My H is really pushing me to work a full 40 hours, but my hospital is only letting me work 36. I've been sneaking to our wellness center to work out and changing back to my scrubs and going home.
Yesterday morning I needed to vacuum the house so when my older girl asked for cheese it's and my younger (J12 baby) asked for "yellow,cookies" (vanilla wafers) for breakfast that's exactly what they got! Mama vacuumed the house in peace!!
I have 4 close friends, but we live pretty far apart and don't see each other very often. I am thankful I got to see them a couple of weeks ago, but I could use another mommy day. I wish I could make new friends here, but it doesn't seem to work.
My kid has never pooped in the tub. I keep waiting for it to happen but so far it has not. I wear yoga pants most of the weekend. They are comfy and easy when I am chasing/dealing with LO all day. I ate pizza for both dinner and lunch the past two days.
Going to see the fil and Cray Russian step Mil today. Fuck fuckety fuck!!!! Sunday we get to have lunch at mil house. Double fuckety fuck. I plan on being De-Runk by the time I leave there both days!
Mh has been off work this week and he texts me questions a million times a day. I'm secretly enjoying the fact that LO is giving him a hard time and he doesn't know where to find everything. He's 18 months old, you should be a pro by now!
I had stopped giving my daughter the paci cold turkey and she had been doing great. My husband went out of town for business the last few days, and I was so tired I gave her the paci again so that she can possibly sleep easier because I couldn't be bothered if she was trying to fight sleep.
My only close friends live several hours away at a minimum and I never get to see them. I have one semi-friend here, but she's one of those girls that is friends with everybody and so doesn't have much time. And being that I'm several years older and at a different place in my life (married, baby, not going out drinking every night) I just can't get terribly close to her. And the town we're in is so small there is no mom groups except the la leche league... none... I didn't even know it was possible until I moved here.
I am trying to find a way to not have to work so that I don't have to find a new daycare for Charlie, or a way to keep her in her current one. But with the commute it just isn't going to happen. MH is against it, so it's not going to happen. But I keep hoping...
MH was out of town last night so I got the bed all to myself and it was heaven. It's amazing how the covers are able to stay put all night when there isn't a guy there throwing them around.
Even a minor event in
the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world
event.
Last Saturday night, we went our for my cousin husband's birthday and at the resturant my cousin mentions giving Becca chocolate and MH proceeds to tell her that we don't give or plan on giving her chocolate, candy, chip or certain junk food until she is a little older, then I see the look in my cousin's eye as she proceeds to say, "ohh" and didn't question it any further, she knows not to say anything to DH, but her and I do give her a little chocolate/chips/cheesies when he is not around. We had a good laugh about it later.
I don't know if this is a confession. But I don't know what it is...
Before coming over to see Tumaini, my FIL always stuffs his shirt pocket with crackers or cookies, and when he gets here, he encourages her to go snoop in her pocket and find the snacks. My MIL and him think it's super cute. I, on the other hand, cringe every single time, and get a bad feeling in my stomach. I know it's completely innocent and harmless, but I come from a family where unfortunately sexual abuse on toddlers and young kids is way too common, and I can't get myself to being comfortable with this. It's nothing wrong, I rationally know this, but it really bothers me. I tried talking to my H about it, but he really doesn't get it, and I could never mention it to my in-laws without destroying my relationships with them, but I hate it, and I find myself inviting my FIL less since he has started doing this.
I love deleting people on Facebook. Some girl I haven't seen in years is having her birthday today, and all I can think is, ooo, maybe now is the time to finally unfriend her.
I'm often the jerk who doesn't flush the public toilet. The things just skeeve me out and I don't want to touch it. Sometimes I flush it with my shoe, but usually I just hover, pee and run.
I've been worried about Charlie being anti-social. It just seems every time I go to pick her up at daycare all the other kids are off doing something wild and she's off in her own little area being quiet and playing there. Last night helped to lay my fears to rest a little because she and a little girl at the table next to us were playing together. So now I just worry that she's like me too much and doesn't like to be in noisy crowds or around too many people at once.
Even a minor event in
the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world
event.
It is gross @zpanjwani, I agree, that's why I found it confession worthy. Not all places have those seat covers; in fact I find many more don't than do. Maybe that's a regional thing? I guess I don't want to wipe things down because I find the bathrooms so nasty that I don't want to prolong my time in there. I live in a fairly small town and they're usually far from clean.
Anyway, I realize it's kind of gross and kind of rude. That's why it's my "confession"... A habit that's not so great, that I'm admitting to with a hint of shame.
It is gross @zpanjwani, I agree, that's why I found it confession worthy. Not all places have those seat covers; in fact I find many more don't than do. Maybe that's a regional thing? I guess I don't want to wipe things down because I find the bathrooms so nasty that I don't want to prolong my time in there. I live in a fairly small town and they're usually far from clean.
Anyway, I realize it's kind of gross and kind of rude. That's why it's my "confession"... A habit that's not so great, that I'm admitting to with a hint of shame.
hopefully youll stop. once when i had morning sickness, i was about to burst and i kicked open the stall and had to vomit on someones pee.....so...thanks for that.
It is gross @zpanjwani, I agree, that's why I found it confession worthy. Not all places have those seat covers; in fact I find many more don't than do. Maybe that's a regional thing? I guess I don't want to wipe things down because I find the bathrooms so nasty that I don't want to prolong my time in there. I live in a fairly small town and they're usually far from clean.
Anyway, I realize it's kind of gross and kind of rude. That's why it's my "confession"... A habit that's not so great, that I'm admitting to with a hint of shame.
hopefully youll stop. once when i had morning sickness, i was about to burst and i kicked open the stall and had to vomit on someones pee.....so...thanks for that.
I probably won't, though I am genuinely sorry that happened to you.
I certainly hope that I put enough kindness out there to "cancel out" this one bad habit I have, that I do not to be blatantly rude but because I'm honestly afraid of the nasty germs in these nasty bathrooms. Seriously, the bathrooms in this town are disgusting. If I go somewhere where the employees actually take care of the bathroom, I sit on the seat and flush with my shoe.
It is gross @zpanjwani, I agree, that's why I found it confession worthy. Not all places have those seat covers; in fact I find many more don't than do. Maybe that's a regional thing? I guess I don't want to wipe things down because I find the bathrooms so nasty that I don't want to prolong my time in there. I live in a fairly small town and they're usually far from clean.
Anyway, I realize it's kind of gross and kind of rude. That's why it's my "confession"... A habit that's not so great, that I'm admitting to with a hint of shame.
hopefully youll stop. once when i had morning sickness, i was about to burst and i kicked open the stall and had to vomit on someones pee.....so...thanks for that.
I probably won't, though I am genuinely sorry that happened to you.
I certainly hope that I put enough kindness out there to "cancel out" this one bad habit I have, that I do not to be blatantly rude but because I'm honestly afraid of the nasty germs in these nasty bathrooms. Seriously, the bathrooms in this town are disgusting. If I go somewhere where the employees actually take care of the bathroom, I sit on the seat and flush with my shoe.
wash and sanitize your hands. we have the luxury of flushing toilets in this country. Use it. Youre not four. i really cannot express how disgusting and disappointed i am right now. Not that you care what I think about you since youve said in the past you dont like me, but This is one of the grossest things ive read on this board.
@bellaxanthe They do seem pretty similar, and I agree that the quiet can be good, but lots of times it's also highly suspicious. ;-) I think I mainly get worried at daycare when she's the one off on her own while all the others have started playing together, even with how different the concept of "play" is at this age. She is pretty observant though, likes to watch what's happening a lot of the time.
Even a minor event in
the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world
event.
@karmB I don't dislike you. I do think you're often unnecessarily rude, but I don't dislike you. I'm pretty sure I've offered you many kind words, encouragement and support on this board just like I do (or at least I hope I do) for everyone here.
I'm sorry to be so disappointing and disgusting to you, and apparently many others. I know everyone else here is super perfect, has no gross habits at all or ever does anything someone else might consider rude, so I guess I should have known better than to confess one of my own admitted imperfections and expect acceptance.
@SallySunrise I don't mean to be coming down on you. Yes, I'm sure everyone has gross habits, but honestly one of the biggest contributors of why public bathrooms are so nasty is because some people refuse to flush. I was simply questioning why you didn't, I wasn't judging you or saying you're a terrible person.
Thank you, I appreciate that. Karm certainly was, but I guess I have to choose not to care about that. I'm sure it's no surprise to anyone here that I'm a sensitive person, and I can't say I love being called disgusting.
Again, for everyone, and for the last time: I realize this is not a lovely habit. I'm regret sharing it, and I'm done defending it because honestly, it's not all that defendable. I'm gross I guess. Sorry.
I just wasted an inordinate amount of time trying to figure out all the drama going on on the Parenting board. Sometimes I pop over there when it's slow at work and slow here....not frequently enough to know all the players.
I am excited that my oldest son most likely will move out to college next fall. I know I will miss him and super worry about him, but I have to admit that I am at the same time sad and happy that he leaves.
Going off the topic of "being gross"... I have to LOFuckingL at people who feel inclined to say anything to anyone when I'm pretty sure they have Ebola brewing in their fridge. Like for real, I saw poop on the shelves.
It just amazes me how many people feel like their shit doesn't stink, but their homes are worthy of a CPS call.
My confession regarding all of that is, I suppose, I leave things clean wherever I go, whether its in public or my house. How high and mighty of me.
Going off the topic of "being gross"... I have to LOFuckingL at people who feel inclined to say anything to anyone when I'm pretty sure they have Ebola brewing in their fridge. Like for real, I saw poop on the shelves.
It just amazes me how many people feel like their shit doesn't stink, but their homes are worthy of a CPS call.
My confession regarding all of that is, I suppose, I leave things clean wherever I go, whether its in public or my house. How high and mighty of me.
I'll say it for you... Flucking Bubbajug.
Who are you referring to?
Also this seems really random and aggressive.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10
BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
Going off the topic of "being gross"... I have to LOFuckingL at people who feel inclined to say anything to anyone when I'm pretty sure they have Ebola brewing in their fridge. Like for real, I saw poop on the shelves.
It just amazes me how many people feel like their shit doesn't stink, but their homes are worthy of a CPS call.
My confession regarding all of that is, I suppose, I leave things clean wherever I go, whether its in public or my house. How high and mighty of me.
I'll say it for you... Flucking Bubbajug.
Who are you referring to?
Also this seems really random and aggressive.
Oh goodness, let's not turn this into "bump drama"... I would assume everyone knows someone in real life who's house is cringe worthy, much like I do. If anyone knows someone from the bump who should have CPS called for the condition of their home... Do share.
1. I ate a whole bag of Pirate's Booty in one sitting.
2. Sometimes LO's daycare teacher hints that she thinks I let Will off the hook easy (i.e., I will let him keep his binky if he is giving me a hard time...or pretty much give in to him rather easily to avoid a meltdown) and that H is harder with him. It stuck with me for some reason. So yesterday, when I got there to pick him up, Will was sitting on a chair and then got up to stand on it. So I sternly said "NO. Sit on your BUTT." His bottom lip went out and he full out lost it. Crying so, so hard. Pretttty sure his teacher was like "You dick" while looking at me. I cried on the way home, I felt so bad.
3. One morning, just a little after I had woken up, Will grabbed his jacket and wanted to go outside. We had been in from snow and cold weather and were going a little stir crazy, so I was like "OK kid...I hear ya. Let's go". Thinking that we would only be outside for about 5-10 minutes, I just put a jacket and hat on him. No gloves. It was about 18 degrees. He fell a couple times in the snow, but seemed fine. I got to talking to a neighbor and couldn't stop the convo, so we were out much longer than I anticipated. When we finally broke away to come inside, his hands were pink and so cold. I felt like such a jerk. What a dumb, irresponsible thing to do. Flame me. I deserve it.
I've actually never been to anyone's house that was so gross that a CPS call would have been warranted.
I was thinking the same thing. I mean if you saw poop on shelves I would get the eff outta there!
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10
BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
A silly one, maybe more of an UO but I'll forget it by next week, I don't like morning talk shows on radio stations. They are stupid most of the time, it feels like they're drunk or high and aren't funny. There's a radio station out of San Francisco I love, but the talk show in the morning is stupid.
Even a minor event in
the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world
event.
I find it HI Larious that a few members only show up to be involved in or start drama. Also that they purposely never like certain other Bumpies pics on WOW or AW threads. It's pretty laughable that people are so petty
Oh, let's name names then! Get some real drama going. I haven't been around in weeks due to my increasing desire to jump off a fuckingbridge, so I'm not sure what's happened recently... I'd love something good to read.
Re: FC
What just happened in my diaper?!
I wear yoga pants most of the weekend. They are comfy and easy when I am chasing/dealing with LO all day.
I ate pizza for both dinner and lunch the past two days.
My only close friends live several hours away at a minimum and I never get to see them. I have one semi-friend here, but she's one of those girls that is friends with everybody and so doesn't have much time. And being that I'm several years older and at a different place in my life (married, baby, not going out drinking every night) I just can't get terribly close to her. And the town we're in is so small there is no mom groups except the la leche league... none... I didn't even know it was possible until I moved here.
I am trying to find a way to not have to work so that I don't have to find a new daycare for Charlie, or a way to keep her in her current one. But with the commute it just isn't going to happen. MH is against it, so it's not going to happen. But I keep hoping...
MH was out of town last night so I got the bed all to myself and it was heaven. It's amazing how the covers are able to stay put all night when there isn't a guy there throwing them around.
Even a minor event in the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world event.
Before coming over to see Tumaini, my FIL always stuffs his shirt pocket with crackers or cookies, and when he gets here, he encourages her to go snoop in her pocket and find the snacks. My MIL and him think it's super cute. I, on the other hand, cringe every single time, and get a bad feeling in my stomach. I know it's completely innocent and harmless, but I come from a family where unfortunately sexual abuse on toddlers and young kids is way too common, and I can't get myself to being comfortable with this. It's nothing wrong, I rationally know this, but it really bothers me. I tried talking to my H about it, but he really doesn't get it, and I could never mention it to my in-laws without destroying my relationships with them, but I hate it, and I find myself inviting my FIL less since he has started doing this.
Even a minor event in the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world event.
Anyway, I realize it's kind of gross and kind of rude. That's why it's my "confession"... A habit that's not so great, that I'm admitting to with a hint of shame.
I probably won't, though I am genuinely sorry that happened to you.
I certainly hope that I put enough kindness out there to "cancel out" this one bad habit I have, that I do not to be blatantly rude but because I'm honestly afraid of the nasty germs in these nasty bathrooms. Seriously, the bathrooms in this town are disgusting. If I go somewhere where the employees actually take care of the bathroom, I sit on the seat and flush with my shoe.
Even a minor event in the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world event.
I'm sorry to be so disappointing and disgusting to you, and apparently many others. I know everyone else here is super perfect, has no gross habits at all or ever does anything someone else might consider rude, so I guess I should have known better than to confess one of my own admitted imperfections and expect acceptance.
And again, I only do it in nasty bathrooms. If I can hold it, I choose not to even use public bathrooms. It's not like I do this on a daily basis.
For anyone keeping score: I'm at the Y right now, and since they actually clean their bathrooms, I sat and flushed.
Again, for everyone, and for the last time: I realize this is not a lovely habit. I'm regret sharing it, and I'm done defending it because honestly, it's not all that defendable. I'm gross I guess. Sorry.
I just wasted an inordinate amount of time trying to figure out all the drama going on on the Parenting board. Sometimes I pop over there when it's slow at work and slow here....not frequently enough to know all the players.
But,TB drama intrigues me.
Eats childproof locks for breakfast...
I am excited that my oldest son most likely will move out to college next fall. I know I will miss him and super worry about him, but I have to admit that I am at the same time sad and happy that he leaves.
It just amazes me how many people feel like their shit doesn't stink, but their homes are worthy of a CPS call.
My confession regarding all of that is, I suppose, I leave things clean wherever I go, whether its in public or my house. How high and mighty of me.
I'll say it for you... Flucking Bubbajug.
Also this seems really random and aggressive.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
I have more.
1. I ate a whole bag of Pirate's Booty in one sitting.
2. Sometimes LO's daycare teacher hints that she thinks I let Will off the hook easy (i.e., I will let him keep his binky if he is giving me a hard time...or pretty much give in to him rather easily to avoid a meltdown) and that H is harder with him. It stuck with me for some reason. So yesterday, when I got there to pick him up, Will was sitting on a chair and then got up to stand on it. So I sternly said "NO. Sit on your BUTT." His bottom lip went out and he full out lost it. Crying so, so hard. Pretttty sure his teacher was like "You dick" while looking at me. I cried on the way home, I felt so bad.
3. One morning, just a little after I had woken up, Will grabbed his jacket and wanted to go outside. We had been in from snow and cold weather and were going a little stir crazy, so I was like "OK kid...I hear ya. Let's go". Thinking that we would only be outside for about 5-10 minutes, I just put a jacket and hat on him. No gloves. It was about 18 degrees. He fell a couple times in the snow, but seemed fine. I got to talking to a neighbor and couldn't stop the convo, so we were out much longer than I anticipated. When we finally broke away to come inside, his hands were pink and so cold. I felt like such a jerk. What a dumb, irresponsible thing to do. Flame me. I deserve it.
Eats childproof locks for breakfast...
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
Even a minor event in the life of a child is an event of that child's world and thus a world event.