I expected more of a return on the time I invested reading this. ::yawn::
Exchange peeps aside, if she hasn't said or done anything to you (the collective you), then why are we trying to run her out of town on a rail? Anyone?
Uh, I'm glad I removed you. Your siggy on Raw says that C was born in May...but you told us she was born 6/20...
I NEVER said 6/20. I said 6/2013. You read wrong. And I was due with her in June.
Still...she wasn't actually born in June, huh?
I'm sure many women here change names and numbers so they aren't recognized by friends. I don't have to put my DD's exact birth date on here.
I didn't really have an opinion on this whole thing until you made this ^^^ statement. You have pictures of your baby on here, you have a family photo in the siggy of your old name but you are hiding from family and friends? That just doesn't make any sense.
I understand that you couldn't change your name again and go back to the may board but I don't understand why you are still just saying things to defend not being honest with us.
Its simple. You couldn't rejoin May and if you came to the June board and said "the May board hates me so I want to hang here" we would've all side eyed you and we wouldn't have given you the benefit of the* doubt. I believe that that's all that it really was. Just apologize and then take a break for a while. You didn't do anything super crazy.
I was just trying to start fresh. I really didn't want to explain myself because I didn't want more crap to start, but it looks like it has. Again, I apologize, and still want to be part of this board. For the time being i'll lay low.
Late to this party, but as an expert on bump redemption I feel I should give my opinion. Or I just want to.
You should've layed low and then come back under your original SN. Yeah you made a mistake, but at least own it and don't try to hide under a new name. If it's that important for you to be a member of this forum and gain respect and support (understandable because this board rocks), then stop telling white lies, switching SNs, bouncing to different boards, and getting caught. FWIW, I think you deserve a fresh start on the boards, but you're not helping your case by bad mouthing other boards (especially your own BMB) and throwing the bully word around.
I was going to tag you in this, Beary, but I wasn't sure which sn to tag. See the problem?
edit: i'm just bummed I can't be a part of the secret santa. I have nothing to hide. I had my real name and address on there. I did explain myself. And i'm sorry if I came off as shady, or untruthful. I apologize @nachellebeck. I came here for asylum, and to start fresh.
Beary+Ghastly, not all the May moms harbor ill will towards you but I hope you will at least see how you are creating problems for yourself with the little white lies. Being totally honest can be humbling but it can also be a rewarding path and the bump is actually a good place to practice honesty because you really don't have much to lose here.
Beary+Ghastly, not all the May moms harbor ill will towards you but I hope you will at least see how you are creating problems for yourself with the little white lies. Being totally honest can be humbling but it can also be a rewarding path and the bump is actually a good place to practice honesty because you really don't have much to lose here.
I'm sorry. I own up to my shadyness, untruthfulness and advertising multiple times (and lieing about it). And the whole go f yourself and pussy eat.
I'm for a second chance. Beary, just be cool. Tell the truth, be helpful, laugh with us even if it's at your own expense, don't get defensive, have fun. Blah blah blah.
This is ridiculous. Stop jumping on the fucking bandwagon, and leave her alone. FFS she has not done anything to us here, so let it be. @beary+ghastly I agree with @fordfalcor@elmoali and @zigspective lay low. Not all of us are bandwagonners. If that's even a word.
A second chance? She has never DONE anything to us. She doesn't need a second chance to prove she's something she never was to us. That's fine, I may be late, but I don't care.
Ok, in terms of the elf thing: I thought the exchange was being done by the (collective) board? And no offense, @nachellebeck, but I don't think you can just remove her. All of you could be fat bald men and I'd never know it. This is the internet. Everyone involved in the exchange knows that risk going in... join or don't, but I don't think anyone should be kicked out of it... especially without the whole boards support.
FYI - I do think the whole thing was a bit shady (without reading all the words) and should have just been said up front, then it probably wouldn't have been a huge deal. HOWEVER, it didn't happen that way, so here we are... moving on...
Eta it makes me sad that because of some old shit, not on our board, brought out by some bored girls wanting to stir shit up, that her lo won't get a gift. It also makes me sad that most of you are so quick to jump on someone because it seems like the cool thing to do. At least there are a few of us who are our own person.
This isnt the first time that people have jumped on the bandwagon. It happens a lot.
People even come out of the woodwork to jump on the bandwagon.
Most of us have agreed to just let it go.
Should we make a poll about the gift exchange or just add her back in? I just dont want to hurt her feelings if she gets a bunch of "No's".
I say just let her back in. Kellens right. We can all be dirty old men. Who would know?
As long as the dirty old men are sending great gifts...
I don't know who the fuck anyone is calling some people "band wagoners." But I agree with common fucking sense here. I suggest some stupid ass little girls get some...
The point of the post, @nykkolaughs was to those out there that only go with what others say. Where in there did I say people had to share MY opinion, or that anything even had to do with you? Read all the words. I'm clearly saying I think it's lame when people DONT have their own opinion. I didn't even say "everyone". I said some are bandwagonners, because they are. I also think it's not always about you.
@catalinapink Funny, I knew myself and a few others couldn't have been the only ones who noticed.
The point of the post, @nykkolaughs was to those out there that only go with what others say. Where in there did I say people had to share MY opinion, or that anything even had to do with you? Read all the words. I'm clearly saying I think it's lame when people DONT have their own opinion. I didn't even say "everyone". I said some are bandwagonners, because they are. I also think it's not always about you.
Re: Beary+Ghastly
Exchange peeps aside, if she hasn't said or done anything to you (the collective you), then why are we trying to run her out of town on a rail? Anyone?
@Beary+Ghastly Lay lowwwww. That is all.
#Bodymber14 #Bodygate #itsMillerTime
Bradley 05-04-11 & Tyler 06-18-13
You should've layed low and then come back under your original SN. Yeah you made a mistake, but at least own it and don't try to hide under a new name. If it's that important for you to be a member of this forum and gain respect and support (understandable because this board rocks), then stop telling white lies, switching SNs, bouncing to different boards, and getting caught. FWIW, I think you deserve a fresh start on the boards, but you're not helping your case by bad mouthing other boards (especially your own BMB) and throwing the bully word around.
I was going to tag you in this, Beary, but I wasn't sure which sn to tag. See the problem?
#Bodymber14 #Bodygate #itsMillerTime
Bradley 05-04-11 & Tyler 06-18-13
::rides off into the sunset on her white horse::
TTC since 03/2011
BFP#1 spontaneous conception! 4/28/12 natural MC on 5/9/12
IUI#1 with clomid and trigger on 9/12/12
BFP#2 on 9/26/12 EDD 6/5/13
Beta #1 143 14dpo Beta #2 343 16dpo Beta #3 920 18dpo
Please, Please, Please stick baby!
Baby Mackenzie born 5/28/2013!
/ded
Eta it makes me sad that because of some old shit, not on our board, brought out by some bored girls wanting to stir shit up, that her lo won't get a gift. It also makes me sad that most of you are so quick to jump on someone because it seems like the cool thing to do. At least there are a few of us who are our own person.
ME!!! Wait, how many seasons are there? I watched the first 2 seasons on Netflix - am I caught up?
@murphie82 Agreed.
wow i'll be her partner if people can't act like adults....
TTC since 03/2011
BFP#1 spontaneous conception! 4/28/12 natural MC on 5/9/12
IUI#1 with clomid and trigger on 9/12/12
BFP#2 on 9/26/12 EDD 6/5/13
Beta #1 143 14dpo Beta #2 343 16dpo Beta #3 920 18dpo
Please, Please, Please stick baby!
Baby Mackenzie born 5/28/2013!
@catalinapink Funny, I knew myself and a few others couldn't have been the only ones who noticed.