So after discussion with DH and his Mom they really want to do Lee as the middle name for his dad. I don't LOVE it because I think its a "boy" name. But I understand why and am okay with this since this is going to be the only chance for us because we are done. We will spell it Leigh. So which first name? Here are the contenders....
Sophia Leigh
Amelia/Mia Leigh
Alexa Leigh
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I agree with pp that you should just use Lee. I've seen Lee used as a mn on a girl quite a few times in real life actually. And I think you're not honoring him as much with changing up the spelling.
The only one I don't really like is Alexa. Alexa Leigh just sounds strange together.
And further, I would not ever have a serious name discussion with my mil. I'm in the camp where it's not really honoring some one if you're changing the name, so if you don't like it don't use it.
Other names to honor Lee:
Carlye
Leah / Lia
Lena
Julie
Molly
Get my drift here? Pick a name you really love. It's not about the actual name, but more about how you and DH want to use it to honor someone.
Just my opinion but I've never cared for Leigh as a girl mn because I always read it Lay (like sleigh)
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