Not sure if this has been posted yet but I thought I would share...
I am a FTM and I am having self esteem issues because I am 17w1day and I have gained about 17lbs. I no longer have a thyroid due to stage two cancer. Managing the thyroid condition and the cancer stuff on top of being pregnant has been a struggle and the weight and changes to my body have been hard. I now have love handles, a fading waist and a belly that looks like I have been sitting at the buffet to long rather then the beautiful round belly I have been dreaming of. The blog above reminded me that this body is my baby's home right now. I am growing a person and I will have the rest of my life to get rid of love handles, etc. But if I don't, its not the end of the world because I will have made a human! What a miracle! I need and need to continue to remind myself that my body has been through so much with the thyroid and cancer stuff and now the pregnancy. I need to relax, breathe and enjoy this ride because is wont last forever and I will surely miss it when its over.
Just wanted to post this in case anyone else is feeling the same way. Best wishes to all.
Started Dating 08/15/2006
Got Engaged 12/11/2009
Married 09/4/2011
Started TTC 09/2013
BFP 10/13/2013
EDD 06/22/2014


Re: Ruined Bodies?
Very nice article, it's been posted a few times in the last couple of weeks as well
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12223817/babies-ruin-bodies
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12215828/babies-ruin-bodies-an-ode-to-my-postpartum-body