How often do you do the "deed?"

Re: How often do you do the "deed?"

• Chapter79 member

  January 2014

  Less than 3x a month right now. Maybe twice a month, 3 times at the most.
  
  BLAH.
  
  Previous to my lack of sex drive issue, maybe twice a week.
  
  I'm broke.
  

  E+C

  (+ hers and his, ages 13 & 8)

  TTC
  

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• JackoftheBox member

  January 2014

  I have to limit DH or it would be EVERY night. Ain't nobody got time for that!! 

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• JackoftheBox member

  January 2014

  OhBenji said:

  jkep5909 said:

  See my comment in the fffc...:(

  
  You guys should make a "schedule". Make a time each week or month when to have sex and just do it.

  
  ) Then reward yourself for the job well done!! 

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• Moosesoar member

  January 2014

  I have a 4 month old who doesn't sleep... ain't getting any action up in here!
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• Chapter79 member

  January 2014

  OhBenji said:

  JackoftheBox said:

  OhBenji said:

  jkep5909 said:

  See my comment in the fffc...:(

  
  You guys should make a "schedule". Make a time each week or month when to have sex and just do it.

  
  ) Then reward yourself for the job well done!! 

  
  And the reward is more sex!

  You're crazy! I want brownies.
  

  E+C

  (+ hers and his, ages 13 & 8)

  TTC
  

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• JackoftheBox member

  January 2014

  OhBenji said:

  Brownies sound so good. Moist brownies.

  

  EWW I loathe the word moist.

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• PB102012 member

  January 2014

  I have the worst drive EVER, so these days DH initiates it. I am just glad it doesn't hurt anymore. After having LO I was terrified of DTD!

   

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• KatieB19 member

  January 2014

  We have sex at least once a week. My sex drive sucks, except when I'm ovulating (super cruel for an OADer). We actually did have a schedule for a while, because I would forget when it was that we had sex and just always shoot dh down because I'm never in the mood.

  
  

  But the schedule seriously depressed dh who was all "why can't it be spontaneous???" He also doesn't like being the one to initiate all the time, so it's become an exercise in memory to recall the last time we had sex and whether I should make the effort to get the ball rolling.

  
  

  If it were up to him, we'd be doing it every day.

  
  

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• bridetobemo member

  January 2014

  1-2 times a week, my sex drive is shot since bsby girl came along

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• amie444 member

  January 2014

  I have a 7.5 month old tbat refuses to sleep in her crib. ( she has been in that thing since 3 weeks too). So not much 'whoopie' is happening at my house

    

   

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• bloverde member

  January 2014

  I'm way too tired for it between being a resident and LO's issues. Also, it honestly doesn't feel as good as before LO. It's not as enjoyable. Maybe that will get better when I wean?

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