Re: Bad News

• Allison7 member

  January 2014

  I am so, so sorry for your loss. This is just heartbreaking. Sending you not just T&Ps, but also hugs and love. 

  TTC Since January 2012 Me:37 DH:34      DX July 2013: Unexplained Infertility      New DX Dec 2013: DOR
  

  BFP#1 6/4/12 EDD 2/13/13 M/C 6/6/12  BFP#2 2/21/13 EDD 11/3/13 M/C 2/26/13 BFP#3 C/P
  4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN

  November/December Retesting/Natural Cycle = Surprise BFP @ 11dpo! Beta#1 76.6@13dpo Beta #2 276@15dpo u/s#1 6w2d hb113 u/s#2 8w2d, measuring 8w4d hb168! 10w2d hb171 12w3d Verifi results are in and good! EDD 8/23 Our Baby Girl Rainbow Baby born 8/20/2014!!!

  Um...what? BFP 11/2/15!?! EDD 7/4/16

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• chknma member

  January 2014

  I am so very sorry. ((Hugs))

  little chkn born 06/30/11

   baby chkn born 04/22/14

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• MickeyM04 member

  January 2014

  Oh no, I am so very sorry for your loss.  My heart dropped when I read the subject line of your post.  I wish you the best of luck for your D&C and everything else.  Big, big ((hugs)).

   

   

  BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
  BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
   BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14.  4/27/14:  Our second take home baby is here!

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• slensic member

  January 2014

  I am so very sorry. ((huge hugs))

  
  

     
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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  BFP#1 9/25/10 DD born 6/9/11

  BFP#2 8/1/13 MC 8/31/13

  BFP#3 11/2/13 EDD 7/15/14 Stick baby Stick

  1st u/s 11/26/13 at 7w, measuring right on track and a heartbeat of 139bpm

  NT Scan 1/6/14 at 12w 6d, normal healthy squirmy baby measuring right on track heartbeat of 147bpm

  1st 2nd tri Scan 2/3/14 at 16w 6d, very healthy baby BOY!

  A/S 3/4/14 still a very healthy BOY, measuring right on track!

  DS born 7/9/14

  
  

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• lv2011 member

  January 2014

  (((((HUGS)))))) I am so very sorry This is terribly unfair. Be kind to yourself.
  

      
  DD born 2/3/03
  BFP 3/21/13 w/ EDD 12/02/13, C/P 3/29/13.
  BFP 9/18/13 w/ EDD 5/26/14,
  Beta #1 @ 14-16dpo = 375, progesterone 33.6
  Beta #2 @ 20-22 dpo = 8,782!
  Beta #3 @ 27-29dpo = 44,230, dx subchorionic hemorrhage/ threatened mc
  Beta #4 @ 29-31dpo = 72, 080
  Grow, little one, grow!
  

  ***** All  AL  Welcome *****

   

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• blackbird818 member

  January 2014

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  No, NO NO!!! Ras, my heart is breaking for you!! I'm so so very sorry hun!! Sending you so much love and (((((((HUGS))))))). You & YH are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could take your pain away, my friend. Just know I'm here for you if you ever need to talk.
  

  TTC since Sept 2012
  M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
  AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
  Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13
  Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely
  BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14
  

  
   
   
  
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• Third&goal member

  January 2014

  Girl, my heart sank when I saw your name here.  I am so sorry that this is totally unfair that you are going through this again.  Please let us know if there is anything you need. 

  

  Pregnancy #3 after two prior losses in 2013

  EDD 8/18 

  
  

  
  

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• carlsonbaby2014 member

  January 2014

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  Ras - there are no words.  I am so, so, so sorry.  Sending you all my (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))).

  Began trying for a baby January 2012
  BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
  BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
  BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 

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• LizBlue member

  January 2014

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  I am so very sorry My First Raspberry.  This is heartbreaking to read.  Big ((hugs)) to you.

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  37 years old, MH is 42
  

  TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 
  

  August 2012 through June 2013:  6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs

  7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
  

  8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c

  3/15/14 IVF #1:  Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN. 

  Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
  

  6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN   

  8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy

  
  

  Done with medical intervention and getting used to the idea of CFNBC.  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• MsAmandaPants member

  January 2014

  Oh, Ras, I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm just heartbroken for you. I am keeping you so close to my heart. So many ((((hugs)))) to you.
  

  Me: 36 yo, TTC #1 since Feb. 2012
  BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12
  
  BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until  August 2013
  
  IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN

  IUI #2 (back-to-back, 9/12/13 and 9/13/13) Femara + Menopur, four mature follicles, BFFN
  IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN
  
  BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014  Please stick and grow, LO!
  
  Additional Dx: hypothyroidism, TgAb positive & anti-TPO positive, POR/DOR (2/2013), and suspected endometriosis
  
  ******All AL always welcome******
  

  
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• jmdj615 member

  January 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss.

  

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• katee2184 member

  January 2014

  No. I hate this for you. I am so incredibly sorry ((((((HUGS)))))

  
  

   

   

   

   

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• luciddreamer106 member

  January 2014

  Oh, no! I'm so sorry. ((hugs)) ((hugs)) ((hugs))

  

  

   TTC #1 since March 2011 
  

  BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
  BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13

  9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs

  3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN

  BFP #3: EDD 1/27/15 Please be our rainbow! ...Team Green

  
  

  
  

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• TVLily member

  January 2014

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  I am so so sorry to read this post. My heart is aching for you. You will be in my thoughts. Sending you lots of ((hugs)).

  EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
  EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
  IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

  Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

  

  **ALL AL/IF Welcome**
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• Pixiesmom73 member

  January 2014

  ((Hugs)) I am terribly sorry for your loss again. T&P's to you and your family.

  BFP#1 05.2005- didn't know I was pg until m/c.

   BFP#2 11.01.11 EDD 07.15.12  m/c 11.26.11 @ 6.5 weeks

   BFP#3 03.12.12 EDD 11.26.12 mm/c 04.29.12 @ 8 weeks

   BFP#4 10.08.12 EDD 06.08.13 m/c 11.29.12 @ 8.5 weeks

   cp on 03.27.13 BFP#5 09/10/13 EDD 05.25.14 Induced & Emergency C-section 05/09/14 

   

   

   

  

   

   

   

   

   

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• stefuge member

  January 2014

  ::lurking:: I am so so sorry. ((Hugs))

  

  
  

  

  
  

  Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005

  DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency

  DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown

  Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.

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• SA1112 member

  January 2014

  Oh Im so sorry! This is so unfair. Huge huge ((hugs))

  
  

  My Ovulation Chart
  

  BFP #1 3.16.12. mmc 5.7.12 at 11 weeks ~Avery Cameron~

  BFP #2 12.12.12. mmc 1.22.13 at 10 weeks ~Theodore Michael~

  D&C #2 Chromosome analysis results: Translocation Trisomy 14

  My RPL Testing: Homozygous MTHFR, normal karyotype

  DH's karyotype results: Robertsonian Translocation 13:14

  BFP #3 9.10.13 mc at 4 weeks~Our little May Flower~ 
  

  BFP #4 10.13.13- Our Rainbow Baby, a little girl, arrived June 25, 2014! 

                                                                            
  

  
  

   

   

   

   

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• Skeemer member

  January 2014

  I am so so very sorry that you are going through this. My heart goes out to you & I will pray for you.

  
  

      

  
  

  
  

  
  

   

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• mrsbtobe20122 member

  January 2014

  My heart is broken for you soul mate. There are no words--this is so flucking unfair. Please, please be good to yourself. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I will be holding you in my heart xoxo
  

  
  

  
  Mrs. B's Ovulation Chart
  TTC Baby B since 10/2012
  BFP#1 12/27/12 II TWIN GIRLS II D&C 2/15/13 TRAP sequence

  Clomid + TI + Acupuncture x 2 cycles
  

  BFP#2 9/5/13 II EDD 5/16/14 II Beckett Ryan born May 10, 2014
  

  
  

  
  

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• KMW08 member

  January 2014

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  I'm so sorry MFR. (((Hugs)))

  BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
  

  DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart

      
  

  
  

   

   

   

   

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• FeinBride09 member

  January 2014

  Ohhhh honey. I was wondering & worrying when I hadn't seen you post for a while. I . . just . . . there are no words I know to help right now. But I am so, so, so, so very sorry for you and DH. I hope you both have some time to be together right now and that he's an awesome support for you and know were here if you ever need anything. I'm thinking about and praying for y'all so very hard. (((hugs))). 

  TTCAL & PGAL Welcome
  

  PCOS & TTC #1 since January 2012
  BFP 11.16.2012 * Natural MC at 9.5 wks 01.1.2013
  TTC again in March 2013
  Round 3 of 100mg Clomid + 1500mg Metformin BFP #2 06.14.13

  EDD: March 28, 2014  It's a GIRL!

  
  
  
  

  
  

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• anitaflora member

  January 2014

  Oh honey.... I am absolutely heartbroken for you sweetie - I am just so, so sorry . I wish I could give you a million hugs. I know there are no words for this - but please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. You have been so kind and supportive to me and I just wish there was more I could do for you right now. Sending so much love to you.

  dream 1 CAME TRUE 2.13.2010

  
  

   <dream 2> 12.2011

  
  

   2.10.12 : 4 weeks

  
  

  6.17.12 : 10 weeks

  
  

  10.10.12 : 4 weeks, 6 days

  
  

  12.13.12 : 9 weeks, 1 day

  
  

  4.6.13 : 4 weeks, 4 days

  
  

  10.27.13 : 5 weeks, 6 days

  
  

  4.2.14 (IVF #1) : 4 weeks, 1 day

  
  

  6.19.14 : IVF #2 Negative

  
  

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  AMA, Diminished Ovarian Reserve, heterozygous MTHFR
  
  
  

  "all it was was a fairytale and devotion to a dream"
  
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• RubiksElf member

  January 2014

  I am so, so sorry.    Sending you lots of huge ((hugs)).

  BFP #1: EDD 12.28.12 - MC @ 6w3d | BFP #2: EDD 11.15.13 - D&C @ 12w4d
  BFP #3: Superbaby born 4.5.14 | Just When You Least Expect It...
  
  

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• MollySm member

  January 2014

  Oh, no. I am so sorry :-(

  

  BFP 3.8.16  EDD 11.20.16

  
  
  

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• tbiscuit18 member

  January 2014

  I am so very sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ((HUGS))

  
  

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• mdarmetko member

  January 2014

  Oh raspberry this is so heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you are going through this again. You will definitely be missed in our bmb. Hugs, take care of yourself.

  

  
  

   

  BFP 5/08/13 -- EDD 1/15/14 -- slow hb@7wks d&c 6/07/13

  BFP 8/12/13 -- EDD 4/20/14 -- no fetal pole @7wksnatural m/c 9/16/13, cytotec 10/17 & 10/22

  BFP 11/26/13 -- EDD 8/07/14 -- Born 7/24/14!
  

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• RustyGirl3 member

  January 2014

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  Oh Ras...
  
  I am heartbroken for you...((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))
  
  So very sorry to hear this.
  

  "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." ~ Helen Keller
  
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  Dating- 3/1/1999 ~ Married- 10/10/2004
  DD#1- Sweet Pea ~ Born on her Due Date 3/1/2007
  DD#2- Pumpkin ~ Due 9/29/2010 Arrived 10/1/2010
  ~ BFP: 6/12/2013 EDD: 2/21/2014 NT Scan: 8/5/2013 (11w3d) MMC D&C: 8/8/2013 ~

  ~BFP: 3/15/2014 EDD: 11/24/2014 CP 4 weeks 4 days ~

  ~BFP: 7/2/2014 EDD: 3/15/2015 CP 4 weeks ~

  ~BFP: 8/31/2014 EDD: 5/10/2015

  

                  
  
  

  
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• mara005 member

  January 2014

  My heart truly dropped when I saw this, I'm so very sorry. ((Hugs))

  
  

  "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 

  **All After a Loss Welcome**
  BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
  BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
  

  BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
  BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
  BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow! 

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• AnyMax member

  January 2014

  Oh Ras, I am so sorry. This just breaks my heart. Keeping you in my thoughts ((((((((((hugs))))))))))

  
  
                                                       

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• LifeofCat member

  January 2014

  I am so sorry for this loss. My heart is aching. Take good care of yourself (((hugs)))

  ~All are welcome~

  MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

  
  

  

  
  

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• kate6214 member

  January 2014

  I am so sorry for your loss.

  
  

  BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13

  BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14

  BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• LunaBug924 member

  January 2014

  I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I don't even have words. Please take care of yourself. ((((Hugs))))

  BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
  

  BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13

  7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions

  1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14

  Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 

  KAYLIE MARIE IS HERE! BORN 5/4/14

  
  

   

   

  
  

  
  

  
  

   
  

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• EKGibs member

  January 2014

  ((((Hugs)))))

  TTC since 4/28/07
  Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
  BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
  Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

  June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
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• Kristalina member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry. Unfair doesn't even begin to describe this. Sending lots of peace and prayers your way.

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• BluEyedGirl26 member

  January 2014

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  I'm so very sorry. (((Hugs)))

       

  TTC #1 since January 2013

  BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

  BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

  BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!
  

  

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• alilbear member

  January 2014

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  I'm so sorry! Many ((((hugs))))!!!!

  BFP #1 - 7/24/2013 (EDD: 3/31/2014) - mmc 8/12/13 - D&C 8/15/2013

  BFP #2 - 3/6/2014 (EDD 11/14/2014) - Beta #1 (17dpo): 1400 - Beta #2 (19dpo): 3170

  PGAL/PAL Welcome | My FF Chart  

  

   

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• samm1983 member

  January 2014

  I'm so sorry for your loss. 
  

  7 mm/c
  APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
  bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
  bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
  bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
  bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
  bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
  bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
  one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
  ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
  

  bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14
  
  

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• JenniferS2004 member

  January 2014

  So sorry! Thoughts and prayers for you.

  

  D&C 10.01.13

  BFP 01.06.14

   

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• Heeb918 member

  January 2014

  I'm so so sorry Ras.

  
  
  
   
  Married 9/18/10
  TTC 1/1/12
  BFP #1 12/13/12 MMC Confirmed 1/30/13
  BFP #2 6/17/13, (Clomid+Ovidrel) CP Confirmed 6/26/13
  BFP #3 8/14/2013 (Letrozole+IUI) Charlie Grace born 5/2/2014

  
  

  Laparoscopic surgery 8/15 to remove misplaced IUD

  BFP #4, #5, #6  (Letrozole+IUI)all MMC, BFP #7 EDD 1/3/2017

  
  

  
  

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