Dadalou's labor story - warning, loss mentioned **Update on pg 5**

Re: Dadalou's labor story - warning, loss mentioned **Update on pg 5**

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  February 2014

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• allie76 member

  February 2014

  I am so very sorry for your loss.

  

   

  
  

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• ZAngel member

  February 2014

  I don't have the words to express how sorry I am for your loss.  My heart is breaking for you!  I will keep you and your family in my prayers.  ((HUGS))
  

  BFP #1 (DS, 10/98), BFP #2 (DD, 10/09)
  BFP #3 -mm/c @ 7wks, discovered at 9wks, D&C 9/28
  BFP #4 5/29 EDD 2/9 - please be our rainbow
  
  

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• oscarkat member

  February 2014

  There are no words. I am so incredibly sorry for this loss to your family. My heart is breaking for you all.

  
  

  
  

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• chikabiddy member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry.  I cannot imagine what you must be going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 

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• zazu13 member

  February 2014

  Lurking from A14- my heart breaks for you and DH. So very sorry for the loss of your perfect boy.

  Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

  IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

   IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

  IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

  FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

  **new RE**

   IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

   IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

  9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

  Twin girls! 3/6/14

   

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• Heatherlp43 member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. He is beautiful. Sending lots of t&p's to you ad your family in your time of need.

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• sopranopammy member

  February 2014

  I am so very sorry for your loss.

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• ErinGoBragh77 member

  February 2014

  I am so, so sorry for your loss.  Your son is beautiful.  You and your family will be in my prayers.

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• mbojano member

  February 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss. 

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• notreal2 member

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  He is a beautiful boy, I am so sorry. 

  
  

   

   

   

   

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• ras26 member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss.  He is beautiful. 
  

  
  Baby Girl #2 is on her way!
  

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• btrebus member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm ugly crying right now. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family!

  
  
  

  
  

  
  
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• Tally06 member

  February 2014

  I am so, so very sorry. He is absolutely beautiful. I am wishing you peace during this painful time.
  

  
  

  
   
  
  
  

  
  

  

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• cawettig member

  February 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss, I am lurking over from the March '14 board. I also had a loss at 38 weeks. I haven't been able to see if anyone mentioned it to you but the Loss board here is where parents who have lost their babies or children get support and it is very supportive. I am so glad you had time with him. I held my baby every minute I was awake after I delivered her. When you feel like you can or want to the Loss board will be there for you. 

  
  

  
  

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  Julius Justin - 11/07/2002 - 10 lbs 22 in 

  Isabella Genavieve - 02/03/05 - 7 lbs 11 oz 22 in 

  Arianna Kaitlynn - 04/10/2013 - 4 lbs 15 oz 15 in

  
  

  BFP 08/10/13 

  TWINS!!!! 09/01/13

  Miscarriage at 12 weeks lost baby B 

  Arianna diagnosed with an Ompalocele at 13 weeks

  Arianna our Angel on 04/10/13 

  BFP 07/20/13

  Our Rainbow due 03/18/14 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

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• PrincessKMommy member

  February 2014

  I'm so so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers

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• botbot member

  February 2014

  I am so so sorry.  I cannot even imagine.  He is perfection.

  
  

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• boogerbearoriginal member

  February 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts.
  

  
  
  

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• pinkgrl84 member

  February 2014

  I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  Sending you hugs.  My heart aches for you and your family.
  

  
  
   

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• questisthebest member

  February 2014

  Oh my goodness, I am so sorry. I can not even imagine, what a precious little boy

  

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• dadalou member

  February 2014

  Update on us. We left the hospital as late as we could on Sunday afternoon and are now home. DD is a good distraction during the day, but we are all having a hard time. No one is sleeping well. DD isn't napping normally so we are all kid of an emotional mess.

  
  

  My parents and sister are coming int town from Alaska tomorrow afternoon. The funeral arrangements are not finalized yet, but it will probably be Monday or Tuesday next week.

  
  

  I'm having all kinds of weird issues. I think some are related to the pain meds I'm on. I am also only able to sleep for a couple of hours at a time. I have a doctor's appointment this morning so hopefully I will be able to resolve some of that.

  Abigail Grace 9/7/10

  Nathaniel Willis born sleeping 2/6/14

  Felicity Hope 4/6/15

  
  

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• gfam23 member

  February 2014

  I am so, so sorry. Nathaniel is a beautiful boy.
  
  I lost my baby boy 3 years ago and it helped me to find a support group afterwards with others who had experienced a similar loss. Allow yourself the time and space to grieve and to heal. There are some supports out there that can comfort- PM me anytime if you wish.
  
  I hope you can get some help at your appt this morning.
  
  My thoughts are with you and your family amd your beautiful, perfect, sweet angel.
  (((((((Hugs)))))))

  
  

  
  

  
  

  EDD 10.26.15

  
  

  Garrett Samuel 1.30.14
  

  Vanessa Ruby 2.21.13

  Joseph Michael (born into Heaven) 6.17.10

  Rae Patricia 4.14.07

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• kak808 member

  February 2014

  I read your story when you first posted, but I didn't know what to say. Now that some time has passed, I still don't know what to say...  

  
  

  I'm so sorry for your loss and will be thinking about you and your family. My friend lost her twins in a similar situation and was understandably absolutely devastated for a very long time. She is finally now, however, so much stronger and in a happier place, so I hope that you are able to get there too; just be sure to take as much time as you need.

  

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• cattuccino member

  February 2014

  I hope your appointment was able to help with some of those issues...all others will take time.
  I'm also glad you have family coming and will hopefully be able to lean on them for more support.
  My heart continues to go out to you and your family at this time. May you find comfort and strength in one another to get through this beyond difficult time.

    

   

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• Missy0483 member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby boy. He is beautiful. We lost our 6 month old son in 2012 so I understand the pain you're feeling. I hope somehow you are able to find some comfort soon. Thinking about and praying for your family.

  Our baby boy passed to SIDS on 12/6/12

  
  

  A gift from Heaven...Our Little RAINBOW arrived 1/31/14!
   

  
  

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• cjmFeb2014 member

  February 2014

  Oh, sweet angel baby. I am so very sorry for your loss. There are no words. He is just beautiful. I'm so glad that the hospital gave you and your husband all the time you needed to be with Nathaniel. I'm glad that your family is flying to be near you. I don't really know what to say, just that I'm keeping you, your husband, your daughter, and Nathaniel in my thoughts and sending love and strength your way.

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• BzeetyD member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. I too don't know quite what to say but want you to know that you are supported and being thought of with sympathy and compassion.
  

  BzeetyD = 38, Mr. BzeetyD = 44 together 12/02 married 9/08
  TTC #1 since 1/10
  DX: Unexplained/??? MFI issues
  
  Our lil' lost sparks:
  5w3d loss 7/30/10 - EDD March 2011
  8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
  8w3d loss 8/2/12 - EDD March 2013
  4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013
  
  Long story: trying on our own + testing testing testing with 6 rounds of Clomid, more testing, injectables + TI, laparoscopy - one tube blocked, 2 IUIs with Follistim...BFNs.
  RPL testing all normal, Karyotyping normal
  
  Moving on to IVF.
  
  IVF #1 April 2012 = BFN, IVF #2 June 2012 = BFP. U/S 7/23 = saw heartbeat but measuring behind. Follow up U/S on 7/30 - no heartbeat. D&C 8/2. Trisomy 12. IVF #3 Oct 2012 = Chemical Pregnancy
  
  Phone consult with CCRM on 12/12/12 - ODWU 1/4/13 - both tubes clear(!) - AFC 24, AMH 3.2, FSH 9.6, LH 5.4, E2 25. DH has high frag rate but improved!
  IVF #4 March 2013 CCRM. EP protocol w/ Menopur, Gonal-F & Dexamethasone. ER 3/29 & IMSI, PICSI. 43R 13M 10F 6blasts bio'd. CCS testing reveals 3 normals!!!
  FET 5/31/13 of 1 4AA blast - thawed and expanded. 4dp5dt BFP.
  Beta 9dp5dt = 181, 11dp5dt = 427. 1st u/s showed a healthy heartbeat! EDD 2/16/14
  
  After 4 years of hoping and heartbreak, our sweet little bean was born on 2/19/14
  We are so in love with her.
  
  "I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it."
  
  Everybody is welcome!!!

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• kareerox member

  February 2014

  No words can express how sorry I am for your loss. He's beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story.

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• ugoglencoco member

  February 2014

  Jumping over from d13, wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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• lilypienmessimy member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your entire family at this difficult time. Nathaniel is absolutely beautiful.

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• gcama85 member

  February 2014

  So so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts.

  
  

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• adawn1981 member

  February 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

  

  
  

      

   

   

   

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• katieh704 member

  February 2014

  Another lurker from d13 just wanted to say how so sorry I am for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers

  

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• KaraLeigh115 member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry

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• Whitterpow member

  February 2014

  I don't know that any words can help right now, but just know that thoughts and prayers are with your family right now.

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• teacupkat member

  February 2014

  Another d'13... Thinking of you and your family. I hope that you continue to stay strong. Sending you so much positivity.

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• Merryfj member

  February 2014

  Sweet beautiful boy. I'm in tears for you. I can only hope that is a greater plan for your boy.

  

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• FutureMrsCaesar member

  February 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss, no family should ever have to endure that pain. He is such a beautiful baby. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

  
  

   
   
  

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• grannyweatherwax member

  February 2014

  Here from D13, just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Your son is beautiful.

   
  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• notthecheat member

  February 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. Your son is beautiful.

  

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