That's the thing. There IS a fb page. It's created and active. And judging by the dozens of requests there are people who are ready now. People who aren't and want a different fb group later are totally fine. I got no issue, so I don't see why they have issue with this.
Great...can you stop recruiting now? Can we let it die?
ETA: we said we want to be in a group with active bumpies, that is not your FB group. It will not be the end of the world if another group is created later with people we have actually gotten to know.
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Formerly dlsexton
BFP #1 Dec 2010 ~ Blighted Ovum Jan 2011 @ 11wks D&C Jan '11 & Mar '11
BFP #2 July 2011 ~ Miss Amelia born 3/30/12 @ 41 weeks!
BFP #3 July 2013 ~ M/C Aug 2013 @ 5.5 weeks
BFP #4 Oct 2013 ~ Miss Lydia born 6/3/14 @ 36 weeks!
Holy crap. I didn't realize I wasn't an active member of the board. I have posted, commented, and been part of the chat group before. I am sorry I don't qualify in your minds.
Me either!!! I post and reply to lots of posts on July 2014 and I am active on the facebook group.
March 2013: First TTC trip to RE, On 1500 mg Metformin, April 2013: PCOS and Endometriosis, May 2013: DH Low volume; Femara 7.5 mg + IUI #1 = BFN, July 2013: Femara 7.5 mg + IUI #2 = BFN, August 2013: Femara 7.5 mg (X5) + Bravelle (X7) + Ovidrel + IUI #3 + Endometrin = BFP MC at 5w3d, October 2013: Follistim (X14) + Ovidrel + IUI #4 + Endometrin =BFP!!!
I have said I would delete this. People keep coming on here telling me or everyone else their opinion of all of this. You can also stop opening it if you want.
@jessa8907 I have said moving forward I will do that. @dlsexton wasn't aware. Never had the nee and I usually avoid the crazy mud posts people usually want deleted or dead.
Anyone else want me to research their internet privacy? Come on....anyone want to argue with me over how creepsters won't find out their info? Anyone? Anyone?
biglewzer - I'm glad you and google had some fun finding info about me. Like i said in a previous post, i share what i'm willing to share. If i don't want to share it, i well, you know- don't share it.
So i really don't understand where your happy dance is coming from finding info on me. I shared it.
but, i'll play along.
Your maiden name is MH. married MP. Your husband, GP. Daughter, PP.
You hubby where's a uniform. You work at a company that starts with @.
I respect you enough that i wont share more. I can continue, but i won't. Point is, i never ever denied that information can't be found online. BUT i was able to get all that on YOU and you're not even on our facebook group.
there's no privacy when it comes to the internet.
And if you would like to know how i got your info, PM me. I'm more than happy to tell you what led me there. anonymity is important to you, so im more than happy to tell you how i got it all so you can prevent anyone else from going forward.
Though, i like to think i'm sorta smart. Maybe noone else is that savvy enough to get it...
beside you. Since we BOTH seem to be pretty good detectives today.
"Hope is when we feel the pain that makes us try again."
biglewzer - I'm glad you and google had some fun finding info about me. Like i said in a previous post, i share what i'm willing to share. If i don't want to share it, i well, you know- don't share it.
So i really don't understand where your happy dance is coming from finding info on me. I shared it.
but, i'll play along.
[edited, posting personal info is against the TOU]
I respect you enough that i wont share more. I can continue, but i won't. Point is, i never ever denied that information can't be found online. BUT i was able to get all that on YOU and you're not even on our facebook group.
there's no privacy when it comes to the internet.
And if you would like to know how i got your info, PM me. I'm more than happy to tell you what led me there. anonymity is important to you, so im more than happy to tell you how i got it all so you can prevent anyone else from going forward.
Though, i like to think i'm sorta smart. Maybe noone else is that savvy enough to get it...
beside you. Since we BOTH
seem to be pretty good detectives today.
Pretty sure you could've just PMed this to biglewzer rather than posting for all of us to see, this is exactly why I want nothing to do with the FB group. Please do me a favor and keep all of my initials off the bump. I have an anonymous name and pic for a reason.
I don't care about a FB group - I stopped by to see what the drama was about.
What I don't get is why people who "aren't ready" to join a FB group don't just ignore this post? You have legitimate reasons for not wanting to. Let people who ARE interested seek it out. They have legitimate reasons too. But, it's the same vocal people who have to be snarky and tell OP to stop posting. Why can't the other side just stop reading posts that don't interest them?
I know this will likely put me on a post it somewhere, but I honestly just don't get why there needs to be the negative responses. If you don't want to join a FB just don't read the post. To me, that seems fairly simple. There's no need to make those who do want the group feel like they are wrong just because they don't agree.
So... for everyone who's still paying attention.... THis person, who just posted all this info about a stranger, did so on a public forum... and just think... she actually has access to your real names without even trying. Makes a girl feel 100% safe, don't you think??
Pretty sure you could've just PMed this to biglewzer rather than posting for all of us to see, this is exactly why I want nothing to do with the FB group. Please do me a favor and keep all of my initials off the bump. I have an anonymous name and pic for a reason.
Sure could have. But since i was RESPONDING to her Google Quest on ME, i didn't feel like it.
You also could of responded without copying the entire post. But you didnt.
Tsk tsk. And your initials are BBB. Sorry i outed you. Hope that doesnt get you into too much trouble now.
"Hope is when we feel the pain that makes us try again."
Pretty sure you could've just PMed this to biglewzer rather than posting for all of us to see, this is exactly why I want nothing to do with the FB group. Please do me a favor and keep all of my initials off the bump. I have an anonymous name and pic for a reason.
Sure could have. But since i was RESPONDING to her Google Quest on ME, i didn't feel like it.
You also could of responded without copying the entire post. But you didnt.
Tsk tsk. And your initials are BBB. Sorry i outed you. Hope that doesnt get you into too much trouble now.
Everyone I've seen saying they want to be part this FB group, I've never seen them post. I would not want to be in a group with someone I've never talked to.
I'm on a PGAL board on FB. I went to TTCAL, PGAL, and PAL with them. I've met my best friends on that group but it took us that long to get a group going on FB and we knew each other for years.
I'm sorry that happened. Just FYI you can block the group from seeing all but your profile photos and any personal info besides your name.
I was wondering if down the line I was to join one how much info they would have access to. Name doesn't bother me so much since it's very common but pictures, location, etc I'd rather not if possible.
Pretty sure you could've just PMed this to biglewzer rather than posting for all of us to see, this is exactly why I want nothing to do with the FB group. Please do me a favor and keep all of my initials off the bump. I have an anonymous name and pic for a reason.
Sure could have. But since i was RESPONDING to her Google Quest on ME, i didn't feel like it.
You also could of responded without copying the entire post. But you didnt.
Tsk tsk. And your initials are BBB. Sorry i outed you. Hope that doesnt get you into too much trouble now.
You're a bit creepy.
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Formerly dlsexton
BFP #1 Dec 2010 ~ Blighted Ovum Jan 2011 @ 11wks D&C Jan '11 & Mar '11
BFP #2 July 2011 ~ Miss Amelia born 3/30/12 @ 41 weeks!
BFP #3 July 2013 ~ M/C Aug 2013 @ 5.5 weeks
BFP #4 Oct 2013 ~ Miss Lydia born 6/3/14 @ 36 weeks!
Everyone I've seen saying they want to be part this FB group, I've never seen them post. I would not want to be in a group with someone I've never talked to.
I'm on a PGAL board on FB. I went to TTCAL, PGAL, and PAL with them. I've met my best friends on that group but it took us that long to get a group going on FB and we knew each other for years.
@allardr if your profile is private and you don't friend someone, they wouldn't have access to your pics just because of a fb group. Btw, not trying to recruit you, just if you wanted to join the future group......;)
After looking back at all of your posts and running some numbers, use my sun dial skills and enter everything I calculate into the googles, I can pretty much conclude with 100% certainty that your husband wears jeans. Be afraid. I'll share my googly skills with you if you PM me, I'd hate to give my skills away.
I'm sorry that happened. Just FYI you can block the group from seeing all but your profile photos and any personal info besides your name.
I was wondering if down the line I was to join one how much info they would have access to. Name doesn't bother me so much since it's very common but pictures, location, etc I'd rather not if possible.
if you go into FB, go to your privacy settings, timeline and tagging, then there's this link on the right that says "
Who can see things on my timeline?"
there's a link that they let you click so you can see what your fb looks like to people who arent your friends.
if you see your location and stuff, you'll have to change that in your settings.
I believe the only picture that you cannot make private is your cover photo- all other pictures can be private.
hope that helps!
"Hope is when we feel the pain that makes us try again."
Well, like I said, if the post needs to be deleted, fine by me. I hope no one will hold it against me that I also enjoy fb moving forward. If so, that's lame but at least I have my fb group? Kidding! Too soon for a joke?
After looking back at all of your posts and running some numbers, use my sun dial skills and enter everything I calculate into the googles, I can pretty much conclude with 100% certainty that your husband wears jeans. Be afraid. I'll share my googly skills with you if you PM me, I'd hate to give my skills away.
That is super creepy. Doesn't this violate TB board rules? I think this thread should be deleted.
I'm totally ok with whoever joining the current FB group if they want to. Truth be told, if they are a lurker here I don't think they are going to be allowed into any group that is made later down the road, so I'm for them finding a FB home where possible.
ETA: lurker or BSC -- this post it's will pay off.
Re: Fb group
ETA: we said we want to be in a group with active bumpies, that is not your FB group. It will not be the end of the world if another group is created later with people we have actually gotten to know.
March 2013: First TTC trip to RE, On 1500 mg Metformin, April 2013: PCOS and Endometriosis, May 2013: DH Low volume; Femara 7.5 mg + IUI #1 = BFN, July 2013: Femara 7.5 mg + IUI #2 = BFN, August 2013: Femara 7.5 mg (X5) + Bravelle (X7) + Ovidrel + IUI #3 + Endometrin = BFP MC at 5w3d,
October 2013: Follistim (X14) + Ovidrel + IUI #4 + Endometrin =BFP!!!
Baby O born 7/17/12
Baby3 due 8/4/16
Baby O born 7/17/12
Baby3 due 8/4/16
DD born 7.27.2014
BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
DH:34 - Me: 33
Emmaline Winifred - 1.25.2013
Wesley Daniel - 7.24.2014
#3 EDD - 6.24.2018
So i really don't understand where your happy dance is coming from finding info on me. I shared it.
there's no privacy when it comes to the internet.
Though, i like to think i'm sorta smart.
What I don't get is why people who "aren't ready" to join a FB group don't just ignore this post? You have legitimate reasons for not wanting to. Let people who ARE interested seek it out. They have legitimate reasons too. But, it's the same vocal people who have to be snarky and tell OP to stop posting. Why can't the other side just stop reading posts that don't interest them?
I know this will likely put me on a post it somewhere, but I honestly just don't get why there needs to be the negative responses. If you don't want to join a FB just don't read the post. To me, that seems fairly simple. There's no need to make those who do want the group feel like they are wrong just because they don't agree.
Early in 2nd tri, a FB group is created (FBG#1)
Bunch of Bumpies joined
BMB gets sloooowwww
Bumpies left behind want to join FBG#1
Members of FBG#1 say no, we don't know you guys (even tho many were long time Bumpies and early posters on the BMB)
Left behind Bumpies create FBG#2
Some member of FBG#1 join FBG#2; personal info is shared across groups => FBgate 2011
Much drama ensues
BMB is decimated by defections to FBG#1 and FBG#2
Crickets.
You're a bit creepy.
I'm on a PGAL board on FB. I went to TTCAL, PGAL, and PAL with them. I've met my best friends on that group but it took us that long to get a group going on FB and we knew each other for years.
CAUTIOUSLY expecting Jace in July August 2014
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And she's an admin of the group!
Baby O born 7/17/12
Baby3 due 8/4/16
Who can see things on my timeline?"
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Crazy people...the world and the Bump are full of them
CAUTIOUSLY expecting Jace in July August 2014