I think it is perfectly fine to ask in a cute or thoughtful way. Just because your doing it in a creative way doesn't mean that you aren't seriously thinking about them being the ones to raise your child if god forbid anything were to happen. PP I think you need to chill.
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Since we can't agree on who will be the godfather, my brother or his, we cannot officially ask anyone. Although I'm kinda pissed that he already told his brother that he's going to be the godfather. He now says that he can't tell him he's not the godfather but I told him he should've never told him he was. His brother is completely irresponsible and cannot take care if himself. He is 27, lives at home, doesn't work and his behavior and mood is unpredictable. I wouldn't even feel safe leaving the baby alone with him. There's no way he's going to be godfather. My brother supports himself, has a good job and owns his own home. I'd feel completely at ease leaving my baby alone with him. This should be a no brainer...