1. Share a Valentines' Day memory - could be from childhood or as an adult.
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
3. Describe your bedroom.
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?
5. What's happening this weekend?
Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!
It's been a long road to here...Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.

Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long. We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Re: GTKY Feb 14th!
1. Share a Valentines' Day memory - could be from childhood or as an adult.
My first Valentine's Day with my wife was about 6 months after we started dating. We were in college. I was an RA and I was on duty that night so I couldn't leave campus (or my room really, unless I was doing rounds or there was an issue to contend with). My wife spent most of that year staying with me in my dorm room, even though she was not supposed to. I even managed to get her a key so she could come and go whenever. Anyway, while I was at class that day, she decorated my room for me. She cut out a zillion little paper hearts and wrote a saying or a quote on the back of each one along with the date and then scattered them all over my bed. I still have a bunch of the paper hearts. I keep them in what I call my "love box" -- a hat box with cards, notes, photos, concert tickets and other things that remind me of the early days in our relationship. Anyway, she decorated the room while I was at class and left me a little basket with a cute little Valentine's odds and ends in it. She also typed up the lyrics to one of our songs and framed it. That night, she ordered us take-out and got the Reese's ice cream that we had on our first "date" in my dorm room, and we just hung out in my room in between my rounds. It was simple, but it was very us and I remember at the time that I had never been happier.
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
I could go on with more songs forever, but I will keep my list to 4 for now. Love this question!
3. Describe your bedroom.
As I have mentioned before our house is 200 yrs old -- so our bedroom is small. It has the original plaster walls, which make hanging things very difficult because the walls are textured and not even at all, but I think it has a ton of character. Anyway, three of the walls (the plaster ones) are painted a robin's egg blue color. The fourth wall (which our bed is against) had been a wood paneled wall that the previous owners installed presumably in the 60s or 70s. We sanded it down and painted it white. So the room has a beachy kind of relaxing feel with the three bright blue walls and the one white paneled wall. We have two original iron radiators in our room, which makes furniture placement difficult. We have a dark mahogany wood rustic bedroom set that was our big furniture splurge when we bought our house. I love it. The bed is a four poster bed with a detailed carved headboard and it is against the white wall. We each have a very small bedside table with a lamp (matching), and I have a tall dresser and my wife has the matching one that is long and shorter. We have a small TV on top of my wife's dresser, and there is a tan reclining chair in the corner next to my dresser. We have a small antique trunk at the foot of our bed that has all the baby items that we collected over the years before we got pregnant (some books, a few onesies, a blanket). Our comforter is a quilt from my wife's grandmother who passed away 2.5 years ago. We were both very close to her. We are naming baby girl after her
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?
I have no idea. My wife said "You don't have to cook," and that is all that we discussed, so I don't know if that means she has something planned, or if she just plans for us to "wing it" but for me to not have to cook. I suppose we shall see...
5. What's happening this weekend?
Tomorrow is a busy day. Reese has an appointment to be groomed in the morning - so I will have to go drop her off. We have a contractor coming to give us an estimate for replacing the window in the nursery that is drafty/leaky. Then, we *might* (my wife is supposed to be confirming this today) be meeting a friend of ours who has a pick-up truck at Babies R Us to try for the second time to bring our crib home. We tried last Saturday, but it didn't fit in our cross-over SUV (the box is massive) and they wouldn't tie it to the top of the car... then tomorrow night our friends are having a "wine and cheese party" which I am not excited about, but my wife told them we would go, sooo..... Sunday is up in the air at the moment. I will have to go grocery shopping at some point and probably laundry. We might run some other errands, or my wife might decide to work on some more house projects (we are slowly but surely making progress with operation switch three rooms around before baby arrives)... All in all I have a feeling that the weekend will fly by quickly and I will be tired on Monday. HAHA
**Bonus** I am creating my own bonus just because I feel like it... here are 2 PIPs. The first is our puppy dog Reese when she was an itty bitty baby puppy. Today is her 5th birthday -- our little love pup -- I can't believe it! The second is this week's bump photo that I took in the bathroom at work this AM. Ummm... my belly is getting LARGE. Happy Valentine's Day Everyone!
Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012
5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN
Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer! *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581 *********William George born June 4, 2014*********2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
3. Describe your bedroom.
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?
5. What's happening this weekend?
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
3. Describe your bedroom.
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?
5. What's happening this weekend?
I don't know that I really have one. EV's birthday is the 13th so I usually try to make a big deal out of her birthday and Valentine's is kind of an after thought. I'll keep thinking as I type the rest of these ;-)
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
I've been singing the song from Despicable Me 2 - "Because I'm Happy" by Pharrell Williams. It's been stuck in my head for a few days. But I really feel happy so it's a nice reminder :-)
3. Describe your bedroom.
It's large with vaulted ceilings and double doors. Our whole house is painted a greyish (with a hint of olive) color by our landlord. He offered to let us paint over it but we haven't had the energy yet. It's not a bad color just not what I would have chosen, I love yellows, creams, blues and sometimes deep color accent walls. Anyway. We have a king sized bed and 2 wooden pedestal night stands in black and white, my taller white nightstand has a black lamp, EV's black one has a silver lamp. There are two chocolate colored leather chairs, and two dark wood shelving units with doors and a huge mirror length wise on top of it, also dark wood. The chairs and shelves are opposite the bed. We a have picture of poppies over the bed and pewter colored drapes. All in all its not my favorite bedroom we've ever had - but at least the bed is comfy.
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner? I was just debating this very thing. We're staying in (no reason to take our toddler out to a fancy dinner and risk ruining date night for the lucky couples out ;-). I'm thinking of roasting some lamb and using some of it make and Indian dish, with a side of palak paneer, samosa's, naan and rice. I had decorated yesterday for EV's bday and we had Schnitzel and cake, so if I can keep it simple today I will.
5. What's happening this weekend? Yeah 3 day weekend and EV's homework assignment was extended. Woohoooo.
Saturday night, Kaden goes to playcare and we go on a date. I think we're going to see American Hustle if we can fit it into the 6:30-9pm time slot.
On Sunday we're getting together with friends. We're planning on going to their UU church and then out to brunch.
Monday no known plans yet. If the weather holds I'd like to go the beach, or on hike, or to a kid related activity of some sort.
When we were kids my mom used to always give us special little gifts or trinkets for valentines day. She always tried to make any holiday special...she still does. Two year ago, C has an edible arrangement sent to my work and after I got off work that night we went and ate qudoba. Qudoba is a fast-ish food chain and on valentine's day if you give someone a kiss and you buy a burrito you can get some free. They also had someone making balloon animals and that was so cute and fun. It was a great day!
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
Most of them are songs we used for our wedding but here are a few:
- A-Punk by Vampire Weekend (this is what our party walked in to)
- Anyone Else but you by the Moldy Peaches
- Brave by Sarah Bareilles
- Goodbye Youth by Melissa Ferrick (this is the song C and I walked into at our wedding)
- The Story by Brandi Carsile and Sara Ramirez (this was part of our wedding dance mash up)
I'll stop there ;-)
3. Describe your bedroom.- Right now it is a disaster mess. There are clothes everywhere but it is a decent size and is pretty simple. We have a long dresser with our TV on it, the bed, and two end tables. C painted an accent wall when we moved in and when it is not messy it is very simple and wonderful...
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?- Its a secret...because I don't want C to see it and it is a surprise ;-)
5. What's happening this weekend- C is working (of course...) and so I will be cleaning (maybe that messy bedroom) and working on some random things...also going to the gym.
Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013
C began IUI's
7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140.... 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!
1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.
Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!
Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
3. Describe your bedroom.
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?
5. What's happening this weekend?
2. "In the Aeroplane Over the Sea" by Neutral Milk Hotel, "Float On" by Modest Mouse, "Lines and Lines" by the Spinanes, "That's How Strong My Love Is" by Otis Redding.
3. It's big enough for a queen bed, two dressers, and one nightstand, but that's about it. Modern espresso furniture, blue walls, pretty simple. We have black and white photographs printed on canvas over the bed, from our trip to Misty Fjords in Alaska.
4. My wife works tonight, so we'll both be eating leftover turkey meatloaf and broccoli by ourselves. Tomorrow we are going to buy some kind of seafood to cook -- whatever looks good when we get to the store. I am making peanut butter brownies tonight -- half for us to eat tomorrow, and half for the neighbor who helped me shovel yesterday.
5. Saturday: Baby day! We're registering at BRU and going maternity clothes shopping since I got a gift card and could use more clothes. Probably lunch while we're out, and seafood for dinner (when my wife was a chef one of her jobs was at a restaurant on Cape Cod, and she does amazing things with seafood). Sunday: I think some cleaning, some relaxing. Monday my wife is working and I am meeting an old friend and his wife for lunch. We were besties in high school and now are both having babies (his wife is due in April with a girl). Super excited about our kids growing up together. I warned him I was going to grill him about circumcision. You can't ask just anyone!
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!) I have quite a few...LOL Bad,bad Leroy Brown from my childhood (I was so excited I got to say damn and not get in trouble), Slow Dancing in a Burning Room by John Mayer, Knee Deep by Zac Brown Band, (almost anything from Evanescence can relax me), Money Maker by Ludacris, Break your heart by Taio Cruz, New Soul by Yael N......gosh I could go on and on
3. Describe your bedroom. We have a beach theme. Our bedroom set is from Am. Signature Furniture and I love it. It is an expresso type color with drawers underneath it. Lots of pictures of us up on the wall and at our headboard is a large print taken by an artist in the keys. I love it
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner? I'm not even sure. My parents are coming in to town, so we might go out for dinner if I feel well enough
5. What's happening this weekend? We are doing my birthday dinner with both families tomorrow and then Sunday will be lazy day. We both have Monday off and our first appointment with our OB that day.
Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)
Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)
2. "Build me up buttercup," "lucky" by Melissa etheridge, and "closet femme" by Kate Reid.
3. It is apartment cream colored. Queen sized silver ikea bed. Two dressers. Two closets. A shelving unit with a small tv on it. The cat's climbing tower. Very little on the wall.
4. I'm having dinner at the house where I babysit so no idea. Yesterday was @manada's birthday so I made salami- and provolone- stuffed chicken breasts, Gouda lentil soup, and broccoli for dinner last night.
5. Tomorrow we are going to M's mom's to celebrate M's birthday. Sunday-Tuesday m's sister is coming to visit
We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.
Our IUIs
with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.
Our IVFs:
IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response
IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
1st ultrasound (3/6 6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm.
***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***
FET #1 December 2014
1. Share a Valentines' Day memory - could be from childhood or as an adult.
Hmmm...Three years ago C and I had not officially met as of Valentine's Day. We were texting and chatting on FB almost non-stop though. I was out on home visits that Valentine's Day and was texting her in between. I was actually in the town she was living in at the time, and little did we know, but I was literally just up the street from where she was. We met in person for the first time that next evening.
2. What is a song that always makes you happy? (it's ok to list a few!)
I'll Follow You and Fly From the Inside by Shinedown are two. I consider I'll Follow You to be my TTC theme song because of some of the lyrics. When we had to cancel our last cycle, we went out to our local bar that night and this song came on and I burst out in tears. Normally it gives me hope though.
I also love One Friend by Dan Seals. My MIL, BIL and Aunt-in-law played and sang this song during our wedding ceremony.
3. Describe your bedroom.
Our bedroom walls are a cream color and our carpet is a light sage green. We have a king size bed. The frame is made out of logs. It takes up almost our entire room. We have a closet along one wall and then two dressers...one for each of us. I included a PIP of our bed. This was the day it was put in.
4. What's for Valentines Day dinner?
It is 6:48 pm and I have no idea! C should be getting done with work in about ten minutes. We haven't decided if we are staying home or going out yet. She always calls on her way home, so we will decide then. I wouldn't mind a nice fish fry or broiled fish.
5. What's happening this weekend?
Back to Buffalo for us tomorrow morning. Just a quick trip (3 hours) for blood work only. I wish I was having an u/s so that I could see what is going on in those ovaries of mine. Something is happening because I can sure feel it. I will know tomorrow afternoon what the next step is. Then we have bowling tomorrow night. That is all we have for plans at this point. I'm imagining a trip back to Buffalo either Sunday or Monday, but who knows.
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013
C began IUI's
7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140.... 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!
1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.
Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!
Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
Me: 28 DW: 28
Together since 5/30/02. Married since 8/31/08
IUI#1 - 12/13/13 = BFN
IUI#2 - 1/22/14 = BFN
IUI#3 - 2/21/14 = BFN
IUI#4 - 3/23/14
@CrazyAunt84 - that is a crazy but awesome valentine's day story!! and @healz413 yours is good too! LOL!
1. When I was in first grade, I remember the teacher going out into the hallway and getting valentines left but students in other classes. When she called my name I was stunned! (I was fat, wore these huge 70's eyeglasses and J says I looked a bit 'special' in 1st grade). Turned out it was from my cousin who was a big kid in 5th grade. I figured my aunt made him do it but I choose to be totally touched anyhow. I was so excited when she called my name!!
2. Little secret on this question - J is making a Happy playlist on Spotify - she ran a record store for many years and asked her posse on FB and got 89 responses! The list has 150+ songs now. I'll post it for you all separately
Ok my pick was "Star" by Erasure, and "Sing me Spanish Techno" by New Pornographers (J wore a New Pornographers t-shirt on our first date, as an aside). There are SO many fun songs on this list. OMG I am excited to share!
3. Our house is 100 years old, has plaster walls and is 12'x13'. We have a bed and nightstands from Dania, modernish looking, and J's mid-century dresser. My clothes/dresser are in the baby's room... it's the same size. Walls are a light mushroom color. We have a piece of cool art a friend of mine made and I got from a gallery downtown; and a pic from our wedding, plus a few other smaller pieces of original art. And a decent sized window!
4. Well, we were at DFW eating terrible food at TGIFriday's. BUT last night we went to a cool local place we love and had happy hour - so it felt like we had a 5-course tasting menu but for WAY cheaper. J's favorite are the "bunny bites" - basically rabbit mcnuggets - but we also had celery bisque, housemade prezel rolls, salad and dessert!
5. We are in Monroe, LA for J's gramma's 90th bday party tomorrow. Then to Little Rock on Sunday for a few days before New Orleans!
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle