Nonstop baby kicking! :)

JNerd · February 2014

JuneBug317 said:

You know what? Fuck you too. This is so fucking ridiculous. I do not have a perfect pregnancy, I'm high risk with a blood clotting disorder that I have monitored weekly by my OB, Hemotologist and Marternal-Fetal OB. I only found out last year that I could even have children and I almost died earlier in life from a blood clot in my brain due to excessive estrogen from birth control. And I am not going to apologize or feel bad because I have a healthy pregnancy, its a BLESSING. For those ladies that lost their children too soon I am deeply sorry as I only had a glimpse of what that feeling is like and it was the coldest darkest place I have ever known.

You 'ladies' should feel ashamed of yourselves especially with the heightened attention to bullying over the last few decades. What kind of role models are you setting for all of our children by maliciously bashing people who walk into a room of what they hoped would be a group of people undergoing a similar situation to only find out its nothing but a bunch of mean girls in the popular crowd that bully the 'newbies' until they leave because they dont' know 'the rules' or how to ask the 'right' questions.

This nonstop negativity and harassment is not good for me or the progress of my growing baby. Feel free to continue with your obscene comments and banter, that I only expect from bullies like you, but know that I will not be reading them or giving this board a second thought through out any pregnancy I may be blessed with having in the future.

jshrop · February 2014

JuneBug317 said:

You know what? Fuck you too. This is so fucking ridiculous. I do not have a perfect pregnancy, I'm high risk with a blood clotting disorder that I have monitored weekly by my OB, Hemotologist and Marternal-Fetal OB. I only found out last year that I could even have children and I almost died earlier in life from a blood clot in my brain due to excessive estrogen from birth control. And I am not going to apologize or feel bad because I have a healthy pregnancy, its a BLESSING. For those ladies that lost their children too soon I am deeply sorry as I only had a glimpse of what that feeling is like and it was the coldest darkest place I have ever known.

You 'ladies' should feel ashamed of yourselves especially with the heightened attention to bullying over the last few decades. What kind of role models are you setting for all of our children by maliciously bashing people who walk into a room of what they hoped would be a group of people undergoing a similar situation to only find out its nothing but a bunch of mean girls in the popular crowd that bully the 'newbies' until they leave because they dont' know 'the rules' or how to ask the 'right' questions.

This nonstop negativity and harassment is not good for me or the progress of my growing baby. Feel free to continue with your obscene comments and banter, that I only expect from bullies like you, but know that I will not be reading them or giving this board a second thought through out any pregnancy I may be blessed with having in the future.

GO. FUCK. YOURSELF. You disrespect our FAMILY you don't deserve to be part of this board. And know, you're missing out on some fantastic fucking women. BUH-BYE!!

katekat8721 · February 2014

The things I've learned from @junebug317

It's ok to be an AW, an asshat or an insensitive twat if:
1. You're a FTM (check)
2. You have a clotting disorder
3. You thought you'd never get pregnant and then did (check)
4. You are considered a high risk pregnancy

Well 2 out of 4 ain't bad, I guess I can only be an asshat half the time.

Luna C · February 2014

JuneBug317 said:

You know what? Fuck you too. This is so fucking ridiculous. I do not have a perfect pregnancy, I'm high risk with a blood clotting disorder that I have monitored weekly by my OB, Hemotologist and Marternal-Fetal OB. I only found out last year that I could even have children and I almost died earlier in life from a blood clot in my brain due to excessive estrogen from birth control. And I am not going to apologize or feel bad because I have a healthy pregnancy, its a BLESSING. For those ladies that lost their children too soon I am deeply sorry as I only had a glimpse of what that feeling is like and it was the coldest darkest place I have ever known.

You 'ladies' should feel ashamed of yourselves especially with the heightened attention to bullying over the last few decades. What kind of role models are you setting for all of our children by maliciously bashing people who walk into a room of what they hoped would be a group of people undergoing a similar situation to only find out its nothing but a bunch of mean girls in the popular crowd that bully the 'newbies' until they leave because they dont' know 'the rules' or how to ask the 'right' questions.

This nonstop negativity and harassment is not good for me or the progress of my growing baby. Feel free to continue with your obscene comments and banter, that I only expect from bullies like you, but know that I will not be reading them or giving this board a second thought through out any pregnancy I may be blessed with having in the future.

I'm going to be blunt: Go fuck yourself.

Mztwilson · February 2014

@junebug317 who pissed in your Cheerios? And just for the record you won't be missed. Buh bye!

katekat8721 · February 2014

ugabamafans said:

katekat8721 said:

The things I've learned from @junebug317 It's ok to be an AW, an asshat or an insensitive twat if: 1. You're a FTM (check) 2. You have a clotting disorder 3. You thought you'd never get pregnant and then did (check) 4. You are considered a high risk pregnancy Well 2 out of 4 ain't bad, I guess I can only be an asshat half the time.

@katekat8721 - I'm pretty sure being pregnant with twin velociraptors totally makes you high risk. 3 out of 4 - high five!

GOOD POINT!

curlylocks3 · February 2014

katekat8721 said:

The things I've learned from @junebug317 It's ok to be an AW, an asshat or an insensitive twat if:
1. You're a FTM (check)
2. You have a clotting disorder
3. You thought you'd never get pregnant and then did (check)
4. You are considered a high risk pregnancy
Well 2 out of 4 ain't bad, I guess I can only be an asshat half the time.

4/4, woohoo! Let me go find something to be a SS/AW about....

curlylocks3 · February 2014

BrightEyes112 said:

katekat8721 said:

The things I've learned from @junebug317 It's ok to be an AW, an asshat or an insensitive twat if:
1. You're a FTM (check)
2. You have a clotting disorder
3. You thought you'd never get pregnant and then did (check)
4. You are considered a high risk pregnancy
Well 2 out of 4 ain't bad, I guess I can only be an asshat half the time.

4/4, woohoo! Let me go find something to be a SS/AW about....
Make a post about it or it never happened.

I gots nothing though. I'm boring- but I'm perfectly content to be boring right now.

Happydance80 · February 2014

What a GIANT FUCKING TWATWAFFLE!!!!!!! Hmmmm.... The board as a whole grieves the horrific losses in this week alone but you feel like it's appropriate to seriously fucking brag/ask about your baby moving? What in the flying fuck? There aren't even words for this type of stupid. GO THE FUCK AWAY! @SNLT- I know I'm not alone in saying that while I totally understand if you don't come around I would be really sad if you didn't.

EmbracingChange · February 2014

Obviously those of us who haven't had a loss are experiencing the same feelings that you are. Every time our babies move we smile and are grateful for the momentary reassurance that movement provides. The difference is that we want this birth group to still be a welcoming place for those of us who have had unfortunate losses. They know we feel our babies move, they know we get to experience round ligament pain, intense cravings, etc. We don't need to shove it in their faces with a thread every time it occurs. Its raw for everyone here. The whole group is grieving right now and there's not much room for special snowflake posts. Maybe if it weren't so fresh the reaction wouldn't have been so fierce, but if you were paying attention or cared, you would have known better.

LaurelJoy91 · February 2014

kibean said:

JuneBug317 said:

You know what? Fuck you too. This is so fucking ridiculous. I do not have a perfect pregnancy, I'm high risk with a blood clotting disorder that I have monitored weekly by my OB, Hemotologist and Marternal-Fetal OB. I only found out last year that I could even have children and I almost died earlier in life from a blood clot in my brain due to excessive estrogen from birth control. And I am not going to apologize or feel bad because I have a healthy pregnancy, its a BLESSING. For those ladies that lost their children too soon I am deeply sorry as I only had a glimpse of what that feeling is like and it was the coldest darkest place I have ever known.

You 'ladies' should feel ashamed of yourselves especially with the heightened attention to bullying over the last few decades. What kind of role models are you setting for all of our children by maliciously bashing people who walk into a room of what they hoped would be a group of people undergoing a similar situation to only find out its nothing but a bunch of mean girls in the popular crowd that bully the 'newbies' until they leave because they dont' know 'the rules' or how to ask the 'right' questions.

This nonstop negativity and harassment is not good for me or the progress of my growing baby. Feel free to continue with your obscene comments and banter, that I only expect from bullies like you, but know that I will not be reading them or giving this board a second thought through out any pregnancy I may be blessed with having in the future.

No one asked you to apologize for having a healthy baby (though I see you now acknowledge that you were never really "worried" to begin with). We asked you to not brag about yourself insensitively and ask stupid questions (that aren't even legit) to people who don't know you or care. Also, please look up the definition of bullying, as I haven't seen any here.

Edit: words

That is almost word for word what I was going to post. It's one thing to feel thankful that your pregnancy is healthy; that's nothing to apologize for. It's one thing to be legitimately worried that something is wrong and feel the need to get reassurance. It is a COMPLETELY different thing to walk into a board of women you've never met, who are currently grieving the loss of no less that three beautiful babies, and start shamelessly BRAGGING about how active yours is, and then you tack on an obviously insignificant concern at the end of the post in an attempt to cover up? THAT is what we were asking you to apologize for.

I admit, I wasn't all that offended by your OP. I thought it was a stupid question that you obviously hadn't thought out before asking. I was willing to let it go and just forget it ever existed. But your insensitive replies are what truly have made me angry. You told SNLT "fuck you too." I will never forgive or forget that. By all means, I hope you are serious about not coming back. Do us all a favor, and stay away.

Lindsleigh77 · February 2014

This is just too fucking much. What a brutal week. All I can feel is grief for the loss some of of our ladies have experienced...... Been there. @SNLT1012 enormous hugs to you xo

Read247 · February 2014

Everyone had their go at her. Excellent responses ladies. Now can we please let this thread die?!?

LaRouge8382 · February 2014

Wow... a lot of negative responses... Well to answer your question, yes I think it's normal. I have the same thing going on. When I wear something with a tight waistband or I'm in a restrictive position I am able to feel a lot more movement than when I'm lounging around in loose clothes sprawled out on the couch. I think it's just the baby responding to a change in pressure around them.

nunzchucks · February 2014

LaRouge8382 said:
Wow... a lot of negative responses... Well to answer your question, yes I think it's normal. I have the same thing going on. When I wear something with a tight waistband or I'm in a restrictive position I am able to feel a lot more movement than when I'm lounging around in loose clothes sprawled out on the couch. I think it's just the baby responding to a change in pressure around them.

Alrighty. I think we've all been properly admonished by the peanut gallery.

kibean · February 2014

How is this still going on!?

Mztwilson · February 2014

Oh cute another white knight. Isn't that just adorable.... :-@

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