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Re: (Re)-Intro for 3rd time ((***warning: BFP and loss mentioned**))

  • jap618jap618 member
    I hate this :(  (((hugs))) I'm so sorry hun.  I'm glad you have a plan to meet with a new RE and I hope this one makes you feel more comfortable ((hugs)) 
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
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  • katib77katib77 member
    I'm so sorry you had another loss Eliz. But yes, from what you say about your old RE it was time to find a new one. My RE called me from medical leave the night of my loss. I'm greatful for his personal attention (including answering an email on NYD when the office was closed.) I hope you consult goes very well.

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
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  • lincoln79lincoln79 member
    I am so sorry for your losses. 
    TTC #1 since 12/2010 DH: MFI, cancer survivor Me: Resected septate uterus, lap treated mild endo, tubes open, ovulate on own, autoimmune disease 3 Failed IUI's (2/2012, 4/2012, 6/2012) 
    IVF #1 August 2012. BFP! Beta #1 56.7 Beta #2 150 One baby, one heartbeat on 9/20/12! no h/b @7w6d. dandc @8w0d, 
    FET #1 December 2012, BFN
    FET #2 February 2013, no embies survived thaw
    IVF #2, BFP #2, Loss #2 March 2013, Scar tissue discovered, RPL testing,
    IVF #3, BFP #3, Loss #3 (twins) September 2013
    Hostile ute, moving onto Gestational Carrier!

    GC/FET #1 of 1 5AA blast and 1 compacted blast, February 2014, BFP #4 on 3/1/2014!
    6w u/s 1 bean with h/b of 145 bpm, 8w u/s 187 bpm
    EDD 11/7/14. Please, please, please stick little one!

    Praying unceasingly for a miracle. ALL welcome!

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here again. Hopefully the new RE will be a perfect match for you and your DH. (((Hugs)))
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm so very sorry to see you back here!  I hope that you are able to get in to see a new RE soon and don't kick yourself for staying there for 5 months.  Once you get in to see a new doc it's hard to accept the fact that they aren't helping you and that it's time to search for someone else.  (((HUGS))) sweetie!
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • libby+natelibby+nate member
    I hate to see you have to come back. Words cannot even explain, I'm just so sorry for you. Hoping your new plan in the new year brings you all that you hope for!
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  • Eliz77Eliz77 member
    edited January 2014
    katib77 said:
    I'm so sorry you had another loss Eliz. But yes, from what you say about your old RE it was time to find a new one. My RE called me from medical leave the night of my loss. I'm greatful for his personal attention (including answering an email on NYD when the office was closed.) I hope you consult goes very well.
    @katib77 I emailed one RE and she did respond quickly, but she is on maternity leave and really couldn't advise me. She is also at the office over an hour from me so would not have been my regular RE anyway. I met her because she did my HSG (and went over all blood work results) because the office closest to me doesn't do. Even so, I am hurt that no one called me following the u/s. I only got emails stating when I should go in for next beta draw and then what the result was. Just so cold and impersonal. 

    ~ES~

    ~*~EVERYONE always welcome!!~*~
    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


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  • Eliz77Eliz77 member
    Fightersince83 said:
    I had an EP and it felt like intermittent stabbing pain on my left side. Progressed to sharp shooting pain from my pelvis upwards and lots of back pain. The only way they can spot it is with a trans-vag u/s so unless they did this you still may have one. I had to go to the ER to have mine found. Go sooner rather than later, no sense in risking your tube. If it's still small they can give you a shot vs. surgery.
    I already had an EP back in May and had surgery for ruptured tube. My question had to do with pain after the fact. Thanks though! 

    ~ES~

    ~*~EVERYONE always welcome!!~*~
    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


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