December 2013 Moms

Grateful I Passed On A Tubal...

So as I sit here holding my 3rd child, my sweet baby Holland, I had to stop and smile because for some crazy reason I now can feel that I'm not done. My entire pregnancy I went back & fourth on my decision and posted here as well seeing what other moms planned to do. So this post it just to say I'm glad I didn't let my crazy emotions and hormones get to me & went with my heart not my head. Though I'm not planning another blessing in the near future... I do see another in the future. Anyone else in this boat?? Yay for fully intact Fallopian tubes! Haha!

Re: Grateful I Passed On A Tubal...

  • I'm mostly a lurker. My LO is 4 weeks, and he's my third as well. The last 2 months of pregnancy I was pretty certain this was it. Now that he's here I definitely don't feel done at all. I feel like one more is a big possibility. Maybe I'll change my mind when this one is a toddler. Lol. For now I'm glad I've got the option still.
    Andrea 7/9/08, Joaquin 4/18/11, boy coming 12/18/13 Forever missed: Gabriel 11/24/09 at 20 weeks
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  • I would have more babies because I love kids.... But this time, I knew.
    I just said to my H everything with her, is the last time. Bittersweet.

    Yay for intact tubes!! My ligated ones will send the stork your way!! ;)
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  • Glad you didn't get them tied!  I on the other hand am just as happy I got my tubal ;)

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  • Sounds like momnesia is setting in! I had a super rough pregnancy and swore I wouldn't do it again. Now that LO sleeps through the night I can't wait to plan our third!

    Glad you waited on the tubal!

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  • We haven't done anything permanent but we are for realsies done! At least from a biological standpoint. I'm sad to be hAving "the lasts" but not enough to do it again. May the stork fly your way!

     

     

  • I went with the tubal. Would have loved to have a fourth but thanks to tons of scar tissue, a thin uterus and other ridiculous issues we were told to make this the last. So this baby is bittersweet. I will say that now that he's here our family feels complete so it all worked out! Glad you went with your heart! That's usually the best way!
  • Truthfully I can't wait to have another even after how rough pregnancy was. I look at Kaleb and want like 20(so kidding) but at least one or two more.
  • I passes on a tubal (also our 3rd) but DH is getting a vasectomy. We're done. Id love more babies in my head but in reality I know this is it :)
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