Potty, making out, and proper washing of your lady bits

bebemac · January 2014

How's that for a thread title? My friend and I have three ongoing debates:

1. The word potty: She says potty can be both poo or pee. Nope, if I have to go potty that just means pee.

2. The phrase making out: She says making out can include everything but sex. Nope, I say making out is kissing only.

3. Proper washing of your lady bits: She says you only soap up the front doors and use a warm water rinse after opening the doors as that is sufficient. Nope, I say suds belong both on the outside and more suds once you open the doors. (This would be like only brushing the teeth you can see when you smile!)

Who is right?

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GolfWidow001 · January 2014

1. Potty is poo for me!
2. Agree with PP
3. You're right in my book!!

tbmadeamistake · January 2014

First and foremost, I'm sitting right next to DH and he suddenly goes, "I'm going to stop reading your thread titles," while laughing uncomfortably. He was talking about this one. Good job!!

1. Potty is a dumb term for both unless you're in the process of being potty trained. You're going to the bathroom.

2. Making out is kissing, maybe a quick feel. Anything more than that is, well, more than that.

3. No suds up in there! I only suds on the outside. I've always been taught that if you soap inside you can alter the Ph and give yourself a yeast infection. Your body cleans itself out, hence discharge. That said, after no-condom sex, I will clean all up in there as needed.

owlcup · January 2014

Potty is for both.

Making out is kissing. And I agree with PP, some boob groping also.

Nooo suds on the inside. I can already feel the yeast infection coming on if I tried that.

iris427 · January 2014

1. Potty is for toddlers 2. Making out is kissing, maybe a little bit more, definitely not "anything but sex" 3. No soap directly on the lady bits, and definitely not inside. Just rinse with water. Soap can be drying, irritate your tissues, and interfere with the natural healthy vaginal flora, leading to infection. And before anyone says ewww gross, this information came from my old gynecologist who specialized in vaginal/vulvar health. If you do use soap, it should be very mild and contain no dyes or perfumes.

whoberry · January 2014

I hate the phrase "making out." It's for 15 year olds.

hubbs173 · January 2014

1. Potty is what you say to little kids or my dog! DH and I just say we're going to the bathroom
2. Making out is just kissing and I agree with PP there can be some minor groping.
3. Soap on the outer lady parts but never inside.

christinemurray91 · January 2014

1. Potty is for both, but usually pee... probably because you do it more often, though, lol.

2. Making out is just kissing.

3. Soap all the way.

PinkKEL9 · January 2014

Lilygrace48 said:
1. Potty is a dumb term for both unless you're in the process of being potty trained. You're going to the bathroom.

2. Making out is kissing, maybe a quick feel. Anything more than that is, well, more than that.

3. No suds up in there! I only suds on the outside. I've always been taught that if you soap inside you can alter the Ph and give yourself a yeast infection. Your body cleans itself out, hence discharge. That said, after no-condom sex, I will clean all up in there as needed.

Yup, exactly what I was gonna say.

supgabs · January 2014

I only say I have to potty when I gotta poo. Making out is kissing passionately and I soap up the whole thing.

LaurelJoy91 · January 2014

1. I don't use the term potty, but in my mind it would refer to both, since they both involve use of the toilet or 'pot'.

2. Kissing, but very passionately and often involving tongue. Making out is strictly mouth-to-mouth, not mouth-to.... other things.

3. Outside the doors only. I've always been taught the same thing about affecting ph and causing yeast infections. Like others have said, it's all self cleaning inside there.

JulieSmiles · January 2014

Potty is just going pee. Making out is just kissing, but like heavy middle school kissing. No soap up in the bits. PPs said it perfectly... I don't want to alter the ph and end up with a yeast infection.

Rosebud2587 · January 2014

1) potty=pee

2) Making out= kissing with some groping and possible dry humping

3) outside doors

ElTrain5 · January 2014

Potty can be both, making out is 1st and 2nd base only, no soap on the inside, vaginal flora and all that shizz

babygabe614 · January 2014

1. I detest the word potty and don't use it. It's "going to the bathroom" and it can mean either.
2. Making out is kissing with tongue only.
3. Both inside & outside

katekat8721 · January 2014

1. I only say potty to my dogs, so for them it means pee/poo.

2. Making out = kissing + tongue + possible groping lol

3. Suds everywhere!

bebemac · January 2014

Glad to see I'm not wrong on all accounts! I also hate the term 'potty' and don't use it and never will, we were merely debating the usage. Just to be clear! I do like the term making out, though! <:-P

wtfisup · January 2014

bebemac said:

How's that for a thread title? My friend and I have three ongoing debates: 1. The word potty: She says potty can be both poo or pee. Nope, if I have to go potty that just means pee. 2. The phrase making out: She says making out can include everything but sex. Nope, I say making out is kissing only. 3. Proper washing of your lady bits: She says you only soap up the front doors and use a warm water rinse after opening the doors as that is sufficient. Nope, I say suds belong both on the outside and more suds once you open the doors. (This would be like only brushing the teeth you can see when you smile!) Who is right?

Please tell me that you're actually adults who don't speak in euphemistic terms like that. I don't know what 'potty' as a verb means because I don't know anyone who says that. I also don't know about the second one because whatever -- don't you just say the name of the act? And I hope that you can talk about your genitals using words like "labia" and "vagina" and "anus." In which case, no, soap should not go into your vagina or be uses to wash the labia minora, or the inner lips.

bebemac · January 2014

@wtfisup You missed my post about not using the word potty.

Agreed, no soap in the vagina. But on/around the clitoris, labia majora/minora and the vulval vestibule, heck yes! (Is that better?)

wtfisup · January 2014

bebemac said:

@wtfisup You missed my post about not using the word potty. Agreed, no soap in the vagina. But on/around the clitoris, labia majora/minora and the vulval vestibule, heck yes! (Is that better?)

Hmmm ... I still say nay on the soap. I mean, that area doesn't get dirty -- it's fairly internal. What would need to be washed away?

b48kate · January 2014

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Please ladies, be careful washing the inside of your genitals with soap. The vagina is a self-cleaning oven. It's really not necessary, if you are having a bad odor it is probably a problem that soap will only mask. I saw a commercial today for vagisil feminine wipes and one lady said 'I use them after douching!' And I thought 'holy shit! People still douche?!' It's soooo not good for you.

Yes! I can't believe douches are even still available! Who is buying this product?

ElTrain5 · January 2014

bebemac said:
@wtfisup You missed my post about not using the word potty.

Agreed, no soap in the vagina. But on/around the clitoris, labia majora/minora and the vulval vestibule, heck yes! (Is that better?)

I love the fact that my vagina has a "vestibule". It's like a fancy hotel down there.

mschware · January 2014

1. Potty means both for me!
2. Making out means just kissing!
3. I used to suds up all doors, but I've learned from multiple people... You're NOT supposed wash the inside. Its soo bad for the PH of your vajay and makes u prone to so many infections. That area was made to self clean. All u need to wash is the outside

bebemac · January 2014

ElTrain5 said:
I love the fact that my vagina has a "vestibule". It's like a fancy hotel down there.

Right?! It's even got vestibular bulbs. Plant that shit and I bet you'll end up with quite the fancy entryway!

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