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Success after IF
Worst nightmare came true
Our baby died a week ago, there was no heartbeat and no movement and no growth.
I have to have a D and C Christmas Eve at 8 a.m. have to be there at 7. They offered to do another ultrasound, but he said for closure, but nothing would change. One of the nurses said they would come in, but I said no. I knew, I could tell when I saw the screen. They will do testing. They were lucky to get me in, better than waiting I guess and he doesn?t want me to start naturally since he wants to do the tests.
I am at work, have to wrap crap up. Will leave soon, well by 3 hopefully. Can?t be here tomorrow. I am so glad we haven?t really told anyone.
Brian is devastated. he cried more than I did. I knew I think. I knew it would be bad today. The pessimistic side of me knew.
Sorry to bring everyone down. Maybe I should just post this over on T-TTC. I hope this is readable, I copied it from an email.
I have to have a D and C Christmas Eve at 8 a.m. have to be there at 7. They offered to do another ultrasound, but he said for closure, but nothing would change. One of the nurses said they would come in, but I said no. I knew, I could tell when I saw the screen. They will do testing. They were lucky to get me in, better than waiting I guess and he doesn?t want me to start naturally since he wants to do the tests.
I am at work, have to wrap crap up. Will leave soon, well by 3 hopefully. Can?t be here tomorrow. I am so glad we haven?t really told anyone.
Brian is devastated. he cried more than I did. I knew I think. I knew it would be bad today. The pessimistic side of me knew.
Sorry to bring everyone down. Maybe I should just post this over on T-TTC. I hope this is readable, I copied it from an email.
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Re: Worst nightmare came true
Our beautiful son was born July 2008.
2010: 2 IVF's,1 FET = 2 BFN's, 1 c/p
Feb 2011-Unmedicated FET= BFP!! DS #2 born Oct 2011!!.
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Clomid M/C 8 weeks 2/08 *IVF #1-DD born 3/09
*Surprise BFP-T18 baby lost at 13w 1/10 *FET #1-DS born 2/11
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This is beyond unfair. I am so unbelievably sorry. (((hugs))) to you. Please try and take care of yourself during this awful time.
I'm so sorry
hannah
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your DH are close to my heart and please know that we're all here for you.
((hugs))
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Our successful cycle was IVF #2: Microdose Lupron Flare Protocol - 2 beautiful blasts transferred.
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