June 2014 Moms

Ruined Bodies?

Not sure if this has been posted yet but I thought I would share...

I am a FTM and I am having self esteem issues because I am 17w1day and I have gained about 17lbs.  I no longer have a thyroid due to stage two cancer.  Managing the thyroid condition and the cancer stuff on top of being pregnant has been a struggle and the weight and changes to my body have been hard.  I now have love handles, a fading waist and a belly that looks like I have been sitting at the buffet to long rather then the beautiful round belly I have been dreaming of.  The blog above reminded me that this body is my baby's home right now.  I am growing a person and I will have the rest of my life to get rid of love handles, etc.  But if I don't, its not the end of the world because I will have made a human!  What a miracle!  I need and need to continue to remind myself that my body has been through so much with the thyroid and cancer stuff and now the pregnancy.  I need to relax, breathe and enjoy this ride because is wont last forever and I will surely miss it when its over.

Just wanted to post this in case anyone else is feeling the same way.  Best wishes to all.
Started Dating 08/15/2006 
Got Engaged 12/11/2009 
Married 09/4/2011
Started TTC  09/2013
BFP 10/13/2013
EDD 06/22/2014



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