Ridiculous

destinycain · January 2014

I use love this May 2014 moms until everyone started getting rude and mean just because i didn't read a post clearly and thought we were just saying are weight gain everyone starts bashing me really considering deleting my profile. I didn't come here to get harassed.

jschwind22 · January 2014

bye now.

spacepotatoes · January 2014

Oh, so this one thing you decide to respond to? Instead of the threads you started where people took the time to answer your questions and provide support for your freakouts (despite your never being bothered to return the favour for anyone else)?

Nice.

FlemDance · January 2014

Wait, what did I miss today?

destinycain · January 2014

I always reply to other people and I have a phone app so it doesn't always notify me when they reply to my posts.

spacepotatoes · January 2014

destinycain said:

I always reply to other people and I have a phone app so it doesn't always notify me when they reply to my posts.

No, not so much.

jschwind22 · January 2014

destinycain said:

I always reply to other people and I have a phone app so it doesn't always notify me when they reply to my posts.

But if you ask a question, wouldn't you want to go back and see people's answers and feedback? When you don't respond it comes across as you don't care.

destinycain · January 2014

Well I don't mean to come across as I don't care cause I very much do or I wouldn't have posted a discussion topic! And sometimes I just forget to even go back. I've had a hard 2 weeks in and out of the hospital I don't need everyone's rude comments

spacepotatoes · January 2014

destinycain said:

Well I don't mean to come across as I don't care cause I very much do or I wouldn't have posted a discussion topic! And sometimes I just forget to even go back. I've had a hard 2 weeks in and out of the hospital I don't need everyone's rude comments

Here's the thing. A lot of ladies here have had hard times. But you don't seem to bother ever reading what anyone else posts or provide any support to anyone else here. You just drop in, ask questions that we've already covered repeatedly, then don't even bother to acknowledge the responses. Or post freaking about something to get support from others. It's a two way street.

This is why your reception around here is less than warm.

talkthewholetime · January 2014

No one is any more rude or mean than they were before.

Except I learned how to gif. So maybe it's that.

bye bye

yvanehtnioj · January 2014

Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!

Empireceo · January 2014

You have 23 discussions and 27 replies. We get that you care about your own discussion topics but most of us here consider this a 2 way street.

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jschwind22 · January 2014

Empireceo said:

You have 23 discussions and 27 replies. We get that you care about your own discussion topics but most of us here consider this a 2 way street.

But she doesn't even do that since she just said she forgets to come back to read the responses...

Miles2Go · January 2014

Please don't leave. These girls are just jealous meanie poo heads.

spacepotatoes · January 2014

HatchetFace said:

I can't say it any better than @spacepotatoes did. We are not Google, contrary to what you think.

Oh, and some of us are having really, really difficult pregnancies. Where's your support for us, huh? You just show up when YOU need something.

Well, she did start that one thread asking who was having rough pregnancies, not that the vast majority of those responses were acknowledged. But she got to talk about her own issues.

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alphalyrae · January 2014

bye.

Miles2Go · January 2014

HatchetFace said:

spacepotatoes said:

HatchetFace said:

I can't say it any better than @spacepotatoes did. We are not Google, contrary to what you think.

Oh, and some of us are having really, really difficult pregnancies. Where's your support for us, huh? You just show up when YOU need something.

Well, she did start that one thread asking who was having rough pregnancies, not that the vast majority of those responses were acknowledged. But she got to talk about her own issues.

Yeah I distinctly remember this one.

OP, if you just want to talk about yourself, start blogging, because obviously a place like this isn't for you.

Wait, I thought these WERE blogs?

busterbeagle · January 2014

My friends warned me that the bump was really mean. I was like "yes, bitches, sign me up!"

RedInLove · January 2014

EmilyGolden1 · January 2014

RedInLove said:

Colbert-High-Five.

mirdamae03 · January 2014

I big red puffy heart you biatches!

lv2011 · January 2014

@destinycain : you want support, GIVE SUPPORT!!!!!!!! Click on any one of these ladies' profiles and you'll see that they have wayyyyy more replies to other people than discussions started by themselves. Do you know what that means? It means they are giving support to a lot more people and contributing to the board as a whole- not leeching attention from everyone and giving nothing back.

If you're wondering why no one seems to care about your impressions of us/ the board, it's because you haven't taken the time to get to know any of us. You're selfish, a user. You can't possibly expect anyone to have a positive reaction to that behavior.

kat8805 · January 2014

Facebook = two way disccusions, you choose who sees what
Twitter = one way bitch sessions, anyone can share what you say
The Bump = Bitch STFU nobody GAF

Tkhixen · January 2014

um...who are you and why are you so butthurt? I musta fell asleep during one of your posts!

mileswithmyles · January 2014

lv2011 said:
@destinycain : you want support, GIVE SUPPORT!!!!!!!! Click on any one of these ladies' profiles and you'll see that they have wayyyyy more replies to other people than discussions started by themselves. Do you know what that means? It means they are giving support to a lot more people and contributing to the board as a whole- not leeching attention from everyone and giving nothing back.

If you're wondering why no one seems to care about your impressions of us/ the board, it's because you haven't taken the time to get to know any of us. You're selfish, a user. You can't possibly expect anyone to have a positive reaction to that behavior.

This.

Miles2Go · January 2014

@emilygoldrick

Jillzy86 · January 2014

Since the beginning we all have said. If you give support you get support. If this us not the place for you, then that's fine with us, as you can tell.

EmilyGolden1 · January 2014

I'm sorry OP---but everyone here is completely right about your participation or lack thereof. If you are looking for warm, fuzzy support...give a shit ton of warm, fuzzy support... I think a lot of people on here get confused about the difference between honesty and simply being a bitch...I think when people perceive poster's as being a bitch, it is typically because they do not like the response given to their post. If this is the case for you, you need to get off your high horse, put on big girl pants and just get over it.