My jaw dropped to the floor and I literally had to reread that post about 5 times to make sure that was what was actually written. @princessbumblebeee you are a piece. I hope no one that is actually having the issues you speak of opens this post. Just leave.
And congrats on week 16! I also celebrate each week! Just because there's a group on here that rolls Their eyes at these doesn't mean there aren't people who don't enjoy reading these posts
Lol well since "loved" it that's exactly what I'm saying *rolls eyes* I don't agree with that statement no. BUT I do agree with everything else said.
Well, you may want to think hard about who you think are the supportive people here and the ladies you want to back up. Heaven forbid anything happen to you during this pregnancy, the ladies that you're alienating are the ones who would be providing you support, while pieces of work like the princess here would be skipping your post because she doesn't give a crap. Just a thought.
Funny how you got ALL of that by me "loving" a post. Pretty assuming id say
You have 20 posts total, it's not hard to look back and see how you've contributed here and what you think of most of us (I think you summed it up quite eloquently in the "." thread where you said you like to come back and laugh at us. Mature). So yeah, love titting a thread as hurtful and disgusting as that is going to come with some judgment. Sorry I'm not sorry.
Funny how you got ALL of that by me "loving" a post. Pretty assuming id say
You have 20 posts total, it's not hard to look back and see how you've contributed here and what you think of most of us (I think you summed it up quite eloquently in the "." thread where you said you like to come back and laugh at us. Mature). So yeah, love titting a thread as hurtful and disgusting as that is going to come with some judgment. Sorry I'm not sorry.
It speaks volumes on your character.
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If it bothers you to don't read/post in the topic. I don't particularly care about anyone's trisomy 18 issues, their morning sickness, their colds or any crap. But what I really hate is bitter old snotty women who are out to ruin peoples days and cause nice normal happy women to feel unwelcome and unhappy. Its pathetic!
I feel a strong urge to recommend an adoption agency to you.....seriously though. Who says that?
My "preach" wasn't aligned properly, so I'm editing this.
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Who says THAT?! Just as much of an immature statement
ok, well I'm just going to assume that you're talking to me and don't understand the quote statement.
You know who says that? Someone who cares about the women here who are struggling with some of these issues, including Trisomy 18. Someone who can't believe that someone would say something as callous as what princess did, let alone like it for some reason. Yes, I'm judging you. It sounds like you're judging me just as hard since you came back to laugh at us all. Would you like to be the pot, or the kettle?
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Again assuming I was talking about the "adoption" statement actually. And sorry ladies next time I'll ask you what I can/cannot "love" or who I can/cannot defend to make you all happy
Whatever. You've dug your hole. I was giving you the benefit of the doubt this morning, but @uws22, go ahead and update the post it. I don't want to forget this.
Sounds to me like everyone here needs to get laid or take the stick out. If you didn't want to read her post about being excited about week 16 keep scrolling. I clicked it because I like those posts. Who says you girls get to decide what people post. You "banish" anyone who posts something you don't like.
And to make myself clear the trisomy comment may have not have been the right chose but everything else she said makes perfect sense. I personally care more about people being excited about week 16 rather than hearing about their colds too...you can't pick on people for liking to read certain things or posting certain things. This is a social media board relax about the posts that annoy you and ignore them. I'm on this thread because I was actually interested in what she had to Say. You were all here to bash her first post. THAT is immature along with telling people to put their child up for adoption, just as rude.
Sounds to me like everyone here needs to get laid or take the stick out. If you didn't want to read her post about being excited about week 16 keep scrolling. I clicked it because I like those posts. Who says you girls get to decide what people post. You "banish" anyone who posts something you don't like.
And to make myself clear the trisomy comment may have not have been the right chose but everything else she said makes perfect sense. I personally care more about people being excited about week 16 rather than hearing about their colds too...you can't pick on people for liking to read certain things or posting certain things. This is a social media board relax about the posts that annoy you and ignore them. I'm on this thread because I was actually interested in what she had to
Say. You were all here to bash her first post. THAT is immature along with telling people to put their child up for adoption, just as rude.
It's not as easy as "keep scrolling." When there is a specific weekly thread designed for a specific type of post, it is really rude to start a separate thread. It shouldn't be so shocking that the people who are here regularly do not respond with rainbows and butterflies to a snowflake post. OP could have just acknowledged that and said, "oops sorry, I didn't know about the ticker change threads!" and everything would have been fine. Instead, "white knights" like you and @spoiledprincess came in here to defend her, making extremely ridiculous comments in the process.
ETA: Whoah... is there really a spoiled princess on here somewhere? I meant @princessbumblebee ;-)
Calm down calm down! White night is out! Enjoy your day ladies! Hope all you're pregnancies are going great and you're celebrating each week as much as we are! \m/
If it bothers you to don't read/post in the topic. I don't particularly care about anyone's trisomy 18 issues, their morning sickness, their colds or any crap. But what I really hate is bitter old snotty women who are out to ruin peoples days and cause nice normal happy women to feel unwelcome and unhappy. Its pathetic!
I have no words that would do justice to what I think of you. I wish I never read your comment. I hope to god you never have to deal with "Trisomy 18 issues" ---- do you even know what that is? How fucking DARE you consider it along the lines of morning sickness or a fucking cold. How the FUCK can you think you are a "nice normal woman" just because you don't have to worry about your baby dying before you ever get to hold her? I sure as shit wasn't reaching out for support from you.
If it bothers you to don't read/post in the topic. I don't particularly care about anyone's trisomy 18 issues, their morning sickness, their colds or any crap. But what I really hate is bitter old snotty women who are out to ruin peoples days and cause nice normal happy women to feel unwelcome and unhappy. Its pathetic!
I have no words that would do justice to what I think of you. I wish I never read your comment. I hope to god you never have to deal with "Trisomy 18 issues" ---- do you even know what that is? How fucking DARE you consider it along the lines of morning sickness or a fucking cold. How the FUCK can you think you are a "nice normal woman" just because you don't have to worry about your baby dying before you ever get to hold her? I sure as shit wasn't reaching out for support from you.
I just wanted to say that I immediately thought about you when she wrote that! I'm so sorry you had to read that. I really am. This is not a joke or a game and this is not some simple every day situation. Fuck her. We are here for you! Hugs!
@princessbumblebeee so you making a post about being 'bumped in the belly' (as your first discussion here) and looking for support is fine but not someone who has posted here a lot with a baby that has trisomy 18???
@BoraBoraBaby, I immediately thought of you too! I am so, so sorry that you and other women on here who are dealing with issues way more serious than "a cold" (or being bumped in the belly with a shopping cart) had to read that
@princessbumblebeee so you making a post about being 'bumped in the belly' (as your first discussion here) and looking for support is fine but not someone who has posted here a lot with a baby that has trisomy 18???
I celebrate each week with my husband, just as much as the next girl (we read up in our little book and check our emails and it's finally gotten to the point where I say "aww" instead of "ewww" when watching the videos), but being a special snowflake about it? Grow up. Almost everyone has already passed the 16w mark, and you didn't see them writing a special thread to celebrate. It's fantastic that you've gotten this far, but you're not special for it.
The whole point in putting an "AW" in something (as I think I said on the first page that this should have been labeled) is so that people like me, who don't participate in the "ticker change" threads, and maybe think something exceptional happened on your 16w (like an ultrasound with predator face) aren't disappointed by you just being attention craving. Being part of a community equals sharing the joys as well as rolling with the punches together, and sharing the tears together. Dirty bitches who show up to get a "oh yay you!" for hitting a "milestone" (are you going to do a new post when you actually get to 4months since I thought that's what you were super excited about anyway?) but hate everyone else who's dealing with shitty stuff are not welcome. I think that's obvious.
Re: 16 weeks today!
Their eyes at these doesn't mean there aren't people who don't enjoy reading these posts
BFP 11/18/13. EDD 7/25/14. It's a BOY!
Surprise BFP 7/30/13. EDD 4/7/14. Natural MC 8/24/13
BFP 11/18/13. EDD 7/25/14. It's a BOY!
Surprise BFP 7/30/13. EDD 4/7/14. Natural MC 8/24/13
BFP 11/18/13. EDD 7/25/14. It's a BOY!
Surprise BFP 7/30/13. EDD 4/7/14. Natural MC 8/24/13
CAUTIOUSLY expecting Jace in July August 2014
Just me?
And to make myself clear the trisomy comment may have not have been the right chose but everything else she said makes perfect sense. I personally care more about people being excited about week 16 rather than hearing about their colds too...you can't pick on people for liking to read certain things or posting certain things. This is a social media board relax about the posts that annoy you and ignore them. I'm on this thread because I was actually interested in what she had to
Say. You were all here to bash her first post. THAT is immature along with telling people to put their child up for adoption, just as rude.
I do
I just wanted to say that I immediately thought about you when she wrote that! I'm so sorry you had to read that. I really am. This is not a joke or a game and this is not some simple every day situation. Fuck her. We are here for you! Hugs!
The whole point in putting an "AW" in something (as I think I said on the first page that this should have been labeled) is so that people like me, who don't participate in the "ticker change" threads, and maybe think something exceptional happened on your 16w (like an ultrasound with predator face) aren't disappointed by you just being attention craving.
Being part of a community equals sharing the joys as well as rolling with the punches together, and sharing the tears together. Dirty bitches who show up to get a "oh yay you!" for hitting a "milestone" (are you going to do a new post when you actually get to 4months since I thought that's what you were super excited about anyway?) but hate everyone else who's dealing with shitty stuff are not welcome. I think that's obvious.
ETA: I can't type today.