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Beary+Ghastly

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Re: Beary+Ghastly

  • KellenHi21KellenHi21 member
    CL8badB said:

    Who are the stupid ass little girls?
    Who are the bandwagoners?
    I thought we were over vague talk.
    I hope im not in either group.

    Lol! @cl8badb this made me lol (in a good way) cAn someone insert a gif of someone's head spinning or something??! :x (and no, you're not in either group IMO)

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  • CindyRelluhCindyRelluh member
    edited January 2014
    The point is, any time there is a post like this one, where you would expect women to act like adults and not blatantly bully someone, people jump in because they don't want to be against the grain and defend the person and get flamed, because everyone else is hating. Let me clarify for those who are unclear: In my posts I never said I think everyone does it, I said "some". Do I agree that some just genuinely share the same opinion? Yes. Do I think some just jump in and agree because they either don't want to stir the pot or are afraid to get flamed for a difference of opinion? Absolutely.

    Do I want everyone to have their own opinion? Of course.

    I can tell you though, that at this very moment I am not the only one who thinks a lot of girls agree with everything because they just are too afraid to say what they actually feel. Those people know who they are, and can speak up or not. Normally there are only a couple girls who will speak up and be like, "really dude?"


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  • CindyRelluhCindyRelluh member
    JANCANDANCE said:

    I think the "feel" of the board is one person speaks and everyone just agrees with what is popular. It isn't a bad thing or a good thing. I just think people don't always "speak" for themselves. So they jump on the popular topic for the day...oh we are doing a call out, it is a troll, oh we hate that person. I don't think people always feel that way they just go with the "thing" to do. Who really gives a fuck about a chic from another board who reinvents herself here. I don't and I'm sure many people feel the same but they don't want to ruffle feathers.


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  • KellenHi21KellenHi21 member
    Does no one remember my UO this week?!?

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  • CindyRelluhCindyRelluh member
    Good, I'm getting carpal tunnel. I'll be waiting for a S/O.
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  • SilverEFSilverEF member
    @Beary+Ghastly I apologize for saying you should be removed.  I said that before reading all the words.  I saw what other people typed that they are creeped out and suggested it.  
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  • BC&LMBC&LM member
    edited January 2014
    nykkolaughs said:

    @cindyrelluh to me, it just seems presumptuous to say the only reason people shared an opposing point of view is because they thought it was cool. I would like to think they read the evidence and it offended them, made them uneasy.... Whatever. I was using your likes as an example. I also don't assume people are jumping on a bandwagon because they feel the same way as you. We are all (mostly) adults and allowed to have differing opinions on a situation and still get along.

    I was trying to think of a way to say this, but couldn't. But you said it perfectly!

    ETA: Just saw @elmoali's post; sorry, I wouldn't have added another post if I had seen that you asked us to let the post die. :-)
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  • CindyRelluhCindyRelluh member
    Again, read all the words. I said I think some do and some don't. FFS do i need to spell it?
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