PS. If I had a post-it, I would never post it on the actual board... I feel like letting the crazies know that I think they're crazy isn't smart considering what these google masters can figure out about me.
I didn't have a major problem with the way this post was started necessarily but more with the reaction. Why is it so hard for people to realize what they did, own it, and sincerely apology?
Sherita, I think the biggest problem is where you updated the thread title by taking offense instead of trying to be empathetic with where people were coming from and then your apology did not come off as such, however you intended it.
When you updated the title, you made it pretty enticing to open it and read it, hence me seeing this post- your second title really didn't contain any warning. C'mon. And if you're sad to be called a troll, then don't act like one. A troll would have no common sense to know a board of expectant parents wouldn't want a link to a dead baby story esp when it seemed to be put there without warning- lucky I got here after that. How do you expect ppl to react? Actually correction, a troll would get off and be offended and continue to fight ppl when they told said troll to lay off. So yes, you've made yourself into a troll. Congrats. PS when did you apologize, I don't even remember reading one? That post everyone is eluding to was no apology. Grow a pair and own up to what you did or accept what ppl have to say about it. Or shall we all agree to love you because you enjoying sharing dead baby stories?
Edited to add: didn't you say you were outta here? oh the DRAMA.
I'm not sure how I'm suppose to take wishes that I miscarry because I'd be a horrible parent.
I am truly deeply sorry if I hurt someone with a loss because that was not my intent!
If I could take it away I would! I've own my mistakes. I'm sorry if my apology wasn't to others liking. But I am sorry. Y'all have labeled me crazy... And I've been called names but I'm just suppose to take all that as my punishment...
I'm not sure how I'm suppose to take wishes that I miscarry because I'd be a horrible parent.
I am truly deeply sorry if I hurt someone with a loss because that was not my intent!
If I could take it away I would! I've own my mistakes. I'm sorry if my apology wasn't to others liking. But I am sorry. Y'all have labeled me crazy... And I've been called names but I'm just suppose to take all that as my punishment...
I don't have to prove nothin to no one. I don't care if you don't believe me. The punishment crew will continue to whoop me until I have no recourse but to leave. I really am sorry
The miscarriage thing is out of line if true. We can't do anything about that poster. They would have been flamed if they had posted it on here, trust me.
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I admit that as a former foster parent I may have become a bit hardened. I admit I've made mistakes on this board before.
I sorry for taking the PM out on the group as a whole. I also feel the meanness of some on this thread was not needed. I have never been pregnant & I'm impulsive & never thought ahead. I am sorry.
Posting that you wish someone would m/c or die, or etc. is beyond the lines, and I don't think anybody would let that person feel welcome ever again (I'd put that on a public post-it). It's a line you don't cross, no matter what you think about the person.
Seriously. I'd love to know who said that to you so that we could get them banned. That's horrific.
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I don't have to prove nothin to no one. I don't care if you don't believe me. The punishment crew will continue to whoop me until I have no recourse but to leave. I really am sorry
I am literally shoving my index finger down my throat. Could you be any more of a drama queen?
Ugh, I'm done giving you the attention you so desperately crave. Grow up, you are going to be someone's Mother soon.
I've been a mother for over 12 years! I'm not looking for attention... I don't know how many times I can say I'm sorry...
I miss all the fun. Side note: Post-it thread needs to happen. Each post within the thread should include screenname and link to offending post-it worthy post.
I think calling out specific names is against TOS. But nobody says we can't have a "remember this thread" post so that people could make their own post its ...
I miss all the fun. Side note: Post-it thread needs to happen. Each post within the thread should include screenname and link to offending post-it worthy post.
I think calling out specific names is against TOS. But nobody says we can't have a "remember this thread" post so that people could make their own post its ...
I don't think this is a good idea. On TK this happened, the BSC in question threw hissy fits, and it became a TOS violation to link threads at all. Same gods over here...
Plain chicken = chick fil a Spicy chicken = Wendy's
Frosty is better than chick fil a' scrap ice dream any day
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I mean, do people who wind up on the post-it stick around? I feel like anyone who's been on my BSC list also did a big, dramatic GBCB. Am I wrong? Do they come back??
And props to @biglewzer for starting the food porn portion of this particular BSC thread. Thanks, yo.
Plain chicken = chick fil a Spicy chicken = Wendy's
Frosty is better than chick fil a' scrap ice dream any day
I'll take a spicy chicken from Wendy's and an m & mcflurry from McDonald's.
I love McD's vanilla ice cream!
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I mean, do people who wind up on the post-it stick around? I feel like anyone who's been on my BSC list also did a big, dramatic GBCB. Am I wrong? Do they come back??
And props to @biglewzer for starting the food porn portion of this particular BSC thread. Thanks, yo.
they OFTEN come back. Or play it off really well and in a few weeks most of the not-so-mean posters have forgotten the offense.
Huh. Well...terrifying. I didn't realize keeping a written list would be important!
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Sherita, I think the biggest problem is where you updated the thread title by taking offense instead of trying to be empathetic with where people were coming from and then your apology did not come off as such, however you intended it.
PS when did you apologize, I don't even remember reading one? That post everyone is eluding to was no apology. Grow a pair and own up to what you did or accept what ppl have to say about it. Or shall we all agree to love you because you enjoying sharing dead baby stories?
Edited to add: didn't you say you were outta here? oh the DRAMA.
I am truly deeply sorry if I hurt someone with a loss because that was not my intent!
If I could take it away I would! I've own my mistakes. I'm sorry if my apology wasn't to others liking. But I am sorry. Y'all have labeled me crazy... And I've been called names but I'm just suppose to take all that as my punishment...
Screenshot or it didn't happen.
I sorry for taking the PM out on the group as a whole. I also feel the meanness of some on this thread was not needed. I have never been pregnant & I'm impulsive & never thought ahead. I am sorry.
And OP it totally wouldn't ever ever fly if someone wished you a miscarriage. I find that hard to believe.
But LOL at everyone else being judgemental and brutal.
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Thanks!!
Spicy chicken = Wendy's
Frosty is better than chick fil a' scrap ice dream any day
And props to @biglewzer for starting the food porn portion of this particular BSC thread. Thanks, yo.
B-)
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BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
Huh. Well...terrifying. I didn't realize keeping a written list would be important!