Hey ladies question about all these baby things... So I went to register the other day and there are several baby holding devices such as a baby swing, baby vibrating chair, baby fold up rocker, pack n play, jumper, etc etc etc. my point is, how many of these are really necessary and when does it get to be over kill. I mean I'm just picturing my house with nothing in it but baby holding devices. I'm gonna have to get rid of the couch! Help!
Re: Baby swing, baby rocker, etc
Pack and play was used on vacations and grandma's house. You don't need one if you won't be traveling with baby much. ETA: my almost 17 month old will still have to use this because he won't settle down enough to co-sleep. He needs his own space.
Rock and play was nice for our room. It's small and portable, but definitely not necessary.
Jumper can wait until they are older and the other stuff is packed up. We got a jumperoo and he LOVED it. If he still fit, I'm sure he'd willingly be trapped in it for a while. He didn't start using that until 5 months.
The PNP isn't necessary for us. We'll use the RNP in our room. The only place we would really use a PNP would be at the ILs and they already have one.
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A neighbor gave me their Bumbo seat With tray which I used when he started eating. I also got an exersaucer from them which DS loved when he was older (7 months plus).
Oh and we had an activity mat for when he was newborn to 5 months or so.
ETA: DS had a crib too but slept better in the rocker and that made it much easier as he was EBF. Saved me from having to get up and get him from the crib at every night feeding.
I think the thing is you wouldn't necessarily be using these all at the same time. They are really sort of developmentally appropriate at different points. Also swinging or vibrating is not for every baby. So it makes it hard since you din't know ahead of time what baby will like. This is probably also why you can find like-new ones for sale so often. Somebody bought it, they tried it but baby never got into it, so they are selling it.
DS1 would only sleep in his swing. From 8 weeks on, he slept 12 hours straight over night in the thing! I was so nervous, I asked the pediatrician about it. He didn't see any problem with it and told us to do what worked for our family.
With DS2 we bought a rock n play and he slept in that next to our bed for the first 5 months. It was great. It is small and light enough that I could move it from room to room during the day. He also liked the swing a lot for napping during the day. We upgraded from our hand-me-down swing we had with DS1 to a A/C powered swing for DS2.
He did love the bouncy seat that attaches to the door frames (I'm not even sure if they sell these any more since I think if you have the wrong doors then they fall down and people never pay attention to that stuff), and also the exersaucer type thing, but the one with wheels (which also sometimes gets bad reviews from babies running over their feet - which never happened to ds).
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