex.

monkeybutt61612 · February 2014

ChuggingWater said:
Cleared but started bleeding the night before my IUD insertion. I'm not a fan of period sex.

How many weeks pp are you? I'm 6 weeks and dreading getting my period.

ccip82 · February 2014

No, but I am only 2 1/2 weeks out...Also, I would need the energy and time to shower and shave, plus still have enough of the energy and time to have sex...At this rate that shit is not happening anytime soon.

ChuggingWater · February 2014

monkeybutt61612 said:

ChuggingWater said:
Cleared but started bleeding the night before my IUD insertion. I'm not a fan of period sex.
How many weeks pp are you? I'm 6 weeks and dreading getting my period.

@Monkeybutt61612 7 weeks tomorrow. I'm EBF too.

CeeJC121013 · February 2014

Have done it twice, but the lack of sleep this entire household is getting is inhibiting any ST from happening this weekend. We are all sick.

thelittlepear · February 2014

ccip82 said:
No, but I am only 2 1/2 weeks out...Also, I would need the energy and time to shower and shave, plus still have enough of the energy and time to have sex...At this rate that shit is not happening anytime soon.

This exactly! Who knew a shower would be such a luxury!!!

RedSaffron · February 2014

We tried, but my vag wasn't having it. I told him maybe next time.

MamaP19 · February 2014

I'm only 2 weeks out, but I cringe at the thought of ST. After a 3rd degree tear I would just like sitting down to feel normal. It's hard to imagine enjoying sex anytime in the near future.

monkeybutt61612 · February 2014

benjaminsmommy16 said:
I'm not cleared yet, but even it I was I wouldn't be into it. I'm pretty sure my vag is fine, but these children destroyed the rest of my body and I just don't think I can get into it ever again because of that. Or atleast until I lose some more weight.

I felt like this after my first. I gained 85 pounds and felt about as sexy as a hippo. Having a few cocktails made it easier, and a husband who hadn't had sex in months.

jwp325 · February 2014

I put SS as I'm cleared and maybe we'll try. So tired and just a bit nervous.

BrittNR · February 2014

I can't wait to be cleared.. This girl needs some ST! I also had a c section though, so my lady parts were saved.

Deblondie1 · February 2014

My stitch site is still swollen. ST will have to wait quite a while lol However, H will most likely get a Vday BJ tonight.

gina0485 · February 2014

I may be cleared to DTD at this time next week! I'm still bleeding a little though and the peri urethral year I had is still sore, so who the f knows. So sick of bleeding.

Galaxy8227 · February 2014

I got cleared on Thursday but DS got croup and DD is going through the 6 week growth spurt so we haven't yet- I'm determined to get some this weekend though

MissMeegs · February 2014

I think the vag is up for it, so I suggested it to DH for Valentine's Day tonight, but HE said no! Ha! He's super paranoid about hurting me so he wants to wait until after my 6 week pp checkup on Tuesday.

He's so cute, he did the same thing when I got pregnant, he didn't want to have sex until after my first appointment "just to be safe" and make sure everything was good to go.

At least this means I don't have to shave my legs until Tuesday! Ha!

SandFHasse · February 2014

Only 2 weeks pp. Doctor said the other day no ST. I'm not even allowed to drive yet. I can't wait for my 6 week check so I can have ST.

worleygirl · February 2014

I'm cleared but we are tired and have no condoms. I think we will this weekend. I'm actually ready.

teacher0708 · February 2014

Have my appointment next week but will not be for a bit yet. I am too tired and when the two year old never naps and the baby does not settle till 11, this momma is too tired. Maybe a few more weeks

MamaP19 · February 2014

mcg1119 said:

Not cleared yet. Random question. ..are there restrictions for shaving or waxing after a c section? I was going to make a waxing appointment after I get cleared, but was worried it might hurt a ton over my incision.

@mcg1119 definitely ask your doc. I was told to avoid shaving around my incision for a few months when I had DD. Yours might say it's totally fine though.

chicki1012 · February 2014

I'm not cleared yet either and one of my stitches came loose and it's a little painful and icky. I'm almost 5 weeks PP. I think it will awhile until DH and I have sex. Super nervous about it though since I've never had sex after labor before(FTM). I still haven't had time to even shave yet either.

. I don't even feel clean and sexy. Ha ha

BShreeve · February 2014

BrittNR said:
I can't wait to be cleared.. This girl needs some ST! I also had a c section though, so my lady parts were saved.

I am in the same boat. I am over 4 weeks pp. If bleeding has stopped and vag is normal is ST still a no no?

valigrl21 · February 2014

I was really hoping we could today but I am still bleeding at 5 weeks pp

casholmes · February 2014

I'd LOVE to have ST, but I'm only 3 weeks PP and DH isn't into it because he's scared to hurt me. My next appointment isn't until March 25th though, ugh. I had a C-section, so if I feel okay it should be fine right?

Siblynika · February 2014

RedSaffron said:
We tried, but my vag wasn't having it. I told him maybe next time.

Same here- he got all the way inside before my vag decided to issue an eviction notice. And now I'm spotting AGAIN. Probably gonna wait another three weeks now.

BrittNR · February 2014

BShreeve said:

BrittNR said:
I can't wait to be cleared.. This girl needs some ST! I also had a c section though, so my lady parts were saved.
I am in the same boat. I am over 4 weeks pp. If bleeding has stopped and vag is normal is ST still a no no?

I'm 4 weeks pp as well and have been wondering the same thing! Especially since it's vday and I'm having drinks tonight while my parents babysit. I know I'll get tipsy and talk DH into it... I have no self control.

aessary03 · February 2014

Doin' it, Doin' it, and Doin' it well .... (LLCoolJ style)

Sweetiejules12 · February 2014

Not cleared yet, but ready to go. It's driving me crazy, esp since he still gets a bj, why should we both suffer. He likes to torture and tease me too by walking around naked. I hope I can make it three more weeks....

joynalanson · February 2014

I got 2 more weeks til my exam but I'm so ready. DH won't even entertain the idea of making out- my bday was Wednesday and all I got was cuddles. He shut me down my last tri too, afraid of hurting me/ DS, until I told him it could bring on labor. Before we got pregnant the longest we went was a month before we were married. It was tough.

joynalanson · February 2014

Sweetiejules12 said:
Not cleared yet, but ready to go. It's driving me crazy, esp since he still gets a bj, why should we both suffer. He likes to torture and tease me too by walking around naked. I hope I can make it three more weeks....

Evil!!!

megngregk · February 2014

We were naughty and did it at 3w pp. I had to force him. Ok, strongly persuade because he was afraid of hurting me. But he was only here for 2w and he wasn't leaving me again without putting out.