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May 2014 Moms
Jessicaconnella
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Jessicaconnella
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My Hooligans.....Samuel Brice-Fritzgerald (6/30/10) and Payton Elizabeth (7/23/08)
FEB SIGGY CHALLENGE
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I don't fear "ruining" my body. I fear the changes that will happen to it, but i hate when people say the word "ruined" in reference to a woman's body. as if it's only good if it looks good, and when it doesn't it's "ruined". Ruined for who? ruined for what?
ETA: Also what @empireceo said. I feel like I'm reading a teenager's diary entry.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
And just because I hate my stretch marks and miss my prebaby body doesn't mean that I don't appreciate being able to have children and the amazing thing that having them is.
The changes make me nervous, too. Thinking about my body potentially never being the same again makes me wish I'd appreciated the body I already had more, and taken better care of it in the past. Not that I didn't try to be healthy in general, but I certainly could have done better. The fact that that time has passed now and it's never coming back does make me a little sad.
I wasn't commenting on the bloggers age as I didn't even know how old she was. I was commenting on YOUR posts in the OP. You said: "I am 23 and...I kept saying 'I'm too young to ruin my body already.'" The implication of saying "I'm 23. I'm too young to ruin my body already" is that it is okay for us old farts to ruin our bodies because, hell, they are old and nasty anyway. I will give you the benefit of the doubt that you didn't mean it that way, but just letting you know that is how some might interpret the post.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
Yes, it is incredible that there is a little person growing inside of me and that my husband and I made that person but it doesn't change the fact that I really wish my genetics allowed me to do that without stretch marks. Although I'm personally not having a completely terrible time adjusting to my new body, I feel like it shames women who are having trouble getting used to the massive changes they are going through.
@Jessicaconnella
Woooah, Nelly. You are not under so much scrutiny. Nobody cares how old you are. And nobody is being rude to you. You did not call anyone old and nasty directly, but making statements like "I'm 23. I'm too young for my body to be ruined" makes it seem like you think that you think that at a certain age it doesn't matter if your body is ruined. Some of us were merely making a point about how your statement could be misinterpreted. Perhaps a better reply by you might be, "Thank you for pointing out to me because I didn't mean it that way."
Also, if Jessica Connella or Jessica C. Onnella or something similar is your real name, you might want to consider revising your siggy. Again, not flaming. It isn't the safest thing in the world to have your real name as your sig name on a public chat forum that thousands of people frequent.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
That link was all over my Facebook feed. Didn't click it, probably won't haha
It really wasn't the blog as much as her posts. I don't feel like anyone made that big of a deal out of it, but then the OP made several posts about how mean we all were and we should all just be supporting one another.
There is a post on first tri with a link.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
Putting a "delete" or "." as the thread title is like titling your thread: "Read me" or "Click in."
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
It’s not that I don’t like you, it’s that I don’t know you. Stranger Danger.